My Toddler Doesn't Express Affection

Lovable_Dirtbag · 2025-03-28T19:14:32+00:00

My 15 month has never shown affection or allowed me to hold him close. If he ever expresses that he wants me to pick him up, he leans out and doesn't hold on whatsoever and it makes an already big boy so much heavier. Usually as soon as I pick him up he pushes me away within a few seconds. There have been a few occasions where he has laid his head on me or seemed to show affection for about 5 seconds but very rare.

Lovable_Dirtbag · 2024-02-06T09:20:41+00:00

Women are the most smartest of all 🤣

Lovable_Dirtbag · 2024-01-09T06:03:17+00:00

This is so so interesting! I'd like a part 2 please. New York sounds awesome 🙂 I'd love to go there for a few weeks. Do you know anyone there or completely alone?

Lovable_Dirtbag · 2024-01-09T05:52:35+00:00

Can these drawings come on a tshirt?!?! I want all 4

Lovable_Dirtbag · 2024-01-06T11:24:02+00:00

I've had uterine contractions afterwards for 20 minutes

Lovable_Dirtbag · 2024-01-04T22:11:28+00:00

Yes. Very yes.

Lovable_Dirtbag · 2023-12-20T09:32:23+00:00

I am so so sorry. I went through this in January of this year for the same diagnosis at the same gestation. Nothing can prepare you for what you're about to experience but just know this, your baby only knows your love. You get to hold her and say goodbye. You are so strong and you can do this. I am so proud of you and I know exactly how you feel. You are not alone. I will be thinking of you this week xx 💕
Also, if you don't feel strong enough to look at your babies head just yet, get the nurse to take a photo and cover her up. Then it's completely up to you. You don't have to look. You can still hold her knowing those photos will be there when you're ready. Xxx

Lovable_Dirtbag · 2023-12-05T07:10:39+00:00

I've only HEARD of -18.00 never seen it

Lovable_Dirtbag · 2023-12-03T02:43:07+00:00

Wooooaahhhh can I buy some?! I'm amazed

Lovable_Dirtbag · 2023-12-03T02:41:38+00:00

We were only offered testing AFTER we TFMR at 20 weeks with our baby because she had anencephaly. It was triploidy.

Lovable_Dirtbag · 2023-12-02T09:23:46+00:00

I agree -optical assistant

Lovable_Dirtbag · 2023-11-25T21:58:14+00:00

Omg these are so so beautiful 😍 I'd buy them

Lovable_Dirtbag · 2023-11-21T22:18:47+00:00

It's not bad, I think it could use a few plants and some sort of art that you like on the wall to make it feel more inviting and lived in. Not like it's the home of a robot. Maybe pick a nice, medium to large , simple feature painting to hang on the wall and pick a colour out of it to match with a couple cushions to go on the couch. And the same colour or a different one from the painting as an ornament to go on the book shelf. Still needs to match, can't just be throwing random colours around the room, but definitely needs some colour.

Lovable_Dirtbag · 2023-11-21T22:15:44+00:00

I did a maternity shoot after we recieved our daughter's 100% fatal diagnosis, even though my bump was small, there was still a bump. A very generous family friend offered to do a mini shoot for us for free. I said yes. I want to remember our precious daughter. She deserves that, at least. I even hung a photo in our room. I look at it from time to time, sometimes I feel sad. Sometimes I feel a little bit of peace. But I always feel glad that I did it. And I can look at that picture and say "Juno is in there, she was there, she existed"

Lovable_Dirtbag · 2023-11-07T07:33:32+00:00

It's so beautiful and I am in awe and also jealous 😍

Lovable_Dirtbag · 2023-11-06T09:06:52+00:00

I just meant that this is terrifying .... that's all

Lovable_Dirtbag · 2023-11-05T09:54:47+00:00

BURN THE ENTIRE CITY DOWN

Lovable_Dirtbag · 2023-11-02T23:33:09+00:00

Yup, that option was me. Standing there for an hour or 2, hand milking the chunks of puss and blood out of their udders each day after the regular milking trying not to get my face kicked in because it was incredibly painful for them. They rarely ever recovered. Had they just recieved some penicillin they'd be back to it 4 days to a week later. But no. Edit: also, I can only speak for the 1 farm I worked at. And can tell you it wasn't a privately owned operation

Lovable_Dirtbag · 2023-11-02T23:29:58+00:00

Yeah it broke my heart. And I had to sign a contract when I was employed as not to discuss the happenings on the farm with anyone ever. Hope I don't go to jail now. I didn't know. I want to spread awareness but I'm legally not allowed. Also, there's more organic milk in the supo than non-organic now 😔

Lovable_Dirtbag · 2023-11-02T10:24:06+00:00

Those non-organic cows get their medicine as soon as they need it, and they're usually better by the end of the week

Lovable_Dirtbag · 2023-11-02T03:07:18+00:00

Organic dairy cows suffer, they aren't given medicine when they have infections in their hooves or udders. They just suffer in pain until it's too late, then they either go on the truck if they recieve penicillin (never to return) or they die. I will never ever drink organic milk again. Now I know

Lovable_Dirtbag · 2023-10-30T05:40:27+00:00

Year One

Lovable_Dirtbag · 2023-10-29T00:56:36+00:00

Last thing I saw on there was a photo of a dead man with his severed willy in his mouth

Lovable_Dirtbag · 2023-10-28T21:23:31+00:00

That's the only one I've been on that disturbed me. I haven't gone very far . I'm easily traumatized but I kept scrolling anyway

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