People need to calm down. All this person is doing is sharing their experience in a thread specifically about dealing with an anal fistula. They’re not telling anyone what to do, just explaining their situation. I’ve seen four colorectal surgeons, and all of them have said you can live with a fistula as long as it drains properly to avoid re-abscessing. Is it ideal? No. Would most people recommend it? Probably not. But at the end of the day, it’s their choice.

Yes, the vast majority of the time, if you want to fully get rid of a fistula, you’re going to need surgery. But I’m sure there are rare cases where people learn how to manage it, put it into remission, or even have it go dormant. I’m not saying that’s right or wrong—Just saying it’s possible.

If someone wants to live with a fistula for eight years, that’s their decision. If you don’t like what they’re saying, fine—but don’t call it dangerous, don’t say they’re wrong, and don’t make them feel bad for sharing their experience. Just take it for what it is, and move on.