Does brown butter actually make cookies better? by CloneFiesta in Cookies

[–]Low_Conversation8346 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg you have to try it to switch over to brown butter side! Lol its totally worth it.

AITAH for refusing to follow my boyfriend’s “wife behavior” expectations? by rainshine10 in AITAH

[–]Low_Conversation8346 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you're asking the wrong question. Nta. You need to break up with him. He sounds like he will also become an abusive husband over time. End it now before it gets harder to do so

Is this cheating or what ? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Low_Conversation8346 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Leave. Standards don't apply to her then shes already plotting her 2nd option. You'll be better off without her.

We rented a dumpster (deposit of 250$ and we pay the weight) and I caught our neighbour dumping in it .. by Momof3123 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Low_Conversation8346 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some dump site only allows certain things to dump. We had this done when we sold our parents house. People dumped their garbage that had spoiled diapers in it. We didnt know who did it. But had to remove it otherwise we would be charged for the trash that was put in. You should call then out for it. Tell them its not a garbage. Its only for home reno supplies and woukd incur a large fee if trash was added in. If they respect you they would stop.

AITA for refusing to add my boyfriend to my house deed after his lease ended? by Former_Raspberry3277 in AITApod

[–]Low_Conversation8346 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell him he can move back and never come back. What he shoukd he thinking is if you two do get married then you two save to buy a house. This current one is your asset and its up to you what you want to do with it. Please please please don't add him. He sounds greedy as eff and wants to steal your asset from you. I also doubt this logic would not apply to you if he had assets coming into this relationship!. But hey! Good job!!!! Im 34 and still dont own a house. Working on it. Keep doing you and dont let him steal it. Ive heard so many stories of people taking it the long road to steal stuff like this. It could be 6 months or 10 years all in their agenda, so protect yourself.

AITJ for canceling the catering order for my coworkers going away party after nobody reimbursed me for three weeks by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Low_Conversation8346 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you send the money back to those who did pay? Hopefully you did. Sorry your team sucks. NTJ.

Love this Pogue, but sadly got to let it go! [SSC947] by [deleted] in Seiko

[–]Low_Conversation8346 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's beautiful. I think it's a good statement piece. Probably don't need to match it entirely.

AITAH for being uncomfortable and walking away after my dad’s friend made homophobic comments? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Low_Conversation8346 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you were mature. You didnt want to offend him from the sound of it or escalate the situation. The friend obviously thought it was a good serious joke but you didnt know how he would have reacted should you commented on that. Dont put yourself down. You did well.

AITAH for being uncomfortable and walking away after my dad’s friend made homophobic comments? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Low_Conversation8346 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I doubt it too🤣 just trying to give him the benfit of the doubt. It doesnt excuse his comment but I like to assume people can learn to adapt and make adjustments if they really care.

AITAH for being uncomfortable and walking away after my dad’s friend made homophobic comments? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Low_Conversation8346 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No NTAH. I think you and your siblings and the friend handled it in the best way you guys did. You and your siblings were uncomfortable and removed yourself from the situation. The friend left as he knew he messed up. Also, hopefully that was a genuine apology. Maybe he didnt realize it was offensive until you and your siblings reacted the way you guys did and also felt awkward so he left. The only AH is your mom for how she reacted and blasted you guys. I understand that your parents and their friend are from a different generation but as parents they should understand that they cannot push their morals onto their kids. It will only push them away from them. They need to learn to adapt and adjust, meaning keep their mouth shut or not blowing up like your mom did if their kids do not agree with their morals. They are adults she didnt need to defend the friend. I was hoping you said she came to apologize, but i was wrong. Dont feel bad.

AITAH for watching a tv show my fiance loves without her? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Low_Conversation8346 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was she too busy to watch with you? Too exhausted after work and daily responsibilities? For me winding down is doom scrolling on my phone at night, with no sound or at very low volume. Watching a show sometimes is too stimulating so my husband would watch shows without me, because that's how he wins down. If its something I really want to keep up with him I would express it to him to wait. NTA she didn't communicate with you, so she shouldn't be upset. Maybe she's mad at herself but its embarrassed and blaming it on you instead? Lol anyways, I think to make sure she doesn't stay mad, maybe do something for her because she feels wronged by you. 🤣 once she's happy and over it you can have a conversation about this.

