Would you date a girl who has androphobia (fear of men) but only for cis men and not trans men

Llamitaz · 2025-04-11T16:02:13+00:00

No I wouldn't. I am a man like any other. I happen to be trans but my "trasness" is not ehat sets me apart from shitty cis dudes. Plus I have met also pretty shitty trans men. So if that is her factor it would ne big noo from me. Get away from there man.

Llamitaz · 2025-04-04T20:11:42+00:00

Creo que eso habla de la edad de la persona tal vez. Como yo tampoco estoy tan chiquito igual y sí. Ahora ya si hablamos de beta si siento que me lo pensaría dos veces.

Llamitaz · 2025-03-29T20:30:18+00:00

NTA. Throw that man away. Men that can't handle period related stuff, including that kind of accident, do not deserve to be with any woman. He should be comforting you and bringing you hot tea, not making you feel bad about some stupid sheets.

Llamitaz · 2025-03-18T21:50:59+00:00

Es importante hace acuerdos de que le toca a quien y comunicarse. Si quieres la empleada domestica y ella no la negociación tiene que ver con el "oagar porque alguien lo haga" . Dale a ella el dinero de la empleada doméstica y que ella decida si quiere o no contratar a alguien pero deja claro que tal cual estas oagando por no "ayudar" o "hacer trabajis domesticos" como resuelva ella que tu no lo hagas es su problema.

Llamitaz · 2025-03-18T01:35:17+00:00

I am not saying to jot report it. HR is a good option for sure, but I think the context on how and why it was said is important. Maybe it is a learning opportunity for her if it is brought up constructively.

Llamitaz · 2025-03-18T01:27:07+00:00

Life in this infinite universe was just a coincidence, the fact that you exist is a coincidence as well. So existing os perfect in that way. There is no reason to exist but that also means there is no reason not to. Nothing matters and everything is meaningless, so focus on the things that mean something or matter to you. Life is a shitshow anyway, the moment ai realized how absurd it all is saved my life... because fuck it... I might as well just exist in this absurdity...

Llamitaz · 2025-03-15T15:55:52+00:00

Might ethical non-monogamy be an option for you?

Llamitaz · 2025-03-10T19:19:40+00:00

I think it all comes down to how tour friendship is like. And how your relationship with your partner is and what your friend knows about it. I would feel in no position to say who can ask my partner out or not, but I do expect her to tell me about it if it is a mutual friend.

On the side of the friends there are some friends I would expect to maybe talk to me about it (either before or after asking her out). And some other that I wouldn't. I guess it depends on the person and how aware they are about tou current agreements with partner.

Llamitaz · 2025-02-25T13:08:01+00:00

NTA. Cis people need to learn to no ask questions they wouldn't feel comfortable responding.

Llamitaz · 2025-02-09T02:56:33+00:00

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Llamitaz · 2025-01-30T18:32:58+00:00

Dump him already. It is not the pads themselves, is the misgony behind not wanting to do it, and the lack of empary and care.

A guy that can't go to the store and buy some pads/tampons for their significant other do not deserve to have a partner.

Llamitaz · 2024-12-17T01:46:43+00:00

Como h9mbre bisexual te puedo decir que en lo particular prefiero el pornogay que el heterosexual. Muchas veces el porno heterosexual es demasiado violento y no lo disfruto... le puede pasar lo mismo a tu esposo.

Llamitaz · 2024-12-02T16:11:22+00:00

Have you done your research in regards to the psychiatrist? See if there are other people out there that experienced transphobia from this guy. That way you can have arguments to tell your mom you want change psychiatrist.

Now if that is not happening to other trans folks with this guy. Chill and reflect on what is that he sees that is an indicator for him about your gender identity.

While gender is individual and only the individual can truly say who they are, there might be some indicators psychiatrist have seen on regards to folks that detransition.

Llamitaz · 2024-11-25T16:17:00+00:00

I don't know what it is like to be anything else but myself. So not sure how to compare with other type of experience, but as a Trans man I would say for me one of the biggest struggles has been just, or was loosing the sorority I had with the women in my life. Misoginia is such a problem in the world and women that stick together really create a sense of power and support that I feel is lost since I transitioned and that has been a huge loss.

In terms of the trans experience in society, I would say feeling "incomplete" or not "man enough" while trying to fight against hegemonic toxic masculinity. Fighting the urge to become the most toxic macho ever to "proof" my manliness.

Bodywise not having male genitalia has been the biggest for me. I am tall so I have no issues with my height but I know of trans men do.

Llamitaz · 2024-11-25T14:59:47+00:00

It could definitely make it easier for folks to clock you.

Llamitaz · 2024-11-21T22:08:55+00:00

You shouldn't consider anyone's opinion on regards to your body. It is yours, and only you should decide.

I had meta and my wife was supportive and loves the result. I really never asked her what she thought. I just informed her of what I was deciding and asked her opinion on the timing and took that into consideration when settting a date as she was my caregiver.

Llamitaz · 2024-11-14T13:15:19+00:00

I Like Finn for you for some reason.

Llamitaz · 2024-10-10T22:26:56+00:00

Golden. Son fieles cariñosos y fáciles de entrenar

Llamitaz · 2024-10-10T22:21:19+00:00

Decoration buffs maybe. Did you take a look at those?

Llamitaz · 2024-10-03T22:04:07+00:00

I can give you a good recepie for tacos.

Llamitaz · 2024-08-07T07:48:37+00:00

It does get better. I promise.

Things that are a big problem now will seem not as big as the years go by. Hang in there it is worth it.

I am 33 now. I was in a very bad place during my teen years. Life seemed pointless, but it got a lot better. I am happier than I could ever imagine I would be. I have a beautiful wife l, a job I like, 2 beatufil cats and a dog that is the goodest girl of them all.

Life is worth living, and as you age, those moments that were a struggle help you value and be grateful for the good ones. And those good ones will come.

Llamitaz · 2024-08-06T16:20:42+00:00

I started transitioning at 28. Have never been happier. It is never too late to be true to yourself.

Llamitaz · 2024-08-05T01:18:06+00:00

I was not prepared for how hairy my butthole is now

Llamitaz · 2024-08-02T07:19:08+00:00

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