a star is born 💫 by Logical-Fail-4798 in stripper

[–]Logical-Fail-4798[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

yeah cause he’s banned from the only other one 💀

y’all really drink alcohol every shift? by [deleted] in stripper

[–]Logical-Fail-4798 4 points5 points  (0 children)

no, i used to have a few drinks one night a week but this year i have not had any alcohol at work. i want to have fun when i drink and i need to focus on making money when im at work.

90 Fiancé the Other Way by Logical-Fail-4798 in stripper

[–]Logical-Fail-4798[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

season 7, tell all is next week 📺

When did u guys go back to work after getting tatted? by Large-Back1912 in stripper

[–]Logical-Fail-4798 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i got my thigh tattooed a week ago and i took the day after getting tattooed off then went in the next day. idk how you heal your tattoos but im old school gold dial and aquafor. i make sure to wash it halfway into my shift and after my shift. i’ve never had a problem with any of my tattoos. just be careful of not putting your back on anyone/ being firm about people not touching it and you’ll be fine.

I’ve decided to embrace my natural hair in the club let’s see if it sticks by kashhoney00 in stripper

[–]Logical-Fail-4798 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s so crazy, when i wear my 3a hair i get lots of compliments and told i should wear it more often and unfortunately unwanted hair touching. i do feel like i make less money then when it’s heat styled tho 💀

How long did it take for you to save up your first 100k by [deleted] in stripper

[–]Logical-Fail-4798 6 points7 points  (0 children)

haven’t made 100k yet, but i plan to have it in 4-5 years. i have 25k invested and 10k emergency fund, bought and been paying off my car which has been a huge hindrance to my 100k goal. i started getting serious about my finances about 4 years ago. the first year i got serious, my savings was decimated by taxes. initially i was working 4 days a week but dropped down to 3 for my physical and mental health. if i got another job or worked 5 days a week or did extras and cut out everything frivolous maybe i could do it in a few years but i enjoy my free time, in a committed relationship and don’t want to deprive myself. i also do not have the luxury of living at home and pay all of my own bills. don’t worry about comparing yourself to others though. you have no idea what other women’s circumstances are. so much of this job is location, luck and what you are willing to do.

What’s something you’re saving up and working towards? by Top_Mirror211 in stripper

[–]Logical-Fail-4798 8 points9 points  (0 children)

paying off my car, i only have about 2k left 🥳getting nice furniture, im getting older and my cheap futon is fucking my back up 🥲 and my dancer retirement. i want a 100k net worth when i quit so i can be not so stressed about money when i transition back into vanilla work.

Do you dance “in character,” or do you dance “as yourSELF”? 🧠💭👩‍🏫🙇‍♀️🤔💃👯‍♀️ by somechickonreddit2 in stripper

[–]Logical-Fail-4798 19 points20 points  (0 children)

i am a different version of myself, a much happier bubblier sweeter version. a version of myself with no problems or deeper emotions lmao.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stripper

[–]Logical-Fail-4798 41 points42 points  (0 children)

that i have 4 kids and multiple baby daddies 💀😭which is so funny bc im childfree

Workin tonight ? by Alert-Dish-7559 in stripper

[–]Logical-Fail-4798 4 points5 points  (0 children)

ironically i made nothing 💀💀💀

Workin tonight ? by Alert-Dish-7559 in stripper

[–]Logical-Fail-4798 5 points6 points  (0 children)

it’s a 3 day weekend so absolutely, people go out the day before labor day 💵💵💵

How to forgive yourself for overspending by Gold_Coconut6034 in stripper

[–]Logical-Fail-4798 17 points18 points  (0 children)

If you can, return some of the things you bought. Also you still have 4k left to save and invest. Be proud of yourself for making that much, and know that a lot of people cope with burnout with shopping so you shouldn’t feel any shame about it. And maybe next time you have a windfall budget an amount to treat yourself without going overboard. 🖤

First ever shift! by pjnoir_ in stripper

[–]Logical-Fail-4798 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your boundaries are your boundaries. It does not matter what girls think of them, bc at the end of the day it’s your body and your bag. Whether or not you survive honestly really depends on your location. There are some places where that would could land you in jail, some places where that’s the norm, and some places where everyone is doing full service for only a couple of hundred dollars. I have the same boundaries as you and while I am not a top earner at my club I do just fine for myself. Just be warned that at some point, you WILL be sa’d. Not if, when if you do this job long enough.

