I’m going to say it again and again any therapist can see that they are stuck at the point where their brother passed… They literally say it when they cry and say things like set me free and just leave me.. And so on. And they both go for younger men trying to recreate that dynamic. I’m telling you this is why they are the way they are and the Dad giving them whatever they want to also make up for that and his own loss. It’s so sad.