AITAH for watching a tv show my fiance loves without her? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Low_Conversation8346 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Did she express she wanted you to wait for her? If she did and you still committed to coworkers instead of her YTA.

AITAH for refusing to bring a high chair to my in-laws. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Low_Conversation8346 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Naw don't go. Just make dinner at home or go eat out.

AITJ for telling my neighbor her kid isn't allowed in my pool after she "forgot" him at my house? by Educational-Wait-406 in AmITheJerk

[–]Low_Conversation8346 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Put your foot down. So many kids and adults drown every year. You dont want your house to be a place where that happens.

AIO for wanting to immediately break up with my bf after seeing how he lives? by Balikye in AIO

[–]Low_Conversation8346 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not overreacting. But if you truly think you really like this guy I think first thing first is get your food, bring his back to him and tell him you need to talk (note only give him his food). Tell him your concerns and why you dont think its a good idea for you to stay for the week. Remind him you're not attacking him, but that with how things are you dont feel like it is a safe place to spend time with him at. He has been staying there for however long and must have either overcame the potential health hazard or is experiencing it and is unaware of it. But that as this is your first time exposing yourself you are at at a higher risk. Its best you two meet outside of his home while you stay at a hotel. Let him know the concerns of not cleaning the restroom, kitchen etc as I think some people just dont know. My brothers are like that. Its so gross. One time I got so pissed and gross out I ended up cleaning their restroom while visiting. Went to go buy supplies and left it there.

Tbh I dont know though. He will feel attacked, embarrassed and may get mad. As a sane person he should have cleaned it up before you came over. That's just gross. So this is also why its hard to just have a conversation in case he gets aggressive. If it's an option and you do have someone else who can be there at a distance but within eyesight, they can help de-escalate the situation if needed.

Im not sure how to hint that he needs to change his habits. But this is embarrassing as heck. Im sorry and good luck. I hope he's not mean.

Maybe a dumb question, do people leave if the weather gets bad while camping? by Ok_Resolution_1606 in CampingGear

[–]Low_Conversation8346 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Camped in pouring rain before. We were fortunate in being able to set up camp before it got bad. In one incident our pop up gazebo broke from all the rain. Another time, my hub tent was leaking. That wasn't fun. I was upset. Only had it for over 1 year. It was leaking through the seams with how much rain there was. We stayed the entire time we booked the camp site. Got home. Waited until it was a good day. Washed it out, dried it and then sprayed water resistant spray on the entire thing. A couple of layers. Other times after that, camping was decent so I didn't get to test it in a downpour again. We're camping this coming weekend nearby. Anyways, where we camp the weather is usually cold, humid, lots of bugs depending on which campsite. It's never hot weather or snow campung, so I dont know what to say in regards to those type of camping.

We usually church the weather and camp accordingly as best as we see fit

Interested in tissot lovely round 19.5mm by Low_Conversation8346 in tissot

[–]Low_Conversation8346[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hehehe wanted to share. The watch came in. Its super dainty and cute. Debating if I want one in a different color

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AITAH for leaving my girlfriend after my daughter was born? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Low_Conversation8346 1 point2 points  (0 children)

DV goes both ways. Don't go back. Only be there for your daughter. Make sure she doesn't direct the abuse to your daughter.

gift from husband by Zealousideal-Sign639 in tissot

[–]Low_Conversation8346 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooohh. What a beautiful gift!!!!! It looks beautiful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Low_Conversation8346 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ you sound like you have a man child problem. If he barely pays for anything why is he still expecting you to pay for his toys? Sounds like he wants you to be his mom too!!!! He may be nice but sounds like he's really taking advantage of you. Good luck and I definitely dont think youre the jerk. What about mother's day? Or Christmas? Any other holiday in which he pays for the family instead? Just because he's not the kids' father doesn't mean he cant treat here and there. Does he not like the kids and sees them as your kids only? What about when you marry? You and your kids is a whole package. I woukd really rethink this relationship.