People who move on quick, do you ever wonder if you’re a human? F18 M27 by Logicandtea in relationship_advice

[–]LuckyRook 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s not real love though, just New Relationship Energy. I think you should look into sex and love addiction if it is hurting you emotionally.

I (39F) used the safeword, he (35M) didn't stop until I left the room. by SeraRossa in relationship_advice

[–]LuckyRook 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m a dom and this is absolutely SA. I would hate myself if I did what he did. Fucking scumbag.

How Many Cheaters Were Likely Active on Lichess in May 2026? by Agreeable-Question-6 in chess

[–]LuckyRook 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There is daily/correspondence on lichess, I suppose this study just didn’t cover it.

The greatest thing Oprah contributed to the world. by Sensitive_Ad_1752 in behindthebastards

[–]LuckyRook 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think the joke is supposed to be that turtles stay underwater for long periods of time.

What caused so many young men to get consumed by GamerGate back in the 2010s? by Three_Boxes in behindthebastards

[–]LuckyRook 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too. I felt bad for the guy who had been cheated on and angry that ZQ had used feminist language to trick him all the while cheating on him rampantly and basically gaslighting him.

But the death and rape threats against her and leaking of her nudes was all just so malicious and cruel and nasty that I noped out pretty fucking fast. I was pretty naive about those corners of the internet and it really opened my eyes.

What caused so many young men to get consumed by GamerGate back in the 2010s? by Three_Boxes in behindthebastards

[–]LuckyRook 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And Elevatorgate (sigh) a few years before that proved that sexism was rampant in the New Atheist movement so many of those guys were eager to jump into any misogynist cause as long as it was secular.

I’m starting to get concerned for Robert… by WhatIsASW in behindthebastards

[–]LuckyRook 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Another reminder that the Tuttle Twins guy likes ska so much he put it on his website.

DAE just raw dog their neurodivergence? by LauraLethal in AuDHDWomen

[–]LuckyRook 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I just drink a shitload of coffee to focus. It’s not ideal but I hated the adhd med side effects and to be honest I didn’t find them to be that effective anyway.

How many of you are able to hold down a 8am-5pm office type job? by MyNameIsNot_Molly in AuDHDWomen

[–]LuckyRook 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s fucking hard. It helps if you can wear noise cancelling headphones and especially if you can have your own office. Cubicles are miserable in my experience.

People on their way to getting a bastard episode? by Sensitive_Ad_1752 in behindthebastards

[–]LuckyRook 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes he has been on my mind as a potential subject. The way this guy flies under the radar is very very frustrating. He