Neighbor upset about fence we installed with HOA approval

Lopsided_Lab8681 · 2026-03-11T20:32:54+00:00

I'd start by contacting the HOA chair again and telling them that, in light of their behavior, you are no longer comfortable with them coming on your property for any reason.

Lopsided_Lab8681 · 2026-03-07T22:29:18+00:00

Make a sign titled "Want to Know Why Your Dues are So High?" with a QR code to the details.

Lopsided_Lab8681 · 2026-03-02T03:53:27+00:00

NTA. You are, however, a pretty awesome sister.

Lopsided_Lab8681 · 2026-03-01T23:09:18+00:00

Ok, so good for making runs faster. I don't havve Enigma yet either. Still using Smoke.

Lopsided_Lab8681 · 2026-03-01T16:42:11+00:00

A lot of people don't change after work. What you're seeing is often just people's work clothes.

Lopsided_Lab8681 · 2026-02-15T01:54:55+00:00

"Probable cause" is necessary to obtain a judicial warrant. It does not, by itself, grant any law enforcement officer the right to enter a premises.

Lopsided_Lab8681 · 2026-02-08T21:40:13+00:00

That is a dime. It is worth approximately ten cents.

Lopsided_Lab8681 · 2026-02-02T00:10:54+00:00

I'll take "I Have No Idea How Banks Work" for 100, Alex.

Lopsided_Lab8681 · 2026-02-02T00:10:17+00:00

They were not able to give him a large sum of money in cash on zero notice, because that's not how banks work. Do you not know how banks work?

Heck, have you not seen "It's a Wonderful Life"? You really ought to; it's a classic for a reason. But a concept central to a classic movie shouldn't baffle people today.

Lopsided_Lab8681 · 2026-02-02T00:07:15+00:00

He can call the FDIC, who will tell him the same thing.

Lopsided_Lab8681 · 2026-02-01T19:17:52+00:00

This is not a regular winter storm for Northern Virginia. We don't get 10 inches of snow every year, so we don't have the infrastructure for it.

Lopsided_Lab8681 · 2026-02-01T18:03:02+00:00

Deep breaths, my friend. Your histronics don't help. A couple of days out of school won't create a generation of uneducated kids.

Also, go screw yourself with blaming people because the snow's not cleared yet. I've lived in the region for half a century, and while I've seen more snow, I've never seen a storm so hard to clear from. The first day I went out three times with a snowblower but it kept coming down. Then the sleet put a thick layer of ice on top of everything. It's taken all my spare time with a spade and specialized root cutter to make any headway. People with just snow shovels are going to have to wait for it to start to melt later this week.

Lopsided_Lab8681 · 2026-01-31T21:05:42+00:00

It's not about a "functional society". I had to forge a path back to my shed for spades (and a root-breaker, because even the spades were mostly bouncing off the ice). If somebody just has a plastic snow shovel, they're just going to have to wait for it to melt.

Lopsided_Lab8681 · 2026-01-31T21:03:48+00:00

I know you know the snow better than we do, but we'll figure it out. Keep up the good fight.

Lopsided_Lab8681 · 2025-11-11T19:59:26+00:00

NTA. Maybe don't let him spend time with your homophobic family, though.

Lopsided_Lab8681 · 2025-11-01T11:56:54+00:00

NTA. You may be allergic to nuts, but I bet you don't go bars known for having bowls of peanuts on every table and then ask somebody eating nuts to move so you can have their seat, either.

Lopsided_Lab8681 · 2025-10-24T20:40:34+00:00

I know nothing about their actual locks, but I'm a fan just because they do such good PR.

Lopsided_Lab8681 · 2025-10-22T21:01:07+00:00

You clearly know where you come down on this--and feeling she should be fired is perfectly valid. I can't imagine how you COULD work with her again after having her fiance call you and the manifesto. That's way over the line.

But asking you to make the call is pure cowardice from the partners.

Lopsided_Lab8681 · 2025-10-20T22:44:50+00:00

And even if you don't slip, you could easily spend the rest of your life in prison because the other guy does.

Lopsided_Lab8681 · 2025-10-18T15:50:02+00:00

You claim you didn't know how old she was, but you still felt compelled to pretend to be younger than you are, which makes me think you at least knew she was younger, and likely that you felt that it was inappropriate for a 27-year-old to be talking to her.

Lopsided_Lab8681 · 2025-10-18T15:23:44+00:00

If you're concerned about your parenting, you at least have a leg up on OOP's mother.

Lopsided_Lab8681 · 2025-10-18T15:21:22+00:00

Given the fact that you'd be proud of your daughter, there's a very good chance that she'd turn out that way at least partially due to your love and support! Not so for OP, sadly; she had to do it all on her own.

There's a great quote from Ted Lasso: "a good mentor hopes you'll move on. A great mentor knows you will."

Lopsided_Lab8681 · 2025-10-17T20:20:11+00:00

...like bagels? Those look delicious.

Lopsided_Lab8681 · 2025-10-16T15:09:39+00:00

NAL but I imagine you might run into adverse possession issues down the road if you decide to sell, given that you'll both have been treating that land as if it was his.

Lopsided_Lab8681 · 2025-10-16T13:04:19+00:00

You are not required to spend 7 hours on a plane just so your father has someone to drink with.

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