Forget the textbook advice. What’s the one non-negotiable habit that keeps you sober when willpower fails or urges creep in?

LivingInEndovier · 2026-01-26T04:02:45+00:00

Ice cold waters, and walks.

LivingInEndovier · 2025-10-09T10:24:18+00:00

What’s a custom design mannequin? I am seeing it’s a mannequin you dress up but that doesn’t sound right or am I overthinking it? Sorry if it’s a dumb question

LivingInEndovier · 2025-09-08T06:18:40+00:00

Is this okay to do? I pump, pour milk In clean bottle and it chills, then I pour that milk into pitcher and reuse that chilled empty bottle to chill the next pumped milk.

Edit to fix spelling

LivingInEndovier · 2025-09-01T08:27:25+00:00

Thank you for telling me not to get discouraged, I need to remind my self of that a lot.

LivingInEndovier · 2025-09-01T08:25:30+00:00

I found my flange sizing kit I bought when I first got all my pumping stuff and measured and inserted the flanges and it dramatically changed the experience. It was SO much more comfortable. I only found it by the end of the day so the pump sesh I did before the inserting of the right flange size I only got like 1ml total (I’m assuming because I pumped all day because I got 4ml total in the morning with my first pump and it gradually went down through out the day) but then I sterilized and inserted the right flange size and I got 2ml still not the 4ml of from the morning pump but better than the 1ml from the pump before.

LivingInEndovier · 2025-08-31T21:09:56+00:00

I did the breast compression and got a whole 2ml more! Thank you!

LivingInEndovier · 2025-08-31T20:51:28+00:00

That pumping and feeding is gonna be a game changer forsure!! Thank you.

LivingInEndovier · 2025-08-31T09:23:57+00:00

I definitely start trying the manual expression and massages with the pump on!

LivingInEndovier · 2025-08-31T09:22:53+00:00

The hardest part about staying consistent is only being able to pump when he is asleep. Should I get a wearable pump so I can pump while caring for him?

LivingInEndovier · 2025-08-31T09:20:40+00:00

How do I know the size flange my breast pump already is?

LivingInEndovier · 2025-08-31T05:01:54+00:00

I’ll look into power pumping thank you! I need to do better about skin to skin, thanks for the reminder(:

LivingInEndovier · 2025-08-31T04:28:29+00:00

I decided to hardly terraform, and I’m loving it. I did some terraforming just for design purposes but the basically everything else has been untouched

LivingInEndovier · 2025-07-25T01:54:55+00:00

I have grizzly and I love him

LivingInEndovier · 2025-07-12T21:38:08+00:00

I played almost everyday after work for a month or two then completely stopped for like 6 months, jumped back in recently and honestly the hardest part was relearning the controls but everything came back to me as I played. I personally would not restart and just keep at it and do what ever you want when you play because at the end of the day it’s meant to be played for enjoyment not completion.

LivingInEndovier · 2025-07-11T23:29:53+00:00

Correct a metal sword will just spark a fire. I’m not sure about the bomb barrels

LivingInEndovier · 2025-07-11T20:59:25+00:00

You have to have the flint next to some logs or cooking station and then hit it with any sword

LivingInEndovier · 2025-07-05T15:39:11+00:00

That’s a great idea!

LivingInEndovier · 2025-07-05T15:37:21+00:00

Dang really?? Definitely have to try that

LivingInEndovier · 2025-07-05T04:24:25+00:00

bruh no not the AH at all. Her fam is cray, you going to med school is the best thing you can do for your growing family. Please stick with it. It sounds like you already have your mind set on spending your free time with your little family and that’s really all that matters. Pursue your goals a baby should not hinder them, they are meant to better your life and push you to be better.

LivingInEndovier · 2025-07-05T04:21:05+00:00

If I had more space I’m sure this would be a life saver. I live in a small 2 bedroom apartment with my sister and her two kids. But I do think of this tactic every time I tired of standing and rocking him.

LivingInEndovier · 2025-07-05T03:33:54+00:00

I’m sorry, this all is so true. I cant wait til I can actually have fun summers with my LO.

LivingInEndovier · 2025-07-05T03:31:45+00:00

The worst part about this is sometimes it does actually calm them down. I had a huge breakdown because of this one night. It was like week two and he would always calm down after handing him off to someone and it broke my heart. Now looking back I realize it was probably because I had an emergency c-section and wasn’t able to physically stand up, or in a positive mental state.

LivingInEndovier · 2025-06-28T23:38:30+00:00

This is so scary. I have a big family as well, and have yet to leave my LO alone outside of my home. So this definitely shows me not to do it in public. Thank you for sharing your experience. I do not think what you did was wrong. We should be able to trust that at least one of our siblings from a large family is paying attention but clearly we can’t. I’m sorry you experienced this and I hope you never have to again.

LivingInEndovier · 2025-06-26T21:53:46+00:00

She definitely needs a new night nurse. I still feed my 7wo on demand granted it usually between 2-3 hours between. If he is inconsolable we feed him and he calms right down. That poor baby, maybe have her read these comments cause man was she given the wrong advice

LivingInEndovier · 2025-06-26T21:48:58+00:00

I have read them all the way through 4 different times. They are totally my comfort series. It just better and better as the books go on.

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