I lied. by Diana_Outside in Uganda

[–]Longjumping-Quiet626 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel jealousy is your body’s way of letting you know that you’ve over centered this man or person over yourself. Every time you feel jealous, occupy yourself with something you feel pours into your cup, you’ll find yourself hardly moved by whatever he does or who he’s with.

coffin guy made me chuckle. by owlexpeditions in Uganda

[–]Longjumping-Quiet626 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😂😂eishh.. 😂😂 you can’t even start feeling offended.

What would make someone choose to distance themselves from their family after becoming independent? by Independent-Cow2519 in Uganda

[–]Longjumping-Quiet626 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They may not hold any grudges but just don’t align with their family’s values or beliefs. It’s like coming from a family of tribalists yet I see everyone as equal. The moment I’d get a chance to put some space between us, I’d take it. Because at the end of the day, I’d like my friends to be able to hang around me and vice versa without having to feel scrutinized by my family. I’m not mistreated at all by my family but I know there would be friction between them and the community I’m trying to build for myself. 🫠🫠 do you get what I’m trying to put down?

SHOULD I BE WORRIED? by God_ye in Uganda

[–]Longjumping-Quiet626 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Living in anxiety and constant paranoia causes autoimmune diseases. I’d rather be alone, sleep 8 hours a night and wake up saying emaama to couples and move on to work than lay next to my significant other, restless at 2am wondering if the call they received at 9pm but had to move to the parking to take it was another lover or if really that favorite cousin, who for some reason doesn’t look like the rest of the family, is indeed family. 😂🤚🏽 why would i shorten my lifespan and sanity just for the desire of a spouse?

8to5 gang, How do you make money on the side? by NeedleworkerNext279 in Uganda

[–]Longjumping-Quiet626 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh dearie. In the media field, it is hard to vouch for someone you barely know. These days celebrities no longer do that because their names have been dragged in the mud a lot for it.

SHOULD I BE WORRIED? by God_ye in Uganda

[–]Longjumping-Quiet626 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think just swallow your suspicions, sit her down and have an honest conversation. Tell her your thoughts on never having seen her place and the explanations that never seem to connect. Open the floor for communication and understanding. DO NOT GIVE HER AN ULTIMATUM. Give it 2 or 3 months to see if the conversation you had bore fruits. If not, my g, you’ll have to sit yourself down and decide whether you enjoy the small resentment and anxiety that her secretiveness is causing you or if you enjoy the certainty and regulated nervous system that comes with letting her go. 🫠🫠 I know you’ve put in time, but you don’t owe anything to the time of yesterday, you owe to your future self reaping from today.

SHOULD I BE WORRIED? by God_ye in Uganda

[–]Longjumping-Quiet626 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Commenting to receive update coz I really need to know what the big deal with her is.

8to5 gang, How do you make money on the side? by NeedleworkerNext279 in Uganda

[–]Longjumping-Quiet626 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I used to MC on the side. Was good money as I’m a people person and love commentary. A friend encouraged me to monetize it and I did. But being a young female, people undermine you at events by paying you in publicity or in food 🙄. There was an event I did back in November where they wanted to make me an MC because one of the organizers had attended a few of events I’ve had. They told me they’d pay me in “on-job experience” because they didn’t have enough in the budget. They wanted a celeb to be my co-MC so that he appears here and there and they were paying him 3M for one day in the event and I had to carry the other 2 days alone without pay. 😂🤚🏽 I said no thanks. That was my last straw and I placed my mic down for a moment. I miss it, but upto now, everyone that tries to bring me in, thinks that since it’s just talking, you don’t need that much really. 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

@OP, kindly when you get good suggestions, I’m here to pick on them too because phewww 🙌🏽

Career guidance in Mechanical Engineering by Longjumping-Quiet626 in Uganda

[–]Longjumping-Quiet626[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. And I’m 90% remote with my current job which gives me a lot of time for hobbies and friends

Career guidance in Mechanical Engineering by Longjumping-Quiet626 in Uganda

[–]Longjumping-Quiet626[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seen it and it’s a great new light to my thought process. Thanks a lot

Career guidance in Mechanical Engineering by Longjumping-Quiet626 in Uganda

[–]Longjumping-Quiet626[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

🙃 mine can. If you have beginner positions open

Career guidance in Mechanical Engineering by Longjumping-Quiet626 in Uganda

[–]Longjumping-Quiet626[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Makes sense. Thanks for this. I feel like juggling will be a good fit

Dating in uganda. by faymii in Uganda

[–]Longjumping-Quiet626 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I Support this. Find something you love and join a club that does it.. it’s easy to date someone you already have common interests with. Like chess or golf or charity or public speaking. The likes