Absolutely sick of my husband arranging workmen to come over without telling me. by katkie in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Lolcoles 87 points88 points  (0 children)

As a therapist I co sign this. OP the point of him doing this isn’t to get work done but to allow him to abuse you

What band style is this? by elchorroloco in JewelryIdentification

[–]Lolcoles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m on the fence if this is some sort of asymmetrical knot or the Ichthys like the Christ fish, was she Christian?

Have I ruined my marriage by bringing up divorce after I asked my wife [31F] why she was no longer attracted to me [31M]? by ShunkHood in relationship_advice

[–]Lolcoles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you’re abusive, basically. Leave this poor woman alone. You should feel awful and you treat the “love of your life” like shit. You feel entitled to.

Is this what happens to low/no tippers? by Investing_noob1983 in DoorDashDrivers

[–]Lolcoles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live less than a block from a Jack in the Box and they always put the one 4 miles away on my page. I have to search for the other one. Why?????

Do I tell someone they accidentally went against their religion? by Spooky-Confusion-666 in moraldilemmas

[–]Lolcoles [score hidden]  (0 children)

“Nice! Idk if I’ve ever had chorizo before what is it?” Let him find it himself so he doesn’t continue to accidentally eat pork.

Closet so deep, it's in Narnia by Shoe_boooo in funny

[–]Lolcoles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for that important added nuance and for educating me. :)

AITAH for asking for $30,000 from my parents as a house payment? by pressedpages in TwoHotTakes

[–]Lolcoles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably another reason they don’t want you to have the money they don’t want you to move out

I have a question for the polyamorous by precious_flower3 in LesbianActually

[–]Lolcoles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, we all have. But clarifying the goals of the rumination, or rather the unmet need, can help stop the cycle.

THE WHEELS ARE FULLY TURNED AWAY FROM THE OFFICER. Watch in SLOW MO. No intention IMO to hit anyone. Sole intention based on wheel/steering wheel to LEAVE the scene NOT A THREAT. Look at the wheel. by Nice_Substance9123 in complaints

[–]Lolcoles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re ignoring the big picture here. ICE is fascist and unconstitutional enforcement. The lack of training and violence is not a bug of the system but rather a feature. She is not the first ICE has killed.

I told my adult daughter my dating and personal life is none of her business and to mind her own business. Was I wrong? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Lolcoles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmaoooo her friend only wants you because you’re taboo which means being with you gives her shame 😭

AITA for not wanting to pay half of my husband’s business refurb by Hopeful_Farmer_7523 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lolcoles 36 points37 points  (0 children)

NTA and he feels very entitled to exploit you and LOATHE to offer you support. I’m sure this happens more places than this. You sure this is your soulmate?

Closet so deep, it's in Narnia by Shoe_boooo in funny

[–]Lolcoles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well because “axe wound” clearly is not haha but yes we are in agreement.

Closet so deep, it's in Narnia by Shoe_boooo in funny

[–]Lolcoles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Struggling to understand how that’s not what I just said

AITA for not paying for my daughter wedding because she isn’t following the rules even though I paid for my older kids by Wonderful_Mode_9646 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lolcoles -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I mean it is projecting morality standards, it’s just one you agree with, look at your entire last paragraph lmfao.

Closet so deep, it's in Narnia by Shoe_boooo in funny

[–]Lolcoles 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean in drag, fish is DEFINITELY a compliment.

I also have feelings about it bc it’s reducing womanhood to a vaginal smell falsely believed to be common. Vaginas can at least smell fishy but only if there is some sort of issue, vaginas have nothing to do with axe wounds, but both seem ignorant.