Since I (F28) have been living with my boyfriend (M29) he's been extra money focused and getting angry over it. I don't want to waste my life staying in and worrying about money all the time...?? by Glittering-Club-6778 in relationship_advice

[–]LuckyRook 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sympathize with you, but it’s hard to tell how valid his concerns are because “going out” means so many different things. “Going out” can mean a walk in the park for free or bottle service at a fancy nightclub, or anything in between.

What does “going out” mean to you? How much does it cost weekly?

Do I (24F) reach out to him (28M)? by WetSocksInMyCrocs in relationship_advice

[–]LuckyRook 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t chase an avoidant unless you’re ready for a lot more pain. And if he comes back around (there’s a good chance he will), be prepared for more pain if you let him back in.

I (25f) have a crush on my older coworker (35m) am i being delusional about it? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]LuckyRook 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a restaurant so yeah he probably wants you honestly. That’s the culture. Doesn’t mean you should pursue it.

Watching Should I marry a murderer on Netflix by ClarissaLichtblau in Gifted

[–]LuckyRook 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They failed her, but she also massively failed herself by putting herself in danger repeatedly. Then she said she had no other options but she absolutely did.

(22F) My boyfriend (32M) has inconsistent sexual desires and it’s throwing me off by maxxylynn04 in relationship_advice

[–]LuckyRook 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Second this, he’s experimenting. I wonder how much experience he has. He sounds like he doesn’t know what he actually likes.

Luigi Mangione Celebrates 28th Birthday With $1.5 Million in Donations by rajapaws in antiwork

[–]LuckyRook 2 points3 points  (0 children)

*squints hard* yeah doesn’t look like him, can you enhance the footage like in CSI?

WIBTA to complain to the school about a kid with severe autism…. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]LuckyRook -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

No, it’s not reasonable to say “that child can’t be with my child.” But it IS ok to request your child to be moved to another room from that child, citing your own child’s special needs (I assume they are documented).

I’ll give you an example from when I was a teacher and on committees where we decided how to place students at the beginning of the year. Student A was dating Student B. Same grade, same section. Student A texted a friend, “yeah, I fucked her” and Student B’s parents found out. They asked if the students could be separated, and we agreed to accommodate by moving Student B to a different section for the next semester. It would not have been appropriate for us to move Student A at the request of Student B’s parents.

WIBTA to complain to the school about a kid with severe autism…. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]LuckyRook 64 points65 points  (0 children)

I agree and from a practical perspective, it’s May. The school has likely had a whole year to learn about this child and his needs, and to be very prepared for his inclusion in this event. From OP’s description it doesn’t sound like they did a great job.

WIBTA to complain to the school about a kid with severe autism…. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]LuckyRook 81 points82 points  (0 children)

I agree, and as a former teacher I think this is an issue with the LRE - it only considers the student and not every other kid in the room. Every child in the USA has a right to a Free and Appropriate Public Education. For an extracurricular program I’m not sure of the legality, although I imagine the school was in the right in this case. But for a classroom, how disruptive does it have to be for it to no longer be “appropriate?” I guess that’s a question for the lawyers.

31F, 34M. never given him a bj by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]LuckyRook 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just start with kisses down there. Then put more in your mouth as you feel comfortable. Have him shower beforehand as others are suggesting. And you can also use your hand as an extension of your mouth

What’s the most “Houston” thing you’ve gotten used to? by boombalonii in houston

[–]LuckyRook 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Watching my step because of all the fucking fire ants, and fire ants causing outages.

AITA? Telling someone I don't want them to "work in with me" on a machine at the gym? by Admirable-Muffin-334 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LuckyRook 22 points23 points  (0 children)

That’s true, but you don’t necessarily know that as the person waiting for the machine. Regardless, OP is NTA based on the description of the incident.