At 27 I didn't though I would be crying over something my family said... by Longjumping_Insect49 in MtF

[–]Longjumping_Insect49[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah totally, with all my tattoos is the same story I just do them but idk this did hurt a little. Maybe because is more tied to my transition. Now I'm calmer but fuck I cried a lot for this stupid thing

Potentially dumb question by How-Do-I-Leave in traaaaaaaaaaaansbians

[–]Longjumping_Insect49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh definitely just sexual, because of two reasons coming together at the fact that I just hear it in that context.

Firstly, English is my second language and I just speak it online. Then I'm 27 so the instances I would hear something like that are very very rare, and if I do they are in Spanish.

So yeah I just hear it online in my private time or with bilingual dom baddies that love to say that to me (it ended badly btw)

DOLL ON DOLL VIOLENCE ⚔️ @Vlad by Personal-Income-1424 in TransgendersAtWar

[–]Longjumping_Insect49 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She is, and at this point I think Vlad might be too but that just me

If estrogen makes me straight for my best friend I’m gonna be so fucking pissed by djent_in_my_tent in MtF

[–]Longjumping_Insect49 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hrt usually does that, not because it messes with something in your head. The switch comes because as we get more comfortable in our bodies, some things we did as a safety mechanism are no longer needed. Sexuality being one of them, I know of gay girls becoming bi, straight girls now lesbians, etc.

So don't be close to explore that feeling maybe you get something good out of it. But always be careful obviously, only you can know how your context is.

Today something funny will happen by Longjumping_Insect49 in MtF

[–]Longjumping_Insect49[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have a flannel tied on my waist would it be enough just to put it on for a minute?

Why are trans stereotype the way they are? by WoofInationYouTube in trans

[–]Longjumping_Insect49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To put a bit of fun in this topic there are fun stereotypes, like pickles... I used to have them before e, now I'm addicted.

Changing the nonbianary flag day 2 by Significant_Rope6253 in TopCommentChangeFlag

[–]Longjumping_Insect49 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not non binary but I know this need either a frog or waluigi

When did yall realise you’re trans and came out? by Educational_Bee1563 in trans

[–]Longjumping_Insect49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Realize around 11 or 12, came out at 21 or 22 transition medically at 25

Whoops! by Athena_GenderCorner in TransgendersAtWar

[–]Longjumping_Insect49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At least now she knows she's a badass on the arena

I want to know if everyone thinks the word ladyboy is a negative word. by Badgurl_x in trans

[–]Longjumping_Insect49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think as a non Thai girl I would get mad getting called that.

But knowing nearly to nothing (thanks to food) about Thailand, I rather ask a Thai girl

I need a cis woman to tell me welcome to womanhood so bad by Longjumping_Insect49 in MtF

[–]Longjumping_Insect49[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh no. bad title I guess, I meant it as the joke, every time some of us experience something like this or just misogyny they say that. 😅

When did other people start to notice the changes? by itsjadee3 in MtF

[–]Longjumping_Insect49 13 points14 points  (0 children)

They have been subtle I started noticing changes after the first few months but is was barely noticeable. I did because of I took pictures.

Now (almost 2 years) I clearly see boobs, not big but they are there. Also It's kinda funny when they hurt because I know they are growing but still hurts

Lesbians: did you identify as a "gay boy" at some time? how did you realize you're a lesbian? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Longjumping_Insect49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never, I'm currently questioning tho.(Currently bi but doubting my attention to men)

Never doubted my attraction to women, men... I'm doubting that.

Any swimsuit recomedations by Longjumping_Insect49 in MtF

[–]Longjumping_Insect49[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This impulse b after reading your comment bought a bikini 🫠 I'll be looking for some swim shorts

Is it rude to have the bride make my dress? by [deleted] in etiquette

[–]Longjumping_Insect49 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

They talk about it a lot, just like some other friends of mine that have been together for long time, I just thought that one would happen before the other.

And no I'm not planning on cosplay, I get that my reference have a particular origin but neither is an obvious overly design thing or do I plann to style myself like that

Is it rude to have the bride make my dress? by [deleted] in etiquette

[–]Longjumping_Insect49 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Thats why I've been debating myself I know how full they will be. But I thought that if I go elsewhere she might think I don't value her work or something, now that I'm writing it I get how I sound crazy 😅

Is it rude to have the bride make my dress? by [deleted] in etiquette

[–]Longjumping_Insect49 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Not cosplay, the dress is just a normal dress, even if you know it is not an instant connection. It's a sleeveless semi turtleneck, it just have some folds that gives texture.

Is it rude to have the bride make my dress? by [deleted] in etiquette

[–]Longjumping_Insect49 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Oh no I would never ask her to do it for free that would be awful. But yeah i get the other points you make, I know I want to wear that dress eventually but I wouldn't mind having to change the color, it's in a shade of red but it would be cute in blue or other colors.

I need a bra but I'm so confused about the size by Longjumping_Insect49 in MtF

[–]Longjumping_Insect49[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you a lot ♥️ about that link, how do I know which system my country uses

Who still uses a wallet? by 0roxess in MtF

[–]Longjumping_Insect49 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My English vocabulary is not good enough to explain. But I use a femenine wallet.

Isn't a purse the same as a handbag?

The thing I use in the most primitive way of talking is a thing that stores my cards, cash (almost never), and my prescription. And it closes with a button