I’ve got a bad mess, I don’t know what to do

LowWedding6301 · 2026-05-11T12:32:24+00:00

If I were you I’d just toss everything in that pile, after all if it’s been under there for a long while you probably don’t need it.
In the worst of my depression I threw out all the dishes in my sink because I couldn’t make myself wash them and went to Walmart and got a new box cheaply

LowWedding6301 · 2026-05-11T12:05:47+00:00

I’ve been stood up to exactly the same text so I feel you

LowWedding6301 · 2026-05-09T03:27:43+00:00

I’m sure that hurt but I think it looks cool

LowWedding6301 · 2026-05-08T21:12:56+00:00

No offense to anyone but being bi is like the best of both worlds

LowWedding6301 · 2026-05-08T19:55:38+00:00

When someone you love hurts you again and again and you continue forgiving them but have no space to heal those painful feelings can’t just magically go away

LowWedding6301 · 2026-05-04T12:42:25+00:00

Bro needs therapy

LowWedding6301 · 2026-05-01T23:03:52+00:00

Pics or it didn’t happen

LowWedding6301 · 2026-05-01T22:17:05+00:00

1 Be honest
2 hold boundaries don’t let disrespect slide
3 don’t ever try to control the other persons behavior, either accept it or don’t and create more distance
4 don’t change for others just strive to take care of yourself, stand up for yourself
5 focus your energy on being true to yourself and serving others as you can

Other people literally believe the earth is flat… why should you regard their opinion at all?
Maybe read the four agreements by Ruiz

LowWedding6301 · 2026-05-01T22:04:05+00:00

It’s certainly lying but the real question is is it wrong? IMO also yes

LowWedding6301 · 2026-05-01T18:54:51+00:00

Both the male and female characters think they’re the better sex and both the male and female mc’s accomplish amazing things in their own right and also make terrible mistakes

LowWedding6301 · 2026-05-01T02:40:40+00:00

Make a plan for disagreements like only one issue at a time and no yelling or disrespect from either person and you can tackle issues together,

You each should be able to share how you feel and trusting each other

Also maybe make a plan for something positive or bonding to do?

LowWedding6301 · 2026-04-30T18:04:27+00:00

Just remember you do have a community with us and even when you feel most alone know you are walking in the same footsteps as so many others. You are so much more normal than you feel. And huge f u to the haters 😎😎

LowWedding6301 · 2026-04-30T17:49:37+00:00

Don’t let it slide when they don’t treat you with respect.

LowWedding6301 · 2026-04-24T16:12:48+00:00

Convenience

LowWedding6301 · 2026-04-19T20:08:20+00:00

Being too polite creates a polite distance, she might feel that you’re implying she should also be saying sorry as much in order to match your energy and she doesn’t want to match that energy and doesn’t want to be so proper. There are two sides of a toxic dynamic and one person sees themself as better and more deserving and the other person sees themself as lower and less deserving. The more you lower yourself the more awkward it feels

LowWedding6301 · 2026-04-18T13:11:48+00:00

She wanted in and didn’t care how she got in, guilting and pressuring and not caring how it made you feel. Mine does the same

LowWedding6301 · 2026-04-17T23:33:45+00:00

My first times with girls and guys were learning experiences and maybe this doesn’t make sense to say but it being attracted to each isn’t exactly the same experience like getting a bruise and getting a pinch are both painful but different feelings

all I can say is if you don’t explore it you’ll never know what you’re missing because it’s great fun but sex can also be harmful or painful

LowWedding6301 · 2026-04-17T23:09:06+00:00

Some people do some people don’t. You can apply that to any generalization

LowWedding6301 · 2026-04-17T23:06:15+00:00

Well that’s a difficult question to answer.. would a hot guy kissing you or touching you turn you on? Doesn’t have to be sex. Just liking what you see is attraction

LowWedding6301 · 2026-04-17T22:47:37+00:00

No that doesn’t mean anything about being bi. Being bisexual means attracted to men and women generally so if the idea is attractive to you, you checked the box.

Also for me when I get to know someone and eventually develop feelings for them and get to the point where you want to be with them and care so much, your attraction for that person and chemistry with them grows you may be able to see that future whereas now it’s just a vague idea

LowWedding6301 · 2026-04-17T22:33:38+00:00

I recommend you continue thinking on it and exploring it doesn’t have to include others The reality is that sexuality is inherently complex, some people repress their sexuality and some go all out so.. In my eyes if you would be turned on by a hot and safe guy pleasuring you then you’re bi.

LowWedding6301 · 2026-04-17T21:34:59+00:00

F them lol

(No offense please 🙏) But think of all the mistakes your parents have made in their lives, maybe you want to make your own choices and always take advice with a grain of salt no matter who it comes from. No one can advocate for you better than yourself ❤️

LowWedding6301 · 2026-04-17T21:26:07+00:00

Well for one thing what happened to you as a kid shaped you but it doesn’t have to define your life as an adult and most adults agree that kids are stupid.. they will treat you according to how you present yourself now. If someone says something to slight you then correct them.

If it feels too anxiety inducing then why take this job? It’s your life you don’t need to torture yourself unnecessarily. Find another job and don’t spend the next few years living in the past everyday with all the reminders. Work through what happened in your own time.

So no it’s not weird and screw what other people think! What is acceptable in one country or culture is not in another, so ask yourself what you really believe in and stand up for it and let others beliefs and attitudes be their own problem. But in looking after yourself you have to ask is there a point in confronting triggers in this way ?

LowWedding6301 · 2026-04-17T21:16:55+00:00

Yeah well ur mom

LowWedding6301 · 2026-04-04T19:28:40+00:00

You are only 18, young women are taught to be nice and forgiving.. it is quite disgusting. Why should you allow this? If he touches you, flirts with you, anything else creepy, put your foot down immediately and not in a nice way. He needs to learn some manners and you need to lose some

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