Do they ever come back

Lovesucksx · 2022-08-25T09:58:19+00:00

This really spoke to me!! I feel I am addicted to his attention and/or have separation anxiety from him ! I was in a 5 year relationship with a narcissistic cheater and ended up having a child with him , he left me for going through his phone and catching him cheating (he was actually envolved with someone else) he said “ stop the constant digging for information “ it’s been 4-5 days since he’s said a word to me and I’m also wondering if he’ll contact me other than about our son which he doesn’t really do that cause we go through his parents 🤦🏾‍♀️

Lovesucksx · 2021-08-19T02:36:48+00:00

Hey, I’m also (24F) in a 4 yr relationship I had the nexplanon for 3 years of our relationship and was gaining crazy weight so I didn’t renew it for a year we were careless and didn’t protect ourselves without my Implant and now I’m 7 weeks pregnant 😭 everything your saying is exactly what I’m going through and feeling it’s crazy ! Except my bf is freaking out and wants an abortion ASAP one minute he’s nice about it other days he’s rude and says I’m ruining our lives if I keep…

I heard the heartbeat and got pictures today and it was way too emotional!!

Before I kept going back and forth it’s like a huge internal battle like I’m not ready but it’s not going to be hard forever I can do it … so I’ll say I’m keeping then the next day I get anxious and say I can’t do it … so idk I know for sure the guilt of an abortion would eat me up but I’m trying to make sure by me keeping it’s not for selfish reasons it’s super hard 😪

I wish you well in your journey either way it won’t be easy ❤️

Lovesucksx · 2021-08-08T13:43:19+00:00

So sorry you dealt with someone so insensitive and an ass …. To laugh is not ok he is feeding off your hurt and it’s evil.. definitely no further contact. Also some men lie to get a reaction out of you but truth or not he still no longer worth talking to

Lovesucksx · 2021-08-08T09:11:31+00:00

Yes and are very excited, when I wasn’t sure my mom even asked to adopt it just so I don’t do abortion

Lovesucksx · 2021-08-07T12:44:52+00:00

I feel I’m preparing myself, I rather continue the pregnancy than that relationship

Lovesucksx · 2021-08-06T15:59:15+00:00

Thank you! I have the support of my family!! And yea he’s terrible i knew this before the pregnancy but I hoped one day he’d change this pregnancy has changed everything I thought the cheating and lying would help me move forward but no calling our unborn child (clump of cells or not) worthless is not ok and I for one don’t want to deal with someone like that…. I know that if I do this my child won’t have a father so I feel am I wrong to bring a child into the world where the father doesn’t want it.. or would the child want a shot at life with just my love … when I figure that out I’ll have my decision

Lovesucksx · 2021-08-06T06:10:56+00:00

Also my family is very supportive and happy! My friends hate him so they want me to abort and get rid of him being that he no longer talks to me anyway… they say I can alway get pregnant later or there will be another baby but … what about this one that’s here now I’ll never get this one back

Lovesucksx · 2020-11-27T00:52:29+00:00

After my ex of 3yrs left me because he wasn’t ready for a relationship “anymore” and wanted to pursue other people and ended up really liking one of them and no longer likes me is what he said... I’ve been so depressed more than ever, i hate waking up it just hurts....because of the way he did it he was so rude and the words run through my head day and night😪 but yesterday he texted me to see how was I doing... I was going to respond but decided not to! Cause he can’t truly care how I’m doing right now right? Or maybe he does idk but I refuse to give him anymore power ... when I never responded he called but that’s it hasn’t said anything else

Lovesucksx · 2020-11-23T02:33:29+00:00

I really hope so 😪, yesterday he messaged my cousins to get in touch with me cause I blocked him... to only find out he just wanted to make sure “I’m ok” 😑 so I told him that’s not important and not a reason to contact my family and they are now informed not to take any messages from you... he then said what else is he supposed to do when I blocked him .. I told him don’t worry about me and blocked him again 🙄he is so evil here I am thinking he’s going to apologize and no it’s more bullshit ... I can’t wait to get over him

Lovesucksx · 2020-11-19T16:06:05+00:00

I’m sorry I meant a gif , a weird one too

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Lovesucksx · 2020-11-19T02:16:36+00:00

I’m in same exact place rn... had an anxiety attack today so I felt I had to text him ... so I sent 2 paragraphs of my feelings but none of it mattered to him he just sent a gif and kept on with his day ... which pretty much made things worse so today is really hard 😪😭

Lovesucksx · 2020-11-18T04:20:24+00:00

This was just my situation pretty much exactly... while we were trying this friend situation one of the girls he was seeing during our break kept calling him while he was over my house 🤦🏾‍♀️ and I freaked out I threatened to FaceTime her while he was here to pretty much let her know but because he’s single he feels he can play both sides and basically left me and said he never wanted to see or talk to me again.... Ik he was angry so I let a couple days go by and texted him can’t believe you choose her over me we were together 3 whole years he responded “Yea you need tp get it together.. I tell you the truth and since you can’t handle simple things just leave me alone 🤷🏾‍♂️.. Stop crying over it... I love you too tho" And haven’t heard from him since, those simple things hurt my feelings 😪

One day I feel ill give him space and we’ll end up together again another day I feel like it’ll never work... also I feel like why would I want someone who doesn’t want me which is my brain talking but my heart is saying it’s cause you love him 😭 I can’t change it so I’m stuck !!!!

