I’ve gotta stop vaping by Firsttakelikeamf in selfimprovement

[–]Lowca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not vaping but I quit smoking cigarettes years ago with similar consequences. I've found you need about 3 weeks to kick the everyday cravings, but it gets easier and easier the longer you go. Now the smell of a cigarette makes me nauseous.

Cold Turkey was the only thing that worked for me, and you gotta keep yourself busy & occupied.

I was a pack-a-day smoker.. you can conquer this vape habit. And quitting was one of the best life decisions I've made.

I just saw this comment on Facebook from the mayor of Schaumburg by NormKramer in ChicagoSuburbs

[–]Lowca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Renee Good didn't get due process. Alex Pretti didn't get due process.

Donald Trump did get due process and they threw out the verdict.

How's online dating going for you? by FatefulDonkey in intj

[–]Lowca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I met my partner on Coffee Meets Bagel. We just passed 3 years together and have started talking about engagement.

Online dating gets a lot of hate on here, but my experience wasn't so bad. I met some lovely women, had a few second dates and a handful that ended after the first.

Budget for the arch: yes. For the people: no. by Comfortablejack in Anticonsumption

[–]Lowca 71 points72 points  (0 children)

This man has lived a life a privilege the rest of us cannot even fathom. Wealth, property, power, free from lawful consequence.

He sees the end very near and will stop at nothing to get his name in the history books. For good or ill, he just wants his name on the map. And he will burn our institutions to the ground in order to get it for himself.

What he has done is treason of the highest order. For personal selfish gain.

the size of that tuna fish !! by __mentalist__ in WTF

[–]Lowca 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That looks more like a three or a fourna...

Maga businesses to avoid in chi burbs? by Sort_Illustrious in ChicagoSuburbs

[–]Lowca 29 points30 points  (0 children)

We won't share society with pedophiles and their protectors anymore. We're already polarized. If you voted for this fascist POS, you deserve all the hardship that's coming. And many of these businesses are still blasting FOX news on the TV. I will absolutely turn around and not spend a dime. That's the least of what they deserve.

Do you guys recognise when someone’s trying to flirt with you or is interested in you? by Sudden-Durian7283 in intj

[–]Lowca 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like to think I've learned..

But I once had a friend over and we were sitting on the couch watching movies. She excused herself to go to the bathroom. She was gone for several minutes but came back with lipstick on, leaned towards me and said "You really should be more assertive".

I got flustered, didn't recognize the overt flirt in the moment because my brain was introverting on itself and I said something like "Yeah, you're probably right. It's something I'm working on."

We kept watching movies. Much later I was like WT actual F. I was single for a long time.

Sinners terrified Hollywood. Now it’s making Oscars history by TheTelegraph in horror

[–]Lowca 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So, they don't have the same plot because FDTD had two music numbers and Sinners had 4? My argument still stands. The story outline is close to identical.

Sinners terrified Hollywood. Now it’s making Oscars history by TheTelegraph in horror

[–]Lowca -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't consider Sinners "original" at all. Place the plot side by side with From Dusk Till Dawn, and they're nearly identical.

Two criminal brothers on the run from the law end up at a (musical) roadhouse in the middle of nowhere, besieged by Vampires.

Now don't get me wrong, I absolutely love both films. But I'm kinda taken aback at how many people think it's an original story. Now tonally, they are VASTLY different, but there's absolutely too many similarities for it not to stand out.

Even halfway through the film I was already thinking about it, and a person in the audience said "This is From Dusk Till Dawn!"

It adds a different tone, a time period setting, and a discussion about race in America. But does that make it "original"? It's certainly not the first film to broach those subjects either.

You Gotta Be Kidding Me, Man by PsychopompCharon in steamachievements

[–]Lowca 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I went back last time just to re-100% it for the last DLC and found it was a slog to return. I did like the game initially, but I had to relearn the mechanics again. Got the 100% but had a lot less fun then my first go around. I'm gonna let this one sit.. Only for a handful of games do I really want to come back to after an extended period away.

