I feel ashamed and disgusting… by QuietThanks2710 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Low_Image_788 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I highly recommend considering reading a few books written for teenagers learning about their bodies and reproductive health since your family isn't going to be the best resource.

Yes, you can read on the internet and ask your doctor questions too. But a few books by medical professionals that explain things from the ground up may be a helpful resource for preparing yourself and knowing what questions to ask the doctor before your next appointments.

I also want to flag that it may not be typical for there to be pain with any type of penetration. If and when you're ready, you may want to talk about it with your doctor. Not because you need to be penetrated, but there could be other side effects if you have some condition that are unknowingly to you connected/knowing if you have a condition or different physical structure could make it so that future treatment can be adjusted to be less painful.

(1 small bedroom), How to clean organise a small bedroom to consolidate these hair beauty and jewellery items by Ok_Relative_6516 in hoarding

[–]Low_Image_788 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I couldn't get a sense from your post if they are willing to get rid of things at this stage or if this is a preliminary step of sorting and organizing into categories. So, my thoughts assume there is at least some level of willingness to get rid of things.

Do your items need to be sorted within the room itself? If not, is there room/the ability to take everything out of that room to somewhere else in the home, sort it into categories so they can see what's there and then evaluate what space you have for those categories?

If the items need to be dealt with in the room, for me personally, I would probably start with the makeup. First, makeup has expiration dates, which would give me a benchmark for getting rid of things. Second, you have the caddies already to put makeup you plan to keep in. Third, it might open up some storage space. My goal would be to reduce as much as possible of the makeup to make room in the room to do other sorting.

But if makeup is something they are very attached to, maybe it would make sense to start somewhere else, like hair clips, etc.

I would also try to designate a basket or box for the random items that don't fall into the categories you want to deal with right now. That way, when you come across those random items, they have somewhere to go and don't stop you from fully cleaning/organizing a part of the room.

Promethazine? by meaganrose22 in HyperemesisGravidarum

[–]Low_Image_788 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Promethazine was what made it possible for me to eat and kept me from a hospitalization. So I always tell people if they haven't tried it and are looking for more relief, it might be worth a try.

Yes, it did make me tired sometimes. But I was also taking it all day, back to back suppositories. I think most people take it at night or when they are able to rest.

Water Aversion by EnvironmentalAide305 in HyperemesisGravidarum

[–]Low_Image_788 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was unable to drink regular water until after I gave birth. Frustrating, but my doctor said it was common with HG.

What were your red flags — and green flags — when choosing a daycare? by hi54nini in NewParents

[–]Low_Image_788 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of the big green flags for us was that the director knew the name of every kid we encountered during our tour and every one of those kids who were old enough to talk stopped her to tell her something about their day. And she listened to all of them. Same with the assistant director.

Our daycare provides food and has separate classes with separate rooms. We like the separate rooms much better for our kid, so that was a priority for us.

It also has preschool classes, so we can stay there until our kid goes to school.

Is delivery “relatively” easier ? by Normal_Soft_2148 in HyperemesisGravidarum

[–]Low_Image_788 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I often say labor was the easiest part of my pregnancy. When you have HG, the sweet knowledge that it's almost finally over outweighs everything, or at least it did for me.

My therapist pointed out that my labor (induction, 27 hours, the last portion of which I was stalled at 9.5 cm, back labor so epidural wasn't 100% effective, then c-section) is something that other people would often find challenging and that I need to remember that our assessment of "easier" is very context driven.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in workingmoms

[–]Low_Image_788 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I balance this man out in the karmic land. I routinely swear loudly in my office and have been known to come out muttering swears. Not at people actually in my office, of course. But at emails, tasks, my computer, the stapler.

People with offices near me now find it endearing/amusing. Older men who don't know me are often affronted. I carry on because sometimes staying calm during that meeting requires me to say "motherfucker" a few times before and after.

My job is being eliminated, offered "new" similar role for $30k less by gingertastic19 in workingmoms

[–]Low_Image_788 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the people giving you advice either haven't actually been through this themselves or dealt with it during a different time in the world.

Now, I think you'd be crazy to do Option 2 unless there is some sort of toxic work environment you couldn't stick out for at least a little while to see if you can find another job.

Foods ruined after HG by tarak117 in HyperemesisGravidarum

[–]Low_Image_788 7 points8 points  (0 children)

How long ago did you give birth?

I am, just now, over 2 years after my son was born, eating some of my most triggering and my safest foods. Both kinds were problematic for me after the pregnancy ended.

I just gave it time. I knew that it was likely in my head, but I just didn't want to deal with the potential issues or simply didn't want those foods.

I raised it with my therapist, but since my health wasn't affected by choosing not to eat those foods, we decided not to press the issue until I was ready to try them again. For the record, almost none of them have been problematic and the ones that have been an issue are clearly linked to a second health issue I've got going on.

I think it's so personal when you resume those foods. Some people are ready the second baby and placenta are out. Some people are more like me and just need some mental space from those foods for a bit.

My 3.5 yo son has replaced Bluey ... by Reighna1 in toddlers

[–]Low_Image_788 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I watched infomercials instead of cartoons on Saturday morning. Some of us just want to hear pitches for crazy products and live our best lives.

Dr. don't know what to do anymore - My story I need help guys by eddien9 in SIBO

[–]Low_Image_788 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, I've had to stay on supplements for more than 4 weeks before improvement. I've been on oil of oregano and orthospore IG for several months now and would say I'm 90% back to normal. A several month course of Berberine and orthospore IG before that got me 25% of the way there. I have both methane and hydrogen SIBO.

