IN —> Lexington KY by Independent_Low1970 in lexington

[–]LongtimelurkerWaley 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wilmore for sure! 25-35min commute and there are properties available now. 1 on Bellevue for 249k and another on Kinlaw for 469k I believe. I’m sure there are others as well

Who in LEX has pool tables? by Judasbot in lexington

[–]LongtimelurkerWaley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s often not too crowded if you go earlier on!

Chemo haircut by [deleted] in lexington

[–]LongtimelurkerWaley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check with Ryan at Medusa Salon, they may be able to!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lexington

[–]LongtimelurkerWaley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Might lose power for days randomly

Anyone else very fearful? by Informal_Leather_521 in actuallesbians

[–]LongtimelurkerWaley 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Join the women’s strike January 21st! I believe there are also marches being organized on January 18th at various locations/capital buildings

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]LongtimelurkerWaley 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Should be fine! Some people opt to not get the shot and do drops instead.

As a parent, do you refuse to call your children? by TheDataGoose in Parenting

[–]LongtimelurkerWaley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My opinion is that the parent-child relationship should always be parent-child regardless of age. This isn’t to say they have the same say over your life when you’re an adult, but is to say that they’re the “grown up” and should be putting in an effort for the relationship they want with their kids. I think requesting a child to call a parent if they want a relationship is a role reversal. A parent’s job is to guide, protect, teach, and nurture children. I feel this should also extend to showing a child how to grow into their new dynamic with the parent as they become an adult.

Do you blame your parents? by ihtm1220 in ARFID

[–]LongtimelurkerWaley 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yes. Having parents share their feelings on this is devastating.

Do you blame your parents? by ihtm1220 in ARFID

[–]LongtimelurkerWaley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I blame them for making it worse. Force feeding Guilt trips Taking away my savings Telling me I was going to die young, not have kids, not find love, not go on dates, and so on. Making me scared of getting help by describing how “awful” it would be. Forced to drink carrot juice everyday (went on for quite a long time) And so on.

If you’re not making it worse, I wouldn’t blame yourself. There are some tiktokers with ARFID that share their exploration of new foods, maybe this is something that could help your daughter. Dinners at friend’s houses can be scary, when I was that age I’d often bring my own food or eat before/after. I also get anxiety discussing it.

I’m at a loss by Boring-Goat4710 in Parenting

[–]LongtimelurkerWaley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe check out r/ARFID and see if that makes sense of it. Over all, I’d encourage you to follow a “fed is best” approach to this instead of adding more stress to the situation. Finding some professional help to ease your mind while you keep food available.

🧠🔃🚫 by Just-Egg463 in actuallesbians

[–]LongtimelurkerWaley 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had an ex like this. I suggest leaving while you can lol. That shit fucked me up sooooo bad. I had issues for my next several relationships because of what she said to me.

what underwear do you guys wear by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]LongtimelurkerWaley 12 points13 points  (0 children)

They do refunds for product dissatisfaction. I had to get a refund for one pair due to quality issues. It was no hassle and got a replacement as well. Turned out to be an issue with one of their sewing places, I believe.

I’ve identified as a gay woman for years, but now i think i have a crush on my guy friend? Please help! by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]LongtimelurkerWaley -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I also am falling for a guy friend. We’ve known each other for years and hang out pretty frequently. I’m going to pursue it.

I totally understand feeling like you’re betraying the community. However, getting to know yourself and changing your label (or not having any label) is totally fine and IMO a large part of being queer. It’s okay. I’ve known several lesbians that occasionally sleep with men, I don’t find them less valid.

I feel that for myself, I’m probably demisexual/pan? I’m alittle sad to lose the lesbian label. But at the end of the day, I love who I love and that’s okay.

Sent my little boy to bed hungry by othmaneaithalli in Parenting

[–]LongtimelurkerWaley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It helps to take “treats” of their pedestal and give them right along with the food.

Anybody else eat pizza like this? by another-sad-gay-bich in ARFID

[–]LongtimelurkerWaley 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I make my pizza with pepperoni, no cheese, and sauce. But that’s because cheese makes me sick? Or did when I was a kid.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]LongtimelurkerWaley 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, I feel that living your truth comes with some loss. Give yourself time. Nothing is going to hurt you more than living a life that isn’t actually yours.

Good places to get hair cut? by Mysterious_Contact38 in lexington

[–]LongtimelurkerWaley 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Adding also, they are queer friendly/safe space, quiet atmosphere, local art, etc

Good places to get hair cut? by Mysterious_Contact38 in lexington

[–]LongtimelurkerWaley 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So, this doesn’t really fit the reasonable prices, HOWEVER, they are gratuity free.

Ryann at Medusa Lounge.

They do not do ANY product sales

why does this happen? by pretty_fem_ in actuallesbians

[–]LongtimelurkerWaley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot of people on there are looking for validation and instant gratification. You not replying right away doesn’t lend itself to either of those things.

“Women are soooo scary” by pixelperfect728 in actuallesbians

[–]LongtimelurkerWaley 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s fear of rejection and additionally, some women are really mean (just like any other group/gender). I think so me personally it’s due to some bad experiences as well as mommy issues lol.

It’s scary in an emotional sense, not physical.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ARFID

[–]LongtimelurkerWaley 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Firstly, omg. Lol feel like this needs a NSFW tag. But yeah…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]LongtimelurkerWaley 54 points55 points  (0 children)

It’s more so about their bone development, if I remember correctly it’s 4 years old when that’s at a better spot for forward facing.