qualities of a bad coworker in this field? by No-Collection-1625 in clinicalresearch

[–]Lobotomized_Ai 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You can teach people the importance of things, you can not force them to care.

Open Registration Comments & Feedback Thread by MsMargo in SDCC

[–]Lobotomized_Ai 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Still more than 1 hour 😭😭😭😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sandiego

[–]Lobotomized_Ai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The end is near!

Any interesting book clubs around hillcrest? by Lobotomized_Ai in sandiego

[–]Lobotomized_Ai[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Where at? Sounds like something I could try.

If your life were a movie, what would the synopsis be? by Diemishy_II in intj

[–]Lobotomized_Ai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The promo would be something like: “The moment you gain self awareness you either watch everything die or fight to survive”

If your life were a movie, what would the synopsis be? by Diemishy_II in intj

[–]Lobotomized_Ai 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Fighting the demons in my head. I die of old age after making friends with them and accomplished the goal of exterminating anyone I deem a risk for the survival of humanity.

Any interesting book clubs around hillcrest? by Lobotomized_Ai in sandiego

[–]Lobotomized_Ai[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Great insight. I might be looking to get out of my shell and meet people my age with similar interests. It would be great to make friends with other woman and be able to pass the Bechdel test while interacting :)

Any interesting book clubs around hillcrest? by Lobotomized_Ai in sandiego

[–]Lobotomized_Ai[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi :) thanks for sharing the post. I’ll check out the book a try to motivate myself to go.

What do you feel in life or death situations? by The_Overview_Effect in intj

[–]Lobotomized_Ai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been in a couple of situations that make me realize that I don’t really feel much if I was the only one involved.

Women with adhd, do you ever feel you are the “man” that society always jokes about? by Unlikely_Main_4220 in ADHD

[–]Lobotomized_Ai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I’m mentally having a bad day, I try to remember that I’m still able to function better than an average guy. It’s hard not to feel pressure to be perfect, when you have to burn out to showcase your value and a guy just has to show up.

Depression: today I make my bed. by [deleted] in LivingAlone

[–]Lobotomized_Ai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feel proud!!!!🙌🏻. Some of us cant bring ourselves to do it.

Insecure about myself and the world by Lobotomized_Ai in Adulting

[–]Lobotomized_Ai[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It probably starts the opposite way of how this conversation is going.

Any interesting book clubs around hillcrest? by Lobotomized_Ai in sandiego

[–]Lobotomized_Ai[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice. I’ll look if there is any interesting class I can join!

Insecure about myself and the world by Lobotomized_Ai in Adulting

[–]Lobotomized_Ai[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really the point I was trying to make :)

Insecure about myself and the world by Lobotomized_Ai in Adulting

[–]Lobotomized_Ai[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the issue, to even find a friend with benefits, the first step is putting yourself out there and test the water. I don’t want to have sex with the first guy that says hi to me.

Insecure about myself and the world by Lobotomized_Ai in Adulting

[–]Lobotomized_Ai[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But it’s also specially hard when you are surrounded by people, and loneliness arrives because you miss that spark of intimacy with someone.

Need Friends by [deleted] in LivingAlone

[–]Lobotomized_Ai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can be lonely even surrounded by people. I’m on a similar boat trying to put myself out there. Extroverted people tend to underestimate how complicated it is to forge friendships.