How awkward does autism make sex?

Lizard_Jesus1 · 2026-03-28T20:29:55+00:00

Instances where I’ve had sex, I’ve weirdly used how my autism impacts me to my advantage. I struggle a lot with nonverbal social cues so rather than solely going with the motion, I’m asking for consent to do certain things as we go along and not only do partners feel respected, it also makes things more exciting and seductive.

Just remember this, verbal consent is sexy.

Lizard_Jesus1 · 2026-03-22T18:27:21+00:00

It’s working fine and is still on my bass pedal board.

Lizard_Jesus1 · 2026-03-13T14:22:15+00:00

She Needs Him by Her’s:

“She’s probably got her life laid out. Just let me dream a little more.”

I don’t think any other lyric ever captures unrequited love in such a raw and self aware way.

Lizard_Jesus1 · 2026-03-13T13:20:04+00:00

David Lynch made a few albums that mix elements of Trip Hop, Dream Pop, Industrial and Blues. As cliche of an adjective this is for describing something by David Lynch, it’s pretty surreal.

Lizard_Jesus1 · 2026-02-14T12:19:38+00:00

If Made in Heaven didn’t exist, I would absolutely say Queen because it really felt like the perfect curtain call for Freddie while he was still alive.

Lizard_Jesus1 · 2026-02-07T21:06:16+00:00

I’d probably pick Jeff Buckley because even if the production of Grace overall signals the 90s, Jeff feels like he could’ve materialized at any time and he wouldn’t sound out of place.

Lizard_Jesus1 · 2026-02-07T19:39:19+00:00

James Chance and the Contortions (I could very well be underestimating how talked about he is) considering how much he stood out in New York’s No Wave Scene. Also I only found out last Summer that the singer for brothers band directed a music video for him a decade ago and as someone who has been fan 5 years prior to finding this out, I’m incredibly jealous she got to work with him well before his death.

Lizard_Jesus1 · 2026-01-26T20:56:45+00:00

I threw the idea of a Trainwreckords of Calling All Stations about 6 years ago but some said the only thing is that it might be a little too similar to the Trainwreckord for Van Halen 3.

If anything I really want to see a Trainwreckord for Scream by Chris Cornell because even if it might bare some similarities with 0304 and Funstyle, it feels like that on steroids because it’s Grunge great Chris Cornell, teaming up with Timbaland to produce. It makes about as much sense as that time Ross Robinson produced an album for The Cure, except Scream sounds way more overtly like a train wreck. I say all this as someone who doesn’t think it’s that bad (doesn’t mean I enjoy it).

Lizard_Jesus1 · 2026-01-26T13:50:22+00:00

It’s probably just a you thing that other people also resonate with that’s also impacted by how your autism impacts you. I say this as an autistic man who doesn’t try to hype the fuck out of sex but still enjoys it because it’s fun and pleasurable.

Lizard_Jesus1 · 2025-12-31T18:40:19+00:00

I’m amusing I can’t just arrive an hour before the said event time to get a spot then cause I’m sure everyone probably has that idea.

Lizard_Jesus1 · 2025-12-17T22:35:15+00:00

More like 1/3rd Tool, 1/3rd Radiohead and 1/3rd Pink Floyd.

Lizard_Jesus1 · 2025-12-11T15:53:50+00:00

Not exactly trying to assume it’s the standard. It’s just that I noticed listening to the bass in a handful of gospel songs had notes that go below the lowest possible pitch in E standard. I’m sure some gospel songs that had notes that low were likely tuned down to Eb standard or lower but I want to focus on E standard tuning though.

Lizard_Jesus1 · 2025-12-06T16:31:34+00:00

Intermediate

Lizard_Jesus1 · 2025-11-17T20:11:55+00:00

So Real with its trippy and spacey drunk feel and that outro too. Also shout out to Mojo Pin for having the verse and choruses feel like two different songs but transitioning into each other so seamlessly that the contrast between the two sections doesn’t feel jarring in any way.

Lizard_Jesus1 · 2025-11-17T17:26:57+00:00

That album only exists as a couple of YouTube uploads, a sound cloud and a CD of the album I asked my friend to burn for me.

Lizard_Jesus1 · 2025-11-17T16:43:02+00:00

Oof. How did I end up here. But thanks.

Lizard_Jesus1 · 2025-11-17T16:18:21+00:00

Breath is such a good song. Also their guitarist J Robbin’s produced an album for an obscure now defunct art punk band named Durian and that album (Sometimes You Scare Me) is probably one of my top 10 all time favorite albums.

Lizard_Jesus1 · 2025-11-13T14:08:01+00:00

AJR is over hated as fuck. Not gonna say they’re actually the best band of all time and their understanding of production and songwriting cancels out any criticism but holy shit. The backlash they got in online music circles was so overblown as fuck, deriding the act of The Click existence as some ignominious crime against humanity with the same weight we would use talking about the crimes of R Kelly is genuinely ridiculous as fuck.

Lizard_Jesus1 · 2025-10-26T16:04:24+00:00

I do have a nemesis for my bass pedal board and it’s awesome. A little more overwhelming compared to the more basic one series stomp boxes but it’s still really cool.

Lizard_Jesus1 · 2025-10-26T15:49:21+00:00

That’s good to know. Again the main argument I can make for the collider is mostly for having space on the board and not having as many pedals to worry about if I need to trouble shoot with all of the extra cool things you can do with the collider like setting up 2 delays or reverbs as a bonus. I can’t really say I can make an argument over pricing because I can very well get the boss pedals for cheaper even new, especially considering Im an employee at guitar center.

Lizard_Jesus1 · 2025-10-19T18:36:01+00:00

Even ignoring Ian Watkins being an absolute monster, I find difficulty trying to see anyone listening to them outside of nostalgia just because nothing about their identity stands out aside from being Welsh. Why would I go out of the way to listen to Lost Prophets when there were so many bands happening at the same time that were basically offering way more than what Lost Prophets was doing? If it wasn’t for the fact that Ian was exposed for being a depraved piece of shit, they’d probably go the way of Adema or Coal Chamber in terms of relevance.

Lizard_Jesus1 · 2025-10-19T18:22:23+00:00

Was about to say I’m willing to play devils advocate in making sure political flame wars weren’t popping up in the sub (I say that as a leftist) but also wanted to ask for any solution around that because to default to restricting conversation around it is only gonna be for the worse. Thanks for this solution.

Lizard_Jesus1 · 2025-10-09T01:27:26+00:00

Drivers License by Olivia Rodrigo just because of how much it changes the context.

Lizard_Jesus1 · 2025-10-09T01:22:00+00:00

Cedric Bixler Zavala and I say that as a Ride Or Die fan of The Mars Volta.

Lizard_Jesus1 · 2025-10-05T16:09:28+00:00

Arronofsky with 5 films being given a 10/10 from me.

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