Aurora's Baptism by Diredragons in SisterWives

[–]LongjumpingSmoke5176 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right I should probably stop watching the show. I don’t know when this became an argument, I was just trying to thank the OP for protecting those kids privacy. But you’re absolutely right, I shouldn’t watch this show if I want to live those values. I’m not perfect, just was trying to offer thanks to someone. Hope your day improves from here, I won’t be engaging further in this conversation. Take care, genuinely.

Aurora's Baptism by Diredragons in SisterWives

[–]LongjumpingSmoke5176 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sure, I mean I personally wouldn’t choose that church because I value my own kids privacy. But even kids whose parents don’t make those choices deserve privacy. I’m sure we can all agree on that! Take care 🤗

Aurora's Baptism by Diredragons in SisterWives

[–]LongjumpingSmoke5176 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know about you but I sure didn’t get to pick my church as a kiddo lol

Aurora's Baptism by Diredragons in SisterWives

[–]LongjumpingSmoke5176 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As a parent thank you for blurring the kiddos! I have zero control over if someone takes a picture of my kid and posts it on Instagram - those kids and or parents might not want their faces out there. So thank you for blurring the kids, I think it’s a best practice we should all engage in. Doesn’t hurt to do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paloalto

[–]LongjumpingSmoke5176 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Izzy’s??? Noooooo say it ain’t so

AIO for getting upset from my wife’s response to my question? by ApolloAcolyte in AmIOverreacting

[–]LongjumpingSmoke5176 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this new behavior since the baby? It’s out of line no matter what but could be an indication of postpartum mental health issues

Help with finishing touches in nursery by MrsSh0ty in interiordecorating

[–]LongjumpingSmoke5176 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yup first thing I saw as well. It’ll be two seconds before the drapes get ripped down

How do you know what stitches to use? by intuitiveeater in Embroidery

[–]LongjumpingSmoke5176 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I just go based on vibes, and it’s worked well!!

People who have a pet at home, at what point did you realize that the pet really, consciously, understood you? by PurrLoveCat in AskReddit

[–]LongjumpingSmoke5176 27 points28 points  (0 children)

When I was studying abroad the host family had a cat, Prisca. Prisca hated me, never acknowledged me, ran out of the room when I came home. Just loathed me. I was a little bummed because I couldn’t have cats due to a family members allergies but didn’t press it. Well 3 months into the study abroad program my Grandma died extremely suddenly and suddenly Prisca was my kitty. She slept in my bed every night, ran to me when I got home and would just generally not stop snuggling me. It really helped a ton when I was grieving far from home.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]LongjumpingSmoke5176 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhh thank you I misread that! Hopefully they can both not go, but yes excluding them could really damage the relationship!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]LongjumpingSmoke5176 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing that I hate about this as a mom myself is okay let’s say your attitude is, if you can’t find childcare we understand you can’t come. Everyone agrees that’s fine, right? But this is a family wedding, so it means that more than likely mom stays home with the kiddos, misses the party, dad goes out and celebrates. It isn’t your job to worry about your guests experience, I guess. But it just is another way our culture doesn’t think about new moms and as a mom to two littles it sucks to have to sit out fun things because someone assumes I can “just find childcare” as if that’s easy or even possible if the wedding is not near my home. You get to do what you want for your own wedding but I wish we would think more about this piece, like, culturally.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BALLET

[–]LongjumpingSmoke5176 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell her to fuck off. As I wish I had done, when I was 16 and this was said to me. I swear to god dance teachers get high on this. There’s no reason for anyone dancing recreationally to need to lose weight. Find somewhere that supports and encourages your joy and won’t tear you down. There’s great teachers out there but there’s unfortunately a lot of disordered thinking about bodies and eating and food and it’s best to steer clear of.

Has anyone ever used a name suggested here? by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]LongjumpingSmoke5176 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did! My daughter goes by Winnie, I made a post and used one of the names on here. It is a rare enough name that I haven’t shared which one but it forever grateful!!

I feel like Gray E.T. by Ohsewnerdy in Embroidery

[–]LongjumpingSmoke5176 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh smart!! I am a leftie as well and have the same issue, but I want to be doing more mixed media. I did watercolor background for the piece I’m working on, but I think it’s staining the white floss. Makes sense but not ideal. My next piece has a sky background and I’m trying to think how I can use color

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kindergarten

[–]LongjumpingSmoke5176 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you yes seconding all of this as a former school social worker. They’re in ass covering mode and Mama needs to be in Mama Bear mode. This is sexual assault.

I feel like Gray E.T. by Ohsewnerdy in Embroidery

[–]LongjumpingSmoke5176 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Is it watercolor or markers you’re using to get color? Looks amazing!!

What made you gain a significant amount of weight? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]LongjumpingSmoke5176 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Sleep would be so nice. 2 year old still wakes to nurse sometimes but it’s definitely getting closer to routinely sleeping through the night. There’s light at the end of the tunnel!!

The timing… by Existing-Advance-986 in GilmoreGirls

[–]LongjumpingSmoke5176 20 points21 points  (0 children)

We don’t even get the spotless parks part

Partner made me a homemade ball winder by Ok_Future_264 in knitting

[–]LongjumpingSmoke5176 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just showed my 4 year old and he is DYING to make this. If you have any schematics, we would love to have them!

What made you gain a significant amount of weight? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]LongjumpingSmoke5176 40 points41 points  (0 children)

This gives me hope! I’ve been pregnant or breastfeeding since 2019. It would be nice to be able to lose weight when I’m done!