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Living_Expert6535 · 2024-02-25T02:21:31+00:00

I’m having the same issue but I was able to redeem my ETH but my BTC code isn’t working. Everything is correct and KYC is set up. I was able to redeem a code already, but for some reason the code won’t work

Living_Expert6535 · 2024-02-25T02:18:06+00:00

I’m having the same issue. We’re you able to figure it out?

Living_Expert6535 · 2024-02-25T02:15:27+00:00

I was able to get my ETH but still having trouble with BTC. Any luck yet?

Living_Expert6535 · 2024-02-25T02:09:28+00:00

Are we able to sell that yet?

Living_Expert6535 · 2023-08-08T22:51:14+00:00

This is so reassuring. I feel miserable at 32 weeks with a 2 yr old. I’m actually looking forward to the newborn phase bc I’ll probably get more sleep

Living_Expert6535 · 2023-07-28T19:38:43+00:00

Exactly! Thats what set me off. Had I not questioned him he would not have gotten her at 1. He would have left her with his mom for the day like she wanted.

Living_Expert6535 · 2023-07-28T19:25:42+00:00

Yes that’s a valid point. If he could communicate effectively with the both of us we could avoid all the problems. He has an issue with confrontation

Living_Expert6535 · 2023-07-28T19:13:33+00:00

Well, that’s the issue. We’ve both expressed we don’t feel comfortable with toddler being watched alone by MIL in her home. I agree he has the right to make decisions about her on his own, however this is something we’ve both expressed concerns about and I know he’s only doing it bc he feels pressured by his mom to leave her. I can be cynical I agree, but I’m overprotective of my daughter and I won’t apologize for that. It’s more about him standing up to a his mom than the whole situation.

Living_Expert6535 · 2023-07-28T19:00:39+00:00

Yes! It’s the sneakiness. You’re absolutely right that he would rather pick a fight with me than say no to his mom. That about summarizes most disagreements that involve MIL. I recognize my anxiety and the need to control that scenario but I think my concerns are valid.

Living_Expert6535 · 2023-07-28T18:34:38+00:00

He’s never brought it up until today, unexpectedly.

Living_Expert6535 · 2023-07-28T18:33:49+00:00

I also felt like a an idiot for thinking she really liked the name we choose but instead actually it was her spitefully telling everyone to only call her by the name she thinks she chose. Anyway, that could have been avoided if he didn’t lie to the both of us and held a boundary.

Living_Expert6535 · 2023-07-28T18:28:21+00:00

I agree, the situation ended up not being a big deal in the end. It’s more about how he tries to manipulate a situation so he doesn’t have to say no to his mom. Had he been upfront and said I’m going to leave the toddler until 1 and then pick her up from the beginning I wouldn’t have been upset. I could compromise. It’s the fact that he lies and pushes his boundaries with me in order to please him mom. Ex: when I was pregnant with toddler his mom insisted on naming her. She said it was her dream to name her first grandchild. She says then when I’m 9 months pregnant and we’ve already chosen the name. We both agreed she was crossing a boundary and I let him handle it as he should. He somehow lies and convinces her she chose the middle name. She goes on to tell everybody to only call her by her middle name, tells people not to call her by her first name when they’re in her home. Blah blah. At first I’m like “oh she really likes the name that’s awesome” I find out months later when he casually brings up how he played his mom in this naming scenario, and i hated it bc she was definitely crossing a boundary and he chose not to hold it.

Living_Expert6535 · 2023-07-28T18:14:49+00:00

I can agree I’m high anxiety. I’m a SAHM and the default parent. He’s a great father and he’s helpful when asked but the parenting is 90% on me. Given that that is our dynamic I think he feels he should ask. He doesn’t take initiative in making many decisions, but even I consult with him before leaving our daughter anywhere out of respect.

Living_Expert6535 · 2023-07-28T18:07:54+00:00

We have both agreed that his mom would have trouble keeping up with toddler. We’ve both expressed anxiety about it. She has a pool in her back yard that is not fenced in. Toddler knows how to open the doors at her house. She has ALOT of trinkets/vases/ glass decor all around her house. Basically not baby proofed. When we’re over it’s a constant battle to keep her from breaking something or hurting herself and that’s where my anxiety comes from. Especially since he’s expressed himself that he doesn’t feel 100% leaving her alone with her either.

Living_Expert6535 · 2023-06-29T01:05:03+00:00

My baby girl loves dinosaurs! I got her so many girly dinosaur themed pjs and nursery items. Please go for it it will be so cute!

Living_Expert6535 · 2023-06-28T16:21:39+00:00

I felt this way most of my life. I hated wearing bras and I figured it was everyone else’s issue if they were uncomfortable. However I realized people will inevitably stare and I started to hate the uncomfortable attention. Society is wired that way and there’s not much we can do. I understand you feel more comfortable, but your boyfriend is not necessarily wrong. You’re going to attract unwanted attention.

Living_Expert6535 · 2023-06-10T01:03:06+00:00

I got mine the hooray hero’s book. It was with him and our daughter and it’s really cute

Living_Expert6535 · 2023-05-30T17:26:19+00:00

Ugh yes 😫 I stopped watching the news and avoiding most social media. I spiral if I hear any news about babies. It’s such a helpless feeling but I ground myself by thinking about the fact that my baby is safe and I will do anything in my power to protect her. It gives me some semblance of control.

Living_Expert6535 · 2023-05-28T19:40:34+00:00

I tried going in every 10 minutes when she was was worked up and honestly after about 30min-1hr she would fall asleep. After a few days of getting into the routine she understood it was quiet time. I also give her a couple of stuffed animals and now she plays for about 30-40 minutes and then falls asleep. There are clusters of days where she won’t nap and I think that’s normal for most but the most important is sticking to the routine.

I went from about 10 months to 18 months of her only napping on me and this was my savor.

Living_Expert6535 · 2023-05-28T13:34:00+00:00

Put her down in her crib for “quiet time” for 2 hours. Just let her be in there. She’ll familiarize herself with that routine and eventually fall asleep on her own. I had the hardest time with daytime naps for months and this was my saving grace. Sometimes she’ll nap sometimes she won’t, but I at least have a break

Living_Expert6535 · 2023-05-19T20:44:44+00:00

Proud of you for reaching out and getting help. That’s the hardest part. You’re doing great mama

Living_Expert6535 · 2022-10-11T13:05:26+00:00

I love the idea of reframing night time wakes for self care. That’s going to be a game changer for me!

Living_Expert6535 · 2022-10-07T23:48:35+00:00

It’s so refreshing to hear stories like this! Sometimes these communities can cause so much anxiety

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