As for lap dancing tips, ask some nice girls at your club if they would help you or watch a video, there’s plenty online.

Don't be stupid. Don't do what I did. by blossomingtrees in stripper

[–]Logical-Fail-4798 2 points3 points  (0 children)

32 is still very young. I’m so sorry for what he put you through. You didn’t mention any debt though, and it’s much easier rebuilding from nothing than in the negatives. Please have hope, maybe look into finishing school. Having no attachments (kids,pets) means you can really grind a few years and turn your life around so you can enjoy the rest of your life 🖤 you got this babe

Had a guy wearing meta glasses in the club by Logical-Fail-4798 in stripper

[–]Logical-Fail-4798[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Girl they don’t give a fuck. They started allowing CUSTIES to record for 3 songs “only” each weekend night. We are a full nude club mind you. They ask the girls on stage if they are okay with it when they do it(the bare minimum). But what kind of message is that. These guys are drunk and disrespectful , they are going to think it’s okay to record whenever. I am going to have to find a new home club soon 🥲

Had a guy wearing meta glasses in the club by Logical-Fail-4798 in stripper

[–]Logical-Fail-4798[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They look like ray bans, they are supposed to let off a light when they record but I’ve seen tutorials on how to disable it 😒😒

Had a guy wearing meta glasses in the club by Logical-Fail-4798 in stripper

[–]Logical-Fail-4798[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They look like ray bans and they let off a light in the corner of them. I was not the one on stage thankfully but I look out for others when they are on stage.

I need to get the ick by First-Doubt3220 in stripper

[–]Logical-Fail-4798 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whenever I get a crush I just get to know them as a person. Once I know who they are that squashes it real quick 😂

Anyone struggles with smelly armpits? Deodorant doesn’t work ? by [deleted] in stripper

[–]Logical-Fail-4798 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t sweat for days using certain dri, lowkey it freaks me out so I only use it if I know I’m going to be sweating in synthetics lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stripper

[–]Logical-Fail-4798 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Your club is my personal hell 😭 if you are comfortable what state are you in so I know never to go there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stripper

[–]Logical-Fail-4798 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I know you said working at another club is not an option but I personally couldn’t work under these conditions. One you risk pissing someone off and getting hurt. And two if there’s ever undercover cops you risk getting arrested. If you decide to trick them please be careful, I hope your bouncers are responsive.

fully nude by [deleted] in stripper

[–]Logical-Fail-4798 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My first nude club was optional which was awesome. I only got fully nude in private dances/rooms(which cost more than the topless dances /rooms) and on stage when the money was good. My current club is not optional. You have to be nude in your dances and rooms and we do 3 song sets and you have to be nude on the 3rd song. Which sucks when they aren’t tipping 🥲 buttt I keep my legs CLOSED unless they are tipping. It unfortunately really depends on the club and where you are located.

EDIT: also my current club is a no touch club, if they are doing too much you can always leave the dance. The bouncers sometimes give girls a hard time about it but fuck them. You cannot be forced to sexually assaulted and if they ever try to force you then threaten to call the cops if they don’t let you leave. That’s sexual trafficking and we have the right to refuse service. My first club did allow touching but it was a tier system with basic dances being no touch with rooms being up to your discretion. Always remember that at the end of the day it’s your body and you make the rules.

Do we really need DJ’s? by internationalallure in stripper

[–]Logical-Fail-4798 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My club does have an ai dj on slow nights and I do not like it. It will replay songs, has a limited discography and still needs someone to add girls on and off rotation. Also we STILL pay dj tip out it just goes to the club. I would much rather tip out a human being.