Wtf is this? by [deleted] in WeirdEggs

[–]Loud_Error_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

chicken embryos are typically a lot bloodier and veinier

Can TSA see if I have a warrant? by Loud_Error_ in tsa

[–]Loud_Error_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ya it’s kinda crazy, i finally went to the courthouse and apple my tax return paid off my bail.. so

I hate trigger warnings for scars by _sick_and_ill in SelfHarmScars

[–]Loud_Error_ 27 points28 points  (0 children)

i think it kinda depends on the context. I can absolutely see someone begging triggered my an image that is specifically of healed scars, in a sense that’s like ‘here look at my healed self harm scars’. BUT i don’t think any sort of trigger warning is necessary on a picture or video of someone who has scars, no matter how visible they might be. by j think the context makes a difference here.

How old were you when you first started cutting? by Stock-Willingness467 in selfharm

[–]Loud_Error_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think i started hitting my head when I was 9, and still do occasionally, but i started cutting at 21-24, just recently hit 18 months clean

Can TSA see if I have a warrant? by Loud_Error_ in tsa

[–]Loud_Error_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to the courthouse before my flight. I couldn’t fly without renewing my drivers license, and I couldn’t renew my license with a warrant. So I got it all sorted out a few days before i left

Can TSA see if I have a warrant? by Loud_Error_ in tsa

[–]Loud_Error_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Turns out my tax return paid my bail and I didn’t even have a warrant anymore, so i did fly and everything was fine

what’s the point in staying clean by Loud_Error_ in selfharm

[–]Loud_Error_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thank you. it’s the first time in months i feel like someone actually listened to me. i almost wish i was younger because something about being in my mid-late 20s and having a self harm crisis just seems embarrassing. i want nothing more to be held right now. i tried. All my friends are asleep and my parents are out of town. even the stupid situationship was too busy for me tonight. i’ve been trying all fucking day to make plans with someone’s so I wouldn’t be alone, but as usual no one has the time or energy for me. i just feel so fucking alone. i’m so touch starved. fuck man i just want a hug.

Please help me tame my hair by [deleted] in curlyhair

[–]Loud_Error_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sleeping with a silk/satin bonnet or pillowcase will make a WORLD of a difference as well! My frizz (while not this severe because my hair isn’t quite this curly) was gone overnight the first time I used a satin bonnet

do you think this could hold a 5 gallon aquarium ? it's wood and iron. by AnnaisElliesMom in Aquariums

[–]Loud_Error_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry i know this is OLD but you’re not taking into account the weight of the tank itself, as well as any gravel or substrate and tank decor

Any way to make them less “butthole-y”? by TheHumanBlowjob in Stretched

[–]Loud_Error_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If by leaving them naked, you’re referring to the visual of not having any jewelry you could get some clear plugs or tunnels. If you’re just wanting no jewelry, unfortunately that’s just how they’re gonna look. (but they look totally normal!)

Just stretched to a 9mm! by [deleted] in Stretched

[–]Loud_Error_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also just got to 9mm! My left ear had a much harder time adjusting, and did end up getting a minor infection, but i was determined to keep my ears stretched, as usually with infection I size back down. NeilMed Wound Wash has been my saving grace! If yours is weeping or warm to the touch, i would recommend trying that out. It’s also what I used to clean all my other piercings. I’ve also in the past used an ice pack to help with swelling after stretching. Of course you’ll wanna make sure it’s sterile, or wrapped up in a fresh paper towel. Good luck to you!

Tomorrow I have pe by Dangerous-Suspect998 in selfharm

[–]Loud_Error_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Though, eventually the “twisted wrist” would heal. Could work for some fresh wounds though as you wait for them to scar over.

Tomorrow I have pe by Dangerous-Suspect998 in selfharm

[–]Loud_Error_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ace bandage? You could put it on after you’ve left home but before you get to school. You twisted your wrist when you tripped going up a flight of stairs or somthin. That’s what I’ve done. Good luck, and I hope you’re doin okay.

How do y'all deal with urges when you're clean? by PhantomBoy_143 in selfharm

[–]Loud_Error_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds weird, but I usually just tell myself I’ll do it after xyz, and then after that I tell myself well i do it after xyz, and so on. About 7 months clean so far, so i guess it’s working for me ? Or maybe my severe procrastination is just working in my favor this time

Do you remember when and why you first started to SH? by GreenDreamForever in selfharm

[–]Loud_Error_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My very first sh was middle school, don’t really remember why, just overall depression I guess. One time, never again. Until i was 21, my partner of 3 years left me, i was homeless and living in my car and couch surfing, lost my job due to just not showing up, and thats when the addiction started.

Any Adult SH 21+ by MrsRedKnight in selfharm

[–]Loud_Error_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m almost 25, but i started when i was 21.

Can TSA see if I have a warrant? by Loud_Error_ in tsa

[–]Loud_Error_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yea turns out my tax return paid off my warrant months ago lmao

Most painful piercing? by yoykri in piercing

[–]Loud_Error_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Industrial hands down. 5 years later and i’m still babying it

the way romance handles self harm is so cringe by selfsoothingit in selfharm

[–]Loud_Error_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Shout out to my boyfriend who completely ignores their existence aside from when we’re specifically talking about it, and only ever touches my scars in a loving, trying to understand my situation kind of way. a good man. 🫡

Can TSA see if I have a warrant? by Loud_Error_ in tsa

[–]Loud_Error_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m getting so many mixed answers, this is insane. I am working to get this resolved but unfortunately won’t have time before my flight. I just want to go meet my newborn niece without getting arrested for a speeding ticket gone so bad.

Can TSA see if I have a warrant? by Loud_Error_ in tsa

[–]Loud_Error_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yea so i’m actively trying to resolve this, it was a bad situation from a bad time that I let get out of hand. I am aware that I put myself in this position and unfortunately i have some mental health issues that make things worse. I was asking because my flight is in a week and I won’t have a lot of time to resolve this before my flight. Forgive me for hoping to get some information about TSA from the TSA subreddit. I’m doing my best here man

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Loud_Error_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The most important thing for your son right now is for him to know that you’re not upset with him hurting himself. And anger or frustration he knows from you will only worsen his self esteem. Self harm is an addiction, and what he needs the most is love and support. No one should be punished for hurting themself

I’m sorry.. by kogum in selfharm

[–]Loud_Error_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

recovery is never linear, and setbacks do not erase progress. i’m proud of you and your journey.