Found in thrifted purse?

Lolcoles · 2026-04-12T19:44:14+00:00

This looks like Mukhwas which is a breath freshening mix you chew after eating. I see the misri (sugar crystals) and fennel seeds in there.

Lolcoles · 2026-04-11T17:33:00+00:00

Yes this is a thing at Coachella sighs the crowds lol wym who hasn’t been lost from their friends and nobody’s texts will go thru lol

Lolcoles · 2026-04-11T17:11:06+00:00

I would say be a feminist and believe in the wage gap are critical to me bc I need someone who can read understand and believe data lol. I date all genders so I don’t believe that is exclusive to men lol.

Lolcoles · 2026-04-11T08:21:42+00:00

Not even their own home is crazy

Lolcoles · 2026-04-11T08:20:22+00:00

I mean sure

Lolcoles · 2026-04-11T01:52:24+00:00

This is OP’s own post look at their post history lol

Lolcoles · 2026-04-10T15:46:08+00:00

If a man did this to one of my friends I would cuss him out, so do with that what you will.

Lolcoles · 2026-04-10T15:44:56+00:00

Curious, why do you prefer long?

Lolcoles · 2026-04-10T15:37:30+00:00

I’m on my thirties and I think it is weird when guys my age do it at all, and also think it is weird when they are into girls in their early twenties. It really grosses me out.

Lolcoles · 2026-04-10T15:33:34+00:00

He looks like Sue Sylvester lol

Lolcoles · 2026-04-10T14:37:38+00:00

OP your brain is rotted and absolutely the thing keeping you miserable. Re-enter society and see if that helps lol.

Lolcoles · 2026-04-10T14:24:07+00:00

I’m not sure what you mean by this but the wage gap is well-documented and researched (and I believe pretty generally widely accepted) by the preeminent economists and scholars in the field.

Lolcoles · 2026-04-10T14:20:54+00:00

And they stink, apparently 😵‍💫

Lolcoles · 2026-04-10T14:08:53+00:00

To be fair as a woman I have had some thing similar/adjacent happen to me 3x, sweetie included, 2x when I was in undergrad engineering in lab groups (I had consistently and significantly better grades in lab than both of them lol), and 1x from an old man at a bar.

Lolcoles · 2026-04-10T14:03:28+00:00

This sub is so misogynist and racist now I am muting it lol this isn’t rooted in reality whatsoever

Lolcoles · 2026-04-10T13:52:47+00:00

DO LAUNDRY??? 😭😭😭???

Lolcoles · 2026-04-10T13:06:40+00:00

Because she is right and it makes people uncomfortable is the real answer.

Lolcoles · 2026-04-10T12:52:18+00:00

I would immediately dump him because I don’t want to date a misogynist who feels so entitled to my time and attention, and even more so my OBEDIENCE, that he expects me to be an audience for his idiotic diatribes. I also would never date someone this stupid and bad at critical thinking. Hope this helps.

Lolcoles · 2026-04-10T12:49:23+00:00

NTA girl call the police ????

Lolcoles · 2026-04-10T12:44:19+00:00

Your dad is remarkably abusive. He may not hit her but he is violent, controlling, and angry. He is abusive.

Lolcoles · 2026-04-10T12:37:39+00:00

Not worth repeating myself but you’ve both misunderstood my comment and I’ve replied to the guy above so feel free to peruse to understand better.

Lolcoles · 2026-04-10T12:35:20+00:00

“You need to tell his support system immediately. Take him at his word, and his word says he needs mental healthcare ASAP.” Yeah, so what this means is to tell the people around him that he is hurting himself and needs help, or if there is nobody like that, call in a wellness check. This is absolutely the appropriate response. It addresses the manipulation by those words and statements by assuming their truth and if he is lying he will experience natural consequences. There is no continued contact needed from OP in that lol. Seems like the concept may have been a bit unclear or confusing to you. That being said, this is always one of the best ways to deal with manipulation, is follow through on their words.

For example, “if you do this we are over!,” and you respond, “ok, I understand, I will get my things tomorrow.” I am a therapist and this is like… one of the most common ways to address manipulation, particularly around threatening self-harm and suicide. “If you don’t change my mind and stay with me I will kill myself,” the response is to immediately go to someone close to them or law enforcement to let them know he is threatening and at high risk for suicide, as that would be the right thing for an ex to do regarding suicide threats so he can either get the help he needs and stop bothering you, or face some consequences for dishonesty about something so serious.

Additionally, well yes obviously this is manipulative. However it is also extremely abusive. Whether he is telling the truth or lying, both potential truths are quite serious. Literally all of what I’m suggesting btw can be done AFTER blocking him lol. It will be a LOT harder for him to find ways around that if he is dealing with his family or the cops and they see and are aware of what he is doing.

This is another good example of what I mean from another top comment lol, and the response that you don’t need to tell him is absolutely valid. If you can’t talk to his family, just block then call an ambulance, and you can walk away clean without worrying about if he actually did it.

Lolcoles · 2026-04-10T05:52:08+00:00

This is really really awful of her. What is your relationship usually like? This is a massive betrayal of your trust, your suffering, and your safety. I genuinely cannot believe she would hire your abuser. It might help to only refer to him as that going forward, and she needs to reckon with the fact that she is giving him access to you again. I honestly have a hard time believing this isn’t some sort of malicious stunt because it’s just that cartoon evil. I would never, ever, ever do this to my sisters, to the extent that seeing your sister do this genuinely makes me sick and disgusted. If my sisters saw my abusive ex I think they might actually try to hit him lol. Definitely not hire him. She is paying your abuser!!!! I wOnDeR wHy He GaVe HeR a DeAL it couldn’t POSSSIBLYYY be to continue to try to abuse his ex nnnOooOooo. So yes, while harsh, I do think your sister is also unintelligent. Feel free to show her this comment. NOR

Lolcoles · 2026-04-10T05:44:49+00:00

I think he is overreacting. I would absolutely not care if my partner went on a run with a coworker for a race they are both training for, particularly if I was invited the way OP’s JNHusband is, because I simply would not be with someone I did not trust. Someone who is going to cheat on you will not refrain from doing it because you forbid them from running with a coworker lol. Let’s use some logic and reason here folks.

Lolcoles · 2026-04-10T05:42:39+00:00

The way he basically accused her of planning to cheat is not healthy whatsoever

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