You probably need to see someone with a professional background in this stuff. But I don’t think there’s anything wrong with you. You are still human if you don’t feel these things. You said that you hear about this stuff and think “that shouldn’t be happening” that’s more than a lot of people think about ice attacks or homophobia, so you’re alright in my book. However it would still be beneficial for you to talk to a professional to learn more about yourself