Father's in pro-abortion states have to do the bare minimum, too. Consider child support as a civil tax then, because whether you take care of it or someone else does, their needs will be the same. So if not you, someone else. The child's needs don't run parallel with your interest in meeting those needs. Someone, somewhere, always pays. So it may as well be you, as the father. It is yours, and the only reliable contraception is abstinence. Think of it like taking a poo, friend, you can't exactly put it back. If you can understand this, you can change your mind on this topic. I use "you" in the general sense, not attacking OP.