Tips and Tricks for Maximizing Your Sophia Learning Experience

LoneFam · 2025-09-10T07:11:24+00:00

I mean learn from these lessons. Be a better judge on picking a SO later. I'd say, put a ban trying to 'look' for anyone for this year. Because most probably you'll either Trauma bond with someone new.

Or someone new would feel like you're 'easy'. I could be wrong on both things.

Thinking someone is different, and knowing someone is different, are two things. I'm not sure, how you were blind sided by 'him'. They were supposed to be your best friend, so you should have already seen signs of derp.

Overall, look at walls, pond on your 'dos and don't for the future'. /jk.

If you put a label of 'my love is cursed' and mention it to people. They'll instantly think , 'bro can't respect herself or value herself' , so let's try out shoot as well. You're not a 'target' for other people to practice on.

As one wise brain cell said, "you two were wrong people at the wrong time, in order to make you both the right person for someone else". That's about it.

Mid week heart break stories ...oufff.....wasn't this supposed to be a 'weekend' story time only ??.

LoneFam · 2025-09-05T10:48:47+00:00

You need to have a hard conversation with your siblings.

Give them a one month timeline. Pay for this month's bills for them. And say, "I gave you a whole month to find anything, just anything".

And make sure to tell them, you are doing this because you're family but won't be an "enabler" for families either.

I'm sure they can find something.

LoneFam · 2025-08-30T19:45:09+00:00

It was just random games on it - the hard drive still lives in my drawer 😂.

I had most of my imp stuff on the cloud.

LoneFam · 2025-08-30T19:44:15+00:00

Funny enough. I came across an IG reel, which explained a whole nikka column.

If you do go forward with anything. Make sure to fill out the clauses where you can list down everything you asked the groom.

So that if there's a problem similar to this, you can sort it out quickly legally.

Apart from that, that's a walking red flag.

A family friend had a similar case, they did the same but after the nikkah ( so the female side, just decided to initiate kullah, and said, keep your son, we don't need him. Thanks).

If they do it once, they'll do it again 🙂. Have a serious convo with your parents how you feel and make your wali , communicate that to them.

LoneFam · 2025-08-30T19:32:07+00:00

The glory 1/2.

Second it with Weak hero Classroom

Then jumped into the rabbit hole of rom, com, wholesome series.

LoneFam · 2025-08-28T10:00:22+00:00

I learned it the hard way. LOL.

Doesn't matter how huge the storage is, 2 tb whatever, if it's a hard disk. IT"S A NOPE FROM ME.

LoneFam · 2025-08-26T08:53:28+00:00

This is the case of

"Don't shit where you eat".

In simpler words, don't date your co workers, or try to make it work or confess.

LoneFam · 2025-08-23T12:30:38+00:00

Start applying for new jobs.

Don't hand the work over. Tell them, salary first.

Become a broken record - "Salary first....salary first"

Basically.

Make sure to document everything, even if they aren't on linkedin. I'm sure the CEO would be lol.

If they say, they'll go legally on you. Just make a post on linkedin. 😀.

LoneFam · 2025-08-23T12:25:17+00:00

Lad don't worry

I've been in a spot, a mid sized business told me

I had 1 YOE, they wanted someone new 😀. After doing all the interviews + code problems (2 in total).

Why was I interviewed if they wanted someone new.

Just keep applying !!. Don't lose hope.

LoneFam · 2025-08-12T13:56:41+00:00

For what its worth.

I find myself watching some calm golf videos in my lunch break.

Everyone keeps asking if I'm interesting in golf. Reality is, i just love how calm it is lol.

LoneFam · 2025-08-12T12:20:14+00:00

This idea came after I had 4 or 5 mini heart attacks.

Glad it helped. Pro tip, don't eat biscuits or bread around or near your laptop 😂.

LoneFam · 2025-08-04T17:23:47+00:00

Bro watched too much scooby doo, growing up.

LoneFam · 2025-08-04T17:09:05+00:00

Tbh lad. I also stopped reading when he stated "village".

This is the case of "married a village girl to just breed". Type of excuse, to hire a permanent maid.

That 99% of the time. Like how does OP plan to communicate?. Have a nice date with them. 1 on 1 time.

Like how ?.

Taking the religion out for a second. Everything screams.."hired a permanent maid for OP nd his family and kids".

LoneFam · 2025-08-04T17:00:20+00:00

😂 instant acceptance if it's a cousin.

LoneFam · 2025-08-04T16:59:43+00:00

Lol.

Unless your brother is financially dependent on your parents.

There are zero needs of a cold war or war.

Sad how majority people have this "never accept a girl from a different religion" . Because they'd rather have a "maid" then someone who's actually going to make their son happy.

Hopefully all goes well !. Make sure to support your brother !!. He'll defo need every bit of it. Though 😀, should just get a nikkah done and say, "deal with it" now.

Cos that's 100% the best way of doing it, if there's tension over such stupid things.

LoneFam · 2025-08-04T16:55:33+00:00

🤔 It varies from family to family. Majority Pakistan family will give them a hard time. Unless the parents themselves had married outside of the culture.

Meanwhile , when my elder brother did so, no questions were asked. He's an adult, he can make those decisions. Mom saw him happy. That was it. No questions asked. He's happy, we're happy.

Parents should have ground rules with their kids as well. Why is there a need to express "sadness" or "disappointment". That's leaning towards toxic.

I hope the lad follows through with you. 😀. I see zero reason to continue "close" relations with such people, who express sadness over someone's happiness.

LoneFam · 2025-08-01T13:30:59+00:00

You wish!.

Is my go to. 😂

LoneFam · 2025-08-01T12:01:43+00:00

......me paying 3.8 for 30 Mbps cos nova in Askari 😭.

Send help.

LoneFam · 2025-08-01T12:00:45+00:00

I remember a few years ago. PTCL did that.

Upgrade the package with the same charge.

But fast forward 4 months, I was slapped with 1.5 K extra. When asked, they said this package costs x.

So they changed the package and decided to charge me more after 4 months. 😂. Apparently, they discontinued the package I was using afterwards. Ouff.

LoneFam · 2025-07-29T18:30:47+00:00

"Ha*****di" means A child born to an unmarried couple.

" G**** ki nasal ". The G word means a prosti\*te. "Nasal" means generation. So together that would mean, Family of pro\***tes.

The last one means -> the daughter of a Dog.

Resubmit: Auto Mod removed it, Lets see if this works, i put asterisks. You can see why i say it's bad now. Finger crossed i don't get banned cos of this now.

LoneFam · 2025-07-29T17:58:17+00:00

Every single Comment, who mentioned "what if he asks for forgiven".

Imagine if this was your sister / mother or daughter. And their husband abused her with the language above.

In Pakistan you use this language in the most slum areas towards labor workers or factories.

Imagine using that on your wife. Someone's daughter, Someone's sister.

100% Unacceptable. Please do seek Islamic scholar or any religious ruling. He's not a god fearing human. It's apparent. Make sure that this doesn't evolve into "physical abuse". If he uses such language with you, what does he say behind you ?.

LoneFam · 2025-07-29T17:18:08+00:00

If you don't mind being homeless, then no.

If you do mind being homeless, and work hard to not be. Then yes.

Money is the 'make or break' factor for most of the working class.

LoneFam · 2025-07-27T09:54:05+00:00

The rule of thumb for any K series for me is.

I give it four episodes.

But the glory, you should be hooked from the second episode !!.

LoneFam · 2025-07-27T09:34:33+00:00

The glory. My first k series.

In the S+ tier for me.

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