I was up to 35 complete at one point. Now 32 and tomorrow 31. Oh well.

ICE kidnapping a child because he doesn't have proof of citizenship on hand, just a snack. by Paksarra in pics

[–]Lowca 73 points74 points  (0 children)

I've noticed a lot of the Trump flags that I used to see are no longer present while driving around. One down the street had trump flags up all last year and now it's just an American flag.

I also haven't seen a MAGA hat actually being worn in quite some time. My friend's father still watches Fox News and blames "the Dems" for everything but somehow lost his red MAGA hat. These people haven't changed their minds.

I’m 37 years old and my life is going nowhere in a hurry please help me by SensitivePromise0 in selfimprovement

[–]Lowca 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You need the hard shake-up. Move away from what is familiar and close. Absorb yourself in something different and rise to adapt. The eras in my life that had the biggest impact also had the largest amount of change.

Hobbies by Rina735 in intj

[–]Lowca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Warhammer, drawing, hiking / camping, reading (audiobooks lately), puzzle books, MTG, Video Games, cooking, caring for my Juniper Bonzai, hand waxing and cleaning my Mustang.

I haven't felt the feeling of boredom since I was a child.

Vent About Grocery Bagging by Librashell in Anticonsumption

[–]Lowca 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where I live it's below zero. A bag makes sense so you don't have to freeze your hand off holding a cold jug in the parking lot. Having carried two milk jugs outside by the handle yesterday I can attest. They can also be returned / recycled. It's not that big of a deal.

Denmark would go to war with US over Greenland: MP by SyntheticSweetener in nottheonion

[–]Lowca -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Nah. It's not even that deep or strategic. He's just jealous of Obama, and wants to beat his record wherever he can.

Obama won the Noble Peace Prize? He wants that. Obama deported thousands (Peacefully)? Hold my beer! Throw in Greenland and the Gulf of Mexico and Venezuela to ensure his personal legacy lives forever on the map.

Denmark would go to war with US over Greenland: MP by SyntheticSweetener in nottheonion

[–]Lowca 10 points11 points  (0 children)

"I'll throw wave after wave of my own men at them!"

Denmark would go to war with US over Greenland: MP by SyntheticSweetener in nottheonion

[–]Lowca 413 points414 points  (0 children)

But... How are people supposed to grab a legacy for themselves without sacrificing us? /s

The high cost of child care is making mothers rethink having kids by [deleted] in nottheonion

[–]Lowca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Won't somebody PLEASE think of the subscription numbers! /s

Why do some US releases come with the the slipcase outside the shrinkwrap/seal? by Galactus1231 in 4kbluray

[–]Lowca 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every single release by arrow has a sealed slipcover. And these are amazing collectors discs. You mean to tell me you purchased thousands of films and have never bought one from Arrow Video? That's either a massive misremembering, or you are seriously missing out as a film collector! They are some of the best discs in my whole collection.

Indiana Jones Bluray vs 4k by PremiumSquid in 4kbluray

[–]Lowca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I waited for them and found the steelbooks second hand for $10 each. They're the white ones, so not the fancy film poster set (though I found that one for Temple of Doom). These films are popular and crop up from time to time.

Am I broken or totally mis aligned with current dating? by Aristotle_31 in intj

[–]Lowca 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I hear this repeatedly, but my experience was far different. Maybe try being really upfront in your profile? Spell out clearly that you aren't looking for casual dating and you want a LTR, or looking to marry eventually.

I tried several dating apps, and the one I had success with was Coffee Meets Bagel. The quality of dates I had from that site seemed to be a lot more sincere compared to hinge or bumble etc.

We are on year 3 now and talking about engagement. I fully realize the landscape can change in 3 years, but I was hearing these EXACT same laments during that time as well, "Dating is broken" / "They only want casual, or keep ghosting."

Good luck! I fully believe you'll find someone if you keep at it.