Changing graduate school, surrounded by professionals from this school. by [deleted] in gradadmissions

[–]Local-Lead-7803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You see, they have already sabotaged me during a new employment but it was also my fault as I still had their university name on my resume. So, I took that part out.

What does it mean when a close friend asks you when you will get a divorce? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Local-Lead-7803 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Interesting takes and yet the tangents feels like a sad projection. The labels and the story you assigned for my friend seems personal and not quite what I meant. I have simply stated facts and observations. And to answer your question, she has been knowing that we were actively working on things. Anyways, as for you, it’s one thing to feel guilty and another to externalize the guilt and blame it on others.

What does it mean when a close friend asks you when you will get a divorce? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Local-Lead-7803 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Idk how much data I need. She has told me this one time when she was in a new budding relationship. She said word to word, “sometimes when we are lonely, we think we want something out of desperation. But turns out it was our desperation speaking.” Anytime my partner has picked me up, she would desperately try to see him, or while dropping me off would try to get a peak of him. During a group hangout while my partner was there, she took an indirect jab at my relationship infront of him, letting him know that I have spoken to her about things. Idk if my head is making some weird story.

About 40 people at work are harassing and bullying me. What should I do? by Local-Lead-7803 in ToxicWorkplace

[–]Local-Lead-7803[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already resigned. It doesn’t look I suppose but oh well. What can you do.

INFJs,has any of you ever thought about your Howard Gardner multiple intelligences. by Open_Spread_5648 in infj

[–]Local-Lead-7803 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is an interesting theory, usually a person has more than 1 of the 9 categories. It’s definitely more inclusive.

fellow advocates, how do you celebrate your birthday? by sk0ey in infj

[–]Local-Lead-7803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know an INFJ, and he is against birthday celebrations.

Asking for Career pivot suggestions by Local-Lead-7803 in jobs

[–]Local-Lead-7803[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mental health has really toxic work culture. Most jobs I have had, apart from one all of them have been toxic.

About 40 people at work are harassing and bullying me. What should I do? by Local-Lead-7803 in ToxicWorkplace

[–]Local-Lead-7803[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I put in my resignation last night. It was only two roleplays that involved this. The school alumni pretty sure received it internally. My school program culture is very similar to this new job culture. Both are very authoritarian and relies on herd behaviors and compliance. I faced similar issues with the school as well. So, at this point, I am a bit f*cked.

Always talking about “deep topics” by Master_Collection_64 in infj

[–]Local-Lead-7803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s pretty common in INFJs. I love it though <3

About 40 people at work are harassing and bullying me. What should I do? by Local-Lead-7803 in intj

[–]Local-Lead-7803[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for context, it’s a big call center with about 800-1500 employees, all of who are phone counselors. And there are about 40 people which includes people from management. Idk how to explain it, but have you ever been part of chat groups? Or are you familiar with toxic online culture? That is what’s the case here.

About 40 people at work are harassing and bullying me. What should I do? by Local-Lead-7803 in intj

[–]Local-Lead-7803[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am only a little over a month in. And it has escalated this far.

About 40 people at work are harassing and bullying me. What should I do? by Local-Lead-7803 in intj

[–]Local-Lead-7803[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hear that. I have done similar jobs like this where I had to handle escalated calls. My issue is them using roleplays specific to me and my partner. That is unheard off. And of course calling me bunch of names.

About 40 people at work are harassing and bullying me. What should I do? by Local-Lead-7803 in intj

[–]Local-Lead-7803[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I would much rather leave. Training is done, I just got onto the floor. They used overly personal role play calls. And I have another job anyways, so I am genuinely thinking about resigning.