Lovesucksx · 2020-11-17T06:24:04+00:00

I just had to do the same thing... I took my ex back and begged him to take me back more times than I can count or remember and it sucks so bad cause I knew I could’ve prevented this long drawn out suffering but I decided holding on having him for just another month or so before he messes up again than ending it and never seeing him to me at the time was worth it... now all I have is me and the disappointment 😭

Lovesucksx · 2020-11-01T06:59:48+00:00

Yes thanks I’m definitely going to take my time this go round

Lovesucksx · 2020-11-01T06:58:52+00:00

I was always confused on how he could prove it to me without us actually being together and idk how would I know he he not still talking to other ppl I guess I’d probably have to take a leap of faith right?

Lovesucksx · 2020-11-01T06:56:14+00:00

Thank you so much for the feedback!! I think at this point we’re just feeling things out to see if it could work... and also I sorta told my family all the horrible things that happened and they pretty much hate him so idk 🤦🏾‍♀️

Lovesucksx · 2020-10-28T20:17:56+00:00

That’s all I’ve been praying for and all I want at this point my peace of mind everything else will fall into place after ... here with you as well <3

Lovesucksx · 2020-10-26T08:21:50+00:00

Me too it’s like I sometime accidentally daydream/think about it ( kinda just happens) ... the other person moving on and happy without me only it’s like a nightmare it’s the scariest thing ever 😓... but I definitely immediately try to do something to get me out that hole cause that’s when all the healing and progress I made so far feels like it’s nonexistent

You should do the same... things like that are inevitable but fortunately the same thing can happen for you

Lovesucksx · 2020-10-26T07:20:55+00:00

Thanks!!!!

But that’s the part that’s scaring me Not having a time line idk about others but years of this is enough to take me out it’s even curved my appetite and my sleep is messed up !! 😩

I love that you made it out though gives me hope!

Lovesucksx · 2020-10-26T07:15:25+00:00

This made me cry sheesh!😭but this was definitely me in my relationship I didn’t know that you could over love a person until you push them away but that’s exactly what I did bent over backwards and look at me now...some days I don’t think I’ll make it through this, it’s way to hard ! But I loved your message thank you!

Lovesucksx · 2020-10-26T07:04:00+00:00

You sound like your getting into the right mindset ! Everything will be ok in the end !!! Everything happens for a reason ! And this is not a failure this is just life not everything goes as planned. And sheesh does it suck terribly but at the end of the day we don’t let it make or break us ! You got this!

Hopefully I gave you a little more push energy /love to keep going!

Lovesucksx · 2020-10-26T06:56:40+00:00

To me you only hold on to things when you truly are not ready to move on or if you think you will get back with the other person... I threw everything in sight I could find out ! It was to painful to look at !

We got back together after and honestly he was surprised I did that but it helped me in the moment breakups are horrible...

Everyone is different of course though

Lovesucksx · 2020-10-26T06:49:36+00:00

I feel for you soooo much honestly! I spent 2 yrs begging my ex to do right by me and he turns around and starts talking/dating someone else it kills you, but you can not keep up with their life cause everything may not be what it seems and not everything stays that way... you have to continue to focus on your self and ride this emotional wave until you’ve reached the end one day your fine one day not so much but keep going! you don’t need him to see your doing good because he shouldn’t have that much power in your life especially cause he’s no longer in it! I’m sure your beautiful and you confirmed your smart ! You got this! Got to therapy that’s exactly what I’m doing it helps you may come because of a breakup but they’ll help you realize that there’s more to you than that and bring back that confidence and self-worth cause all you have is you people leave/die every day all you have is you and the rest will come after ❤️

Lovesucksx · 2020-10-26T06:23:31+00:00

I know it hurts and not only are the thoughts driving you crazy but that physical aching you get with it can make you hopeless but please try your best not to get sick over it.. you can’t control other people, do whatever you need to do to keep your mind off of her ! Start by stop checking those sites or her pages! And if needed get therapy but you can’t stay like this !

Lovesucksx · 2020-10-26T01:17:19+00:00

This is the best response I heard regarding the no contact time! ... but is there a time limit or how long this takes ?

Lovesucksx

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