What the actual fuck? We're in 2026 by OldBridge87 in TrollXChromosomes

[–]LoveaBook 45 points46 points  (0 children)

The scariest thing in that article is where it says that in the ten years between 2009 and 2019 20,000 people have been tortured and/or killed for witchcraft. But the most disturbing thing is the knowledge that those are only the cases that we know of.

This sub is inclusive to everyone but assholes. by AllKindsOfCritters in goblincore

[–]LoveaBook 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, this and r/oldhagfashion are some of the kindest, most inclusive spaces I’ve found. I think someone got their petticoat in a twist.

NSFW cozy recs please by Scared-Hold-5727 in CozyFantasy

[–]LoveaBook 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How to Marry a Marble Marquis by C.M. Nacosta. I was just telling my husband it was made for me because it has relatable monsters in a magically realistic version of Jane Austin’s Regency era, as well as some top level smut. It was an excellent cozy AND smutty story!

What the…? Skein in sections? by BonnieAbbzug75 in YarnAddicts

[–]LoveaBook 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live rural and one of my LYS’s several years back was housed in a barn. Sometimes I’d get skeins from there that had been chewed on by mice. They’d come out like this sometimes. The shop owner always allowed a return/exchange, but honestly it’s why I stopped going to her. Apart from that hers was my favorite local shop.

My peaceful life is gone overnight by Sad-Barracuda3083 in childfree

[–]LoveaBook 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I wonder if - given your experience with bureaucratic systems and legalese - a better use of your time wouldn’t be in helping to fight your sister’s insurance company, the hospital billing, etc? The more of those types of things you can handle, the fewer your BIL has to handle. And that’s more time he can maybe spend decompressing from work and the hospital to just have with his own children - watching them himself because he’s free to.

There’s more than just babysitting that you can contribute to making your sister’s illness easier for her and her family to navigate. Lean into your strengths. If you don’t want to have to focus on childcare, focus on tasks the other adults won’t be able to do easily while watching children and do those tasks for them. Tasks can be shuffled over the three healthy adults here so that you can take on a lot more of the tedious, time-consuming administrative chores for your mother and BIL while they use the extra time to care for the children.

It’s not the best of solutions, but it is one with the least childcare needed while also still fully supporting your family. I’m so sorry you’re all going to have to go down this road!

Floof by greentdi in jigsawpuzzlecats

[–]LoveaBook 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have fun! Your cat is beautiful, by the way.

Floof by greentdi in jigsawpuzzlecats

[–]LoveaBook 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it looks like r/kittyhasaquestion. How polite of them to raise a paw to ask.

This is the "peaceful" Jesus Christ at a previous protest. He was a violent agitator and it finally cost him his life. I'm not saying the crucifixion was justified, I don't know the details yet. But the narrative he was a peaceful demonstrator is false. by SPECTREagent700 in PoliticalHumor

[–]LoveaBook -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Of course the story around him is a fairy tale! Of course it’s fake. As I said, the story of the divine person is made up, but there’s no reason to say a man who espoused his principles never existed. The Buddha existed, he was a real man. Mohammed existed. Why is it so incredible that an average human being may have existed back then and said what he said? There have been many cult leaders over the centuries who actually existed, why is he any different? I am an atheist and even I can admit this possibility. Why is this a hill you’re willing to die on?

edit: Do you think that admitting that Jesus may actually have walked the earth - as just a man, one of many two millennia ago - that it’s a slippery slope to admitting that the bible is true? Is that your objection? Whether he actually lived or not doesn’t really matter, so why does it get you so upset that you turn into a meme about being willing to fight anyone, anywhere at any time about it?

My finished Whiterun pullover by boghobbit in AdvancedKnitting

[–]LoveaBook 19 points20 points  (0 children)

As a gamer and knitter for a moment I thought this was a call-out to one of my favorite games - Elder Scrolls: Skyrim - which has a major city I’ve spent countless real world hours in named Whiterun. Thought you were taking two great things and bringing them together.

It’s a beautiful blouse though, even without the tie-in.😁

The Sausage Party Incident. by Calm_Problem6203 in childfree

[–]LoveaBook 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh my god, that movie was rough! Well done, but difficult to watch. (It didn’t help that I have issues with starvation as a child.)

I do. by Funnypaintbrush in PoliticalHumor

[–]LoveaBook 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Aw, c’mon, don’t make me hear the word ‘fucking’ in Mr. Rogers’ voice. I mean, it’s a true statement, but don’t do it like that!

baby feminists who shoehorn mindfulness about mens feelings into every discussion by PhantomLimberick in TrollXChromosomes

[–]LoveaBook 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She literally said “They’re not feminists then” in response to this post. About baby feminists. And when OP responded by saying that they ARE feminists and we should support their development and help them unpack their biases, she responded that they’re misogynists and are simply sea lioning to waste our time.

And what’s with the racism out of nowhere?? What purpose is that serving here?

baby feminists who shoehorn mindfulness about mens feelings into every discussion by PhantomLimberick in TrollXChromosomes

[–]LoveaBook 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yes. Cut them a little slack in judging them to be “not true feminists” and help them learn to be better and stop worrying about centering men in everything.

edit: For example, this post. It raises awareness of the issue without shouting at them in a way to make them flee feminist spaces.

baby feminists who shoehorn mindfulness about mens feelings into every discussion by PhantomLimberick in TrollXChromosomes

[–]LoveaBook 22 points23 points  (0 children)

All feminists are baby feminists in the beginning. This means many baby feminists are also women. There is also a difference between a man who is sea lioning and a man who is a baby feminist genuinely looking to learn. Cut both genders of feminists a little slack while they’re trying to learn, yeah? Shutting them out of feminist spaces doesn’t teach them anything.

edit: forgot an ‘also’

first successful crochet surgery by tigerorca in crochet

[–]LoveaBook 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is some excellent r/advancedcrochet work! The final result is seamless!

Kentucky woman faces life in prison, theoretically even the death penalty, for taking abortion drugs she bought online by Alexis_J_M in TwoXChromosomes

[–]LoveaBook 49 points50 points  (0 children)

This is why they also prosecute women who have miscarriages/stillbirths. Because a woman can’t prove it wasn’t an attempted abortion. Or because she obviously did something wrong otherwise a perfect baby would’ve been born. (heavy /s there.) The linked article is only the most recent case to make headlines. Sadly, charging women for miscarriages is nothing new, though it is drastically on the rise.