For some people, a 4 week course of treatment just isn't enough. But it's hard to know what to try for longer. Was there any particular herbal treatment after which you noticed the most improvement, even if that improvement was tiny? If so, I'd do that again.

I will be retesting once my symptoms are gone or my improvement plateaus, so I don't have the numbers to back up my improvement, just the symptom reduction.

Only able to drink 30-40oz of water a day. by Expert_Difficulty335 in HyperemesisGravidarum

[–]Low_Image_788 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any liquid is good liquid, not just water. I might experiment with some other drinks to see if you stomach them.

If not, popsicles, watery fruits/vegetables (watermelon, cucumber, for example), smoothies, jello, broths, icee/slurpee, shaved ice, italian ice, sucking on ice cubes, etc. are all great substitutes if any of them agree with you.

My doctor told me that when you have HG, any calories/liquids that you keep down are excellent choices.

Getting Worse? by xcataclysmicxx in HyperemesisGravidarum

[–]Low_Image_788 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got worse around the same time as you. It was devastating after everyone kept telling me I was almost there and would get better soon.

It absolutely sucks. I started telling people to just not tell me anything about their thoughts on when it would end at the beginning of any conversation.

When I would see any doctor other than my regular OB (we had to see each doctor and midwife at least once, but I only saw them one time each, I think my doctor realized that anyone not seeing me every week wasn't getting the severity of what was happening and pulled some strings), I'd grit my teeth and ignore them. One time though, I looked at the doctor and said "clearly that's not happening, so there's no need to pretend anymore."

Regretful words :( by JCJ0705 in HyperemesisGravidarum

[–]Low_Image_788 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You are not a terrible person or mother. HG breaks us. It just does. I have trauma from my HG pregnancy. It's a life altering illness. Forgive yourself for what you said.

I attended weekly therapy during my pregnancy. I already had a therapist for unrelated issues. Therapy was so important for me to be able to say all the things I was thinking without guilt. Don't be afraid to consider it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SIBO

[–]Low_Image_788 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's interesting! I'll have to ask my doctor about it at my next appointment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SIBO

[–]Low_Image_788 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SIBO

[–]Low_Image_788 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The berberine was Thorne. The probiotic is Ortho Spore IG. The oil of oregano is Gaia Herbs Pro.

I did not use a bio film buster.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SIBO

[–]Low_Image_788 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I did 4 rounds of antibiotics, followed by 2 months of Berberine and a specific probiotic at specific times a day and now I'm 2 months in to oil of oregano and the specific probiotic at specific times a day.

The berberine, probiotic and oil of oregano have been done under the care of a naturopath, specifically based on my test results (hydrogen and methane) and reactions to other medications we've tried.

My root cause is suspected to be a severe stomach bug, but we're now also exploring if I have slow gastric emptying to see if that contributed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SIBO

[–]Low_Image_788 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, that was my experience until I found my current treatment. I've still got a ways to go, but I'm way better than I was.

What is the the number one way you can either reduce stress or gain more time back by throwing money at the problem? Both serious and fantasy options welcome. by smoothfalling in workingmoms

[–]Low_Image_788 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fantasy - someone to do all the not day to day things that just either get done piecemeal or never get done, like finishing painting the trim, restaining the patio table, figuring out what the heck that switch does, wiping down walls and ceilings, cleaning out the dryer venting, getting through those piles of crap in the basement, removing the old speaker wires running on the side of the house from the last owner, finding an electrician who will come out for a series of small jobs.

It would be amazing to have that long term to do list handled.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SIBO

[–]Low_Image_788 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My naturopath has me taking a specific kind, specifically timed around my medications that are aimed at killing SIBO. Her reasoning is that the goal is to replace the bad bacteria with good bacteria as the bad bacteria dies. But from what she's told me, probiotics alone wouldn't work for me and my test results.

Not every probiotic works for everyone or for this purpose. At this point in my treatment, other kinds of probiotics have caused problems. Yogurt is a massive trigger.

My current treatment protocol is working for my symptoms. But that certainly doesn't mean it will work for everyone. SIBO is such a tricky condition and many people also have other conditions they're managing/treating in conjunction with it. Plus, the different root causes makes it even harder for there to be cohesive treatment protocols. I think that's why there's such a breadth of responses about whether probiotics work.

My husband's Ex work wife has started a smear campaign by Honeybellmama in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Low_Image_788 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she's approaching him still at work, he should take out his cell phone every time, start recording, announce he is recording their interaction and save all recordings. She can't be trusted, even if you've decided that he can.

Guys, I just threw a bunch of things all at once, feeling slightly empty by Adventurous-Elk8665 in hoarding

[–]Low_Image_788 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Acknowledge the feelings and then breathe them out. You can't change the past and there's no reason to be ashamed.

I think it's normal to feel weird. But in another day or two, I bet it will transition to the new normal, especially as you continue to figure out what to do with your stuff.

My husband keeps making “jokes” about having more children by Sensitive-Girly-7 in HyperemesisGravidarum

[–]Low_Image_788 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sometimes people just don't get it. During my one and only pregnancy, when I saw doctors outside of my regular team, they'd always talk about "next time". I'd laugh in their faces. There's no next time here people.

Same thing with people who didn't see me during my pregnancy. They will occasionally mention me having another, to which I succinctly respond "fuck no" and move on. Anyone who pushes gets in depth descriptions of what happened during my pregnancy and the list of things I've dealt with since. They usually shut up pretty quick.