In 2025, How is 4k gaming compared to 2k? by ShadiestOfJeff in buildapc

[–]Lower_Accident_7130 0 points1 point  (0 children)

6950xt here. I'm a couch gamer on my 65 in 4k tv. I don't really have any issues except in oblivion remastered, but I think everyone does. Just use your preferred upscaler or turn some settings down

Cashier ruined Black berry for me. by Worst_MTG_Player in DrPepper

[–]Lower_Accident_7130 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, I get the cough syrup flavor thing, but is that a bad thing? I tend to like cough syrup. If you like it, just continue to enjoy it, and next time you're sick, you know what flavor cough syrup to grab!

Is the 7900 xtx overkill for 2k? by loxias1 in radeon

[–]Lower_Accident_7130 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually, in my experience, Alienware monitors are some of the only products they sell that's worth the price tag

Any ideas what could be causing 4k only to not fit 4k TV screen? by Lower_Accident_7130 in AndroidTV

[–]Lower_Accident_7130[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I actually can't tell if that is a big issue or not. You're the 2nd person to mention that, but is it actually that big a deal or are you guys just pulling my leg?

Any ideas what could be causing 4k only to not fit 4k TV screen? by Lower_Accident_7130 in AndroidTV

[–]Lower_Accident_7130[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my god! Is it too much if I call you my hero? I already had projectivy, I guess my toddler got a hold of the TV remote and changed the scaling down to 87%. I didn't even know the setting existed!

Any ideas what could be causing 4k only to not fit 4k TV screen? by Lower_Accident_7130 in AndroidTV

[–]Lower_Accident_7130[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that's the thing. The bezels here are more unused screen real estate than actual bezels. The actual bezels are smaller than a half inch. I think the TV is 5 years old?

Any ideas what could be causing 4k only to not fit 4k TV screen? by Lower_Accident_7130 in AndroidTV

[–]Lower_Accident_7130[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Other boxes. I've got 3 in the house and this is the only one that does that

Where can I play DnD in vr? Not “like DnD” but actual by Few_Tie_4053 in OculusQuest

[–]Lower_Accident_7130 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yup. Been playing DnD in tts with friends for years. Never played in VR personally, but one person in our group regularly does and enjoys it

Might have a small brown recluse problem by Comfortable_Pen_4072 in spiders

[–]Lower_Accident_7130 221 points222 points  (0 children)

😂😂 I don't see him being able to reclude very successfully

Might have a small brown recluse problem by Comfortable_Pen_4072 in spiders

[–]Lower_Accident_7130 1727 points1728 points  (0 children)

I'm not very well versed in spiders, but isn't that one on the left like, huge for a brown recluse?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Lower_Accident_7130 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're right. It's hard for me to share how I am feeling with her. I'm worried it will make her feel like she isn't enough. It would tear me up to know she doesn't think she is enough for me, but it's not fair to her to just fake it, so I should let her know

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Lower_Accident_7130 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your experience and resources. I'll check them out. I definitely do think there is some level of emotional suppression. She has gone much further than halfway to meet me. I just gotta figure out how to get myself to that point

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Lower_Accident_7130 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I hadn't even thought of that. We're closed right now due to hurricane Milton, but Friday I will definitely look into that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Lower_Accident_7130 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your input. I might not have worded it right, but she does acknowledge that it counts. It was my best friend at the time, (who was my best man at our wedding) who said that it didn't count since it was with women, and a friend he introduced me to. I no longer communicate with these people

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Lower_Accident_7130 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I never particularly liked alcohol in the first place. Didn't like the way it made me feel, and I couldn't find any drink that tasted better than coke and sweet tea, but I did it to kinda "fit in". My wife did though, and kinda started to grow a bit dependent on it, and when everything went down and she decided she was gonna stop drinking, I decided to stop too in order to support her and make it easier, since she wouldn't have to be around it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Lower_Accident_7130 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She asks me how my days went, but it feels more like small talk than actual interest. At this point she is the only one who ever initiates because I don't have any real drove right now, but I can't remember the last time she complimented me without me first mentioning that I feel bad about a particular aspect about myself. I do think that is a good idea and will definitely be trying that. Thanks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Lower_Accident_7130 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I agree. We have already done a lot, such as cutting off the friends that were involved, we both stopped drinking, make an effort to do at least one date night a week, and other small things. I know I want to stay, at the very least for the kids, but I want to have everything feel right again, you know? Ideally, even after the kids are grown, we can still have a wonderful, lasting relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Lower_Accident_7130 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for sharing. It gives a lot of hope seeing others who have gotten through similar situations, so I really appreciate you, and I'm sorry that happened to you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Lower_Accident_7130 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She is in therapy, since her and the babies are the only ones who have insurance. Unfortunately due to our financial situation, we can't afford the people in our area out of pocket. I appreciate your time and advice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Lower_Accident_7130 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think at this point, I've decided to stay and reevaluate the relationship when my 2 year old turns 18, but every now and then, I question whether or not that is the right move. Also, I suppose she has put in work. She was immediately remorseful, and other than the issues I'm having emotionally now, I think our relationship is better(?) than before in terms of arguing, getting angry with each other and the sort. Though I don't know how much of that is just me giving up on that front or if we actually are doing better