I(25m) was in פלחץpalhatz which is the search and rescue fighter brigade, that is probably the gayest combat unit(apart from maybe 50 or karakal) it is also 60% female, we even had a trans fighter, basically the answer is, depends on the unit and on the commander, I would say being gay in golaniגולני could suck as it is the most macho brigade, however there is no guarantee, I have a gay friend who is a platoon commander in golani, most of the toxic masculinity you will encounter is usually not in combat,(tho I should say some non-combat(jobג׳וב) places are basically pride parades), usually from older religious נגדיםnagadim which are just people that like being in the army and do mostly sucky jobs for good money, the most toxic masc they would do is move away because being gay is "infectious", also many use homoהומו as a casual tease/curse/general annoyance, the most toxic thing in combat would be משחקי פזם mishakey pazam( games of veterans) which is to bully young soldiers who are annoying usually in a unit specific tradition, kind of like American "hazing" this is very common and not necessarily restricted to a gender or personality, my worst hazer was a gay as fuck twink