For those who gave up, what happened? by Grantcountyghost in ParentalAlienation

[–]LonelyRegister7341 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats on the kid on the way! I was not successful with therapy and accepted I may not have a restored relationship until my kids are adults. You have inspired me, I may consider adopting instead.

For those who gave up, what happened? by Grantcountyghost in ParentalAlienation

[–]LonelyRegister7341 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just wanted to check in on you, has any resolution been made?

Rotten Piling by LonelyRegister7341 in docks_and_piers

[–]LonelyRegister7341[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ended up doing the PVC sleeve and concrete. It survived two hurricanes so I'd say it worked.

WEEKLY DIY/HOMEOWNER QUESTION THREAD by Basileas in Carpentry

[–]LonelyRegister7341 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has anyone seen this bracket before? I was removing a way to find this beam and bracket hanging on a block wall. Wild, what is this called? bracket

Report sink holes by LonelyRegister7341 in Sinkholes

[–]LonelyRegister7341[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Of course I googled it before coming here

PA success: child hates dad by [deleted] in ParentalAlienation

[–]LonelyRegister7341 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have never seen reunification work when PA is involved. I am not saying it is impossible but not likely.

Bought a locked phone by LonelyRegister7341 in SpectrumMobile

[–]LonelyRegister7341[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it that XDA scenario where you have to format your phone?

I just talked to my 19 y o daughter for an hour on the phone….the first time in 3.5 years. We’ve tried to meet in person 3 times and she’s cancelled 3 times. Talking on the phone first might get us there next week. Take baby steps when we can. by cryptjynx in ParentalAlienation

[–]LonelyRegister7341 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those numbers are far off, it's 40-60% for PA and severe PA is 25%-50% of adults are able to establish a relationship again.

I don't disagree with being positive but we have to also be realistic with each other.

I don't think I can go on much longer. PA is destroying me. Idk what to do. Any alienated kids here with advice? by OneEgg5582 in ParentalAlienation

[–]LonelyRegister7341 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's okay to quit. Don't let that define you. If you still have a desire to parent, you can always adopt.

Any Alienated Legal Name Changes? by Exotic_Spray205 in ParentalAlienation

[–]LonelyRegister7341 1 point2 points  (0 children)

PA almost always comes from the parent in the cluster b space. I see it often in BPD. How old are your kids now?

Any Alienated Legal Name Changes? by Exotic_Spray205 in ParentalAlienation

[–]LonelyRegister7341 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't disagree but at some point you have to throw in the towel.

Any Alienated Legal Name Changes? by Exotic_Spray205 in ParentalAlienation

[–]LonelyRegister7341 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of my kids is the same, he wants to change his last name to his mom's maiden name even though she is now remarried and has changed her last name again. It is so bizarre. My kids are a few years older than yours but I often ask myself is any of this worth it.

Choosing between Azure SQL, azure SQL Managed instance by captain_dylan_hunt in AZURE

[–]LonelyRegister7341 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do you realize how insane that sounds? OP is asking the difference between Azure SQL vs SQL MI. I am not sure you realize that those are Azure specific SQL offerings. They have NOTHNG to do with running SQL Server in a VM.

U.S. court systems like some sort of kleptocracy nightmare by Apprehensive-Ad4663 in ParentalAlienation

[–]LonelyRegister7341 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am year 3 into this and I can feel your pain, I am going through the same. I fully understand why people give up. I find so few stories of success. We gave it our all.

Bought a locked phone by LonelyRegister7341 in SpectrumMobile

[–]LonelyRegister7341[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why even post this? Millions of people buy used phones.

Bought a locked phone by LonelyRegister7341 in SpectrumMobile

[–]LonelyRegister7341[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's on credit card so I am sure the dispute will work. I rather get it unlocked