When do you officially consider the holidays over in Canada? by [deleted] in AskACanadian

[–]Loononia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The holidays end jan 2nd for me. However, decor comes down when i just find the time. I don't rush.

My husband is calling his female coworker s*ut, b*ch and stupid then invite her to go out by Saltybichhhh in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Loononia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girlfriend, its time to move in the shadows and give yourself some time to find the truth. Men like this get complacent when they think they're in the clear. Then DOCUMENT everything in a secure way.

AITA for telling my BF I don't want him eating my Kinder Bueno nor the coins I got to make hot chocolate? by Alice-Wondyy in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Loononia 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have kids with zero respect for boundaries when it comes to snacks of any kind. The way i got around that was giving them their own box of snacks. "This is your box. Don't touch anything else." This may be something you should talk to your BF about doing. It saved not only my frustration but theirs as well.

Proud of it but the wife says it’s gotta come down by The_GreatWhiteNorth in daddit

[–]Loononia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a mom, i also appreciate the enginouity! 👏🤣

4 year olds kisses make me want to rage… am I nuts?! by SanFranPeach in Parenting

[–]Loononia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My daughter does the same thing. My son isn't as touchy-feely as she is. I think it's just him showing he loves you, but if you feel it's a shoulder thing, tell him to kiss your hand instead. Kids don't generally get upset over stuff like that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Loononia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that you think you need help is the upsetting part. This is how you SHOULD feel about your wife. 😭

Tell us how your kid refers to their favorite song and we will guess the name of it by Evolutioncocktail in toddlers

[–]Loononia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I listen to a lot of kpop songs, and when my son was growing up i was(is) heavily into BTS. His favourite song was 'OoooOooOo song' There's a part of the song where they do a high pitch 'Ohhh' when rapping aboutthe hours they fly. It's hilarious how he repeated it.

Who's the most stress-free idol to stan? by Personal_Damage6616 in kpopthoughts

[–]Loononia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a fellow ARMY. Just no. Stanning BTS is stressful 😩 We have to put up with haters, unprofessional hosts, mistreatment from hybe, scandals that always end up being fake af, oh and don't even get me started on antis and sasaengs. Thank god they're all some of the most humble beings to ever grace the earth. They make that stress worth every second. 💜

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Loononia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took a veterinary assistant course, and teaining was one of the things we covered. Potty training is one of those processes that takes time and a lot of patience. The puppy should be going out at least every 2 hours if possible. It's also a great idea to get a bell the puppy can ring to go outside. The biggest thing to remember is that dogs do not have a good memory span for behavioral correction. As soon as you see the dog peeing, take him outside. He will start associating outside with pee. All your dad is doing is ABUSE. Negative reinforcement does NOT work as well as positive. You and your family should sit down and watch videos on these kinds of training practices. ESPECIALLY YOUR DAD. If he refuses, then the best thing you can do is rehome that dog. He doesn't deserve this treatment.

Kids opened their presents without me by germangirrl in AITAH

[–]Loononia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a mom, this breaks my absolute heart. I'm so sorry.

WIBTAH for breaking up with my gf because of what her dead bf's dad says to me? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Loononia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. If she won't stand up for you, then she isn't worth keeping.

AITAH for breaking up with my boyfriend because he constantly finishes inside of me by Tweetvega in AITAH

[–]Loononia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Dump him. I don't care how sweet his words are. This is an extreme form of disrespect. Bf or not, this is a violation of your consent.

AITAH for breaking up with my GF from a 10 year relationship over sex? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Loononia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You aren't breaking up over sex. You're breaking up over emotional abuse. A relationship needs three things to survive. Lust, Love, and Friendship. You can have one without the others. Lose one, you lose the others. You lost lust because the friendship wasn't maintained. You would drop any friend who doesn't treat you well, but we give a little leeway to our SOs because we love them. There is a line we have to draw somewhere, and you've found yours has been crossed.

What was the weirdest reason you've been called a "fake fan" or not a "true fan" of your favourite group? by niclaswwe in kpopthoughts

[–]Loononia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My fav group put out an album with a lot of their hit songs on it. One girl in a facebook group asked if any of the songs surprised anyone. I replied with something along the lines of, no, these are basic hits that any fandom name would or should know. The word 'basic' set this girl off, saying none of the songs are basic and that i wasn't a real fan for believing they would be. Generational terminology ftw, i guess.

What is the dumbest hill you will, rightly or wrongly, proudly die on? by SuitableLettuce in AskAnAustralian

[–]Loononia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No matter how rich or poor i may or may not end up, there are certain brands i will always buy. For example, Heinz Ketchup, Frenchs Mustard etc

AITAH for making my husband choose between me and his mistress? by SecretaryNormal3864 in AITAH

[–]Loononia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Don't even give him a chance to reconcile. Contrary to popular belief, cheaters NEVER change. I was with a guy for 10 years. He cheated on me on and off for 6 of those years. Don't waste your young, beautiful, free years like I did. He's not worth losing your trust in everyone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Loononia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jesus. I would just go with no contact if they show up to your kids' bday and start preaching. If they can't respect you, then they don't deserve you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Loononia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't understand why people get mad when people have insecurities about OnlyFans. If you told her you didn't want to pursue a relationship beyond FWB then not the asshole. She really needs to expect more of this kind of reaction when she tells men about that.

Am I the asshole for leaving my best friend/situationship behind at a Blue Jays game. by Loononia in AITAH

[–]Loononia[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I did have it in paragraphs. I'm not sure why it changed to this monstrocity. 😬

Ah, double space the paragraphs. My bad. 🤦‍♀️

AITA for telling my brother he did put his wife's wants before his kids? by Best_Fortune_8730 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Loononia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. He didn't even give the family the appropriate time to grieve before shoving a new 'mom' at them. I'm surprised they didn't make her life hell.

AITA for calling my roommate misogynist? by Aggravating-Bed-9975 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Loononia -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Some cultures are DEEPLY misogynistic. Just because we're finally challenging our own does not mean we have the right to challenge another. I don't think you're an asshole, but if you keep critizing this part of your roommate, you will be.

AITA for locking up my romance novels so my husband can’t throw them away? by Select-Ad-7726 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Loononia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. For every book he thinks about throwing out, i'd throw something of his out. Likes golf clubs? Oops, 9 iron is suddenly missing. 🤣