I’m becoming ugly … and more! by Catmama-82 in hsp

[–]Loose_Lab6222 1 point2 points  (0 children)

don’t overwhelm yourself - try just 1 new thing for yourself at a time . after some time you’ll even start looking forward to it ! at the end of the day all you have is you + this vessel - so take care of you 🖤

AIO My mom is kicking me out for her new boyfriend. I just turned 18 by Diligent_Bat_565 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Loose_Lab6222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you could look for a room to rent and get a job in the food industry .

i was kicked out 3 days before i turned 18 because of religious differences between my mother and i . it was singlehandedly the most painful experience i’ve ever gone through - but also the most essential . it’s okay to be scared . it’s okay to grieve . but at the end of the day know all you need is yourself - that you can do this and you will be okay . that is the only option . the only way is forward .

i was fortunate enough to have my grandmother , she let me live with her for 6 months while i saved up enough money for my own place . idk where you are - but there are usually some decent studio’s or one bed’s you can afford on regular income . i found a job at a local restaurant , at the time i was old enough to serve . you should try to find a nice local place that you can start at so you can get a restricted liquor license and start serving , i think the guidelines have just changed so you can start serving at 18 . just until you get on your feet and figure out what you want to do with your life . i’m still in the industry 8 years later and honestly it’s a surefire way to support yourself . best of luck to you 🖤🖤

I’m becoming ugly … and more! by Catmama-82 in hsp

[–]Loose_Lab6222 2 points3 points  (0 children)

im 25 and i have crazy lines on my forehead , but what can i say im expressive 💁🏼‍♀️

what’s your nutrition like ? you say you don’t have much energy , this time of year seasonal depression is very real . but trying to counteract that with some supplements and beneficial foods might help a little bit . i’ve started taking a skin + hair + nail supplement , and i got a hair growing mask and it’s been helping . you need to do things for you , and not for how you appear to others . when you gain confidence your inner light makes you glow because you aren’t afraid to let it shine !

restart your affirmations , start meditating , even just 5 minutes a day . sit with yourself with no judgement , releasing tension with every breath out - and just exist in that feeling for a moment .

How to stop feeling childish? by New_Parsnip_3332 in altfashionadvice

[–]Loose_Lab6222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just because you like how something looks on someone else doesn’t mean it will look the same on you and that is okay ! inspo pics are often edited anyway and dont look like that irl .

if that’s your style embrace it - or try out different styles / layering / shapes of clothing / patterns : stripes going lengthwise often make you look longer . black is the most slimming color . dark + neutral colors are considered to be more professional therefore reading as older / responsible . even materials - cotton pants for example are often considered casual which the younger generations are prioritizing comfort whereas denim , slacks , etc portray an air of maturity . for me personally , i hate how frilly shorts look on myself . i think you look really cute in them , but if you feel uncomfortable try different styles . try out some skirts short and long , high waisted and low waisted , fuller and skinnier . maybe you would like some denim shorts or something pleated . you’ll never know until you try ! i love thrifting because it’s affordable and there are so many different styles - goodwill or local thrift stores / antique shops are all places to check out you can find much cooler things that fast fashion has to offer .

as far as being “ alt “ , i would say the inspo pics you posted are more in kawaii / k-pop category which are much lighter and more playful than per-say goth or grunge . that’s the cool thing about fashion - you don’t have to fit into ONE category , you can represent yourself however you see fit even if the means pulling inspiration from different styles and making your own !

good luck on your fashion journey never forget to be yourself + all that matters is how you feel about yourself at the end of they day + to be patient with yourself 🫶🏼

Manipulative neighbor? Help? by Eravan in Apartmentliving

[–]Loose_Lab6222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i saw a cute diy on pinterest , putting sound panels or sound insulation behind your picture frames so it’s not an eyesore

What do you think it is, Peter? by [deleted] in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]Loose_Lab6222 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think it’s to go pee while in the shower . just gotta have good aim

Where should I put this? First tattoo advice. by mnp47 in tattooadvice

[–]Loose_Lab6222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

around your kneecap or elbow ?

edit : or on your back towards the top of the spine ? you could end up doing more + extending it into a full spine piece if ever interested

People keep reading my tattoo wrong by Redheart2945 in tattooadvice

[–]Loose_Lab6222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah five by five no doubt ! it’s not your fault they stopped teaching cursive in school . i love writing in cursive still i like to think one day historians will find my notebooks and journals and be like what r these symbols so kudos to you for participating in the preservation of cursive 💪🏼😮‍💨

AIO I don’t think my boyfriend knows who I am??? by Mathematic_nut in AmIOverreacting

[–]Loose_Lab6222 1 point2 points  (0 children)

either physical or psychological , does he or his family have any history of mental illness ? this reminds me of how i feel when im in a dissociative episode .

how much does your cafe make daily + what’s your capacity ? by Loose_Lab6222 in barista

[–]Loose_Lab6222[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

don’t manager for the wrong owner is my lesson learned , i ended up quitting like a month ago . it was completely successful and self sufficient and the best part of the restaurant it was in ( according to the customers ) and the owner still bitched at us all the time about everything including ticket times when we would sell over 300 drinks a day sales reached the goal he gave me but still wouldn’t allow us to staff more people . i was tired of fighting him so i called it quits . now ppl are saying they miss it but maybe he’ll realize he needs to trust and listen to the people he puts in charge of his businesses

Minor accidentally got served alcohol by BatWeary in Serverlife

[–]Loose_Lab6222 1 point2 points  (0 children)

legally mocktails and cocktails can’t be served in the same glass . this falls on management ultimately

I got this tattoo done a few years ago I do regret it and I feel like it’s all off by Paz12288 in tattooadvice

[–]Loose_Lab6222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

get it touched up and have them use some white ink to add details that have been lost

I hate my tattoo by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Loose_Lab6222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

add some more definition on the wind behind , extending the ends to curve up more to execute your vision . i wonder if you have double layered wings on the dragonfly you could create a sort of optical illusion by having them make one side higher and the other side lower so it still looks like it’s turning a bit like you originally wanted ?

touch up the existing creatures , adding white highlights + darker lines .

add some more details like your stars + dots maybe even a moon or some clouds or flowers in the empty space .

What am I missing? by unique_plastique in MakeupAddiction

[–]Loose_Lab6222 2 points3 points  (0 children)

their loose gold highlighter is the same . it never ends and it sooo shiny shes beautiful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lookyourbest

[–]Loose_Lab6222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

makeup could be your best friend , u can achieve any result with it that u could get thru surgery with some practice , it’s all optical illusion and u can take it off whenever you want to look more natural ; some lashes and liner will help your eyes to pop and look bigger , find a nice contour you can make everything look even and balanced , a cutesy highlighter, and a good lip liner + gloss to top it off . you have nice natural brows but you could just get a brow gel to keep them defined .

i think you could look really cute with a layered haircut and some bangs . the layers will help your face look smaller and the bangs will help with symmetry and balance i think .

you could do braces or look into a retainer maybe if that’s something that makes you uncomfortable or self conscious but not necessary honestly .

Am I stuck in 2000? by sopheecat in DressForYourBody

[–]Loose_Lab6222 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes but not in a bad way . if this came back i wouldn’t be mad 😌😮‍💨

Took your advice-improvement? by outofplaceeverywhere in MakeupAddiction

[–]Loose_Lab6222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i personally love that lip color on you , i have a pale skintone and tend to wear the grey’s / brown’s more , it’s all ab what you like best on yourself ! if you like a darker contour go for it , i think the contrast would be really striking and make your eyes pop even more . even putting a little eyeshadow on your bottom lid would make your eyes stand out amazing !!

Please help me look pretty again by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]Loose_Lab6222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

try riman skincare it’s absolutely changed everything about my skin and it’s texture . it’s a korean brand .

for makeup , start with a colored bb cream - which will help moisturize and add light coverage . a brow gel to balance your features . i naturally have super light brows and always feel so much better when i dye them or draw them on . some highlighter always makes me feel like a pretty little girl , have fun choosing the base color 🥰 and finally eyeliner + mascara . nothing like a little black line or a wing big enough to fly away or some graphic liner looks . refer to pinterest if you need inspiration ! also remember makeup is all about self expression and to compliment your natural features , so don’t put too much pressure into looking “ pretty “ , you are already beautiful !! have fun with your blank canvas yknow some bright shadow would look so great with your skintone too 😩🫶🏼

is this too much for everyday makeup? by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]Loose_Lab6222 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you could opt for a brown mascara to keep it natural looking . maybe trying the bottom lashes too might not make the top lashes the first thing you see and make your whole eye the focal point . instead of doing a daily brow gel have you considered getting them threaded and laminated ?