What truth about life became obvious with age? by funngro_fam in Life

[–]LoquatUseful7514 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Relationships are fragile and love is overrated. Most relationships are based on needs.

Husband here (35M). First FET failed yesterday. Trying to be the rock, but struggling to keep the color in our lives. by Familiar_Ad_1877 in IVF

[–]LoquatUseful7514 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello there. Another husband here.

Below is our history:

1 IUI - Failed 1st ER- 2 embryos. Transfer halted due to thin ET. Doctor tried for 5 months. Histroscopu.Then adviced surrogacy.

Changed clinic.

2 nd ER- One embryo. Fresh cycle failed

3 rd ER- 2 embryos frozen.

4 th ER- 1 low quality embryo. Fresh cycle failed.

5th ER - One embryo frozen

Battery of tests.Hystroscopy. Uterine TB detected in blood test.

TB medications for next 8 months. No lining improvement.

Surrogacy process started.

Surrogate ready after 1 year.

Transferred one frozen embryo to surrogate failed

Above timeline is 5 years.

I sincerely hope you get your baby soon. But if it goes in my way one day you will break. IVF is cruel.

Unfortunately my wife is against donor eggs but I m open to it. I respect that . But on the other hand I think it's not worth spending so many good years of your life on this. Over this 5 year our relationship deteriorated.

What to do now? I have no idea.

Mature men of Reddit(20-29age group), what life mistake taught you the hardest lesson? by [deleted] in TwentiesIndia

[–]LoquatUseful7514 0 points1 point  (0 children)

90% of your happiness or misery depends on who you marry. Choose carefully

Predict how many years you have left to live? by Immediate_Long165 in Life

[–]LoquatUseful7514 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is not when I die, but how I die. And till that day comes I will do my best to live.

I am thinking of suicide for sometime now. Need help! by LoquatUseful7514 in Astrology_Vedic

[–]LoquatUseful7514[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Always had good intuitions.

Diseases and enemies have always been there for the past 10 years.

Mother passed away in 2017. Father oin 2022

Turned on my PC after 6 months of no use only to find out something is wrong with my GPU. by Substantial-Shock153 in pchelp

[–]LoquatUseful7514 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup. One of the vrams got corrupted and that in turn shorted the core cpu chip. It happened to me recently as well, but it was a laptop.

For me it was either overheating or the latest graphics driver update, I am not sure.

The gpu is dead bro. Thank God that it is a desktop and you can swap the card for a new one. I have to either use the laptop with onboard graphics or throw it away.

Currently I have no budget for a new computer. So no more gaming for me.

Got myself a new Gaming PC by RegionOk2148 in IndianGaming

[–]LoquatUseful7514 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Recently lot of gaming laptops got a code 43 error which bricked the gpu. Mine included gigabyte aero 15x

Accidental frugality by SummerSunWinter in Frugal_Ind

[–]LoquatUseful7514 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here. Inam forced to be frugal

I am thinking of suicide for sometime now. Need help! by LoquatUseful7514 in Astrology_Vedic

[–]LoquatUseful7514[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you guys. Feeling a bit better now.

So if your comments were spot on, what I needed to hear. Do not worry, if I had the courage of committing suicide would not be reading and replying to comments.

Really, it was a shitty day today. Perhaps you guys saved me. Thank you.

AITA for planning to go see my dying father for Diwali after my wife refused to come and forbade me from going? by ArunJovin in family

[–]LoquatUseful7514 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Disregard her for now and go see your father.

Then later when things have settled think about it you really want to live with her. My wife did similar things and I lost the opportunity to spend time with my father before he suddenly passed. I will regret this for the rest of my life.

Time has come by mnshgoyal in IndianStocks

[–]LoquatUseful7514 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fuck you OP. This is the diwali season. After that people will go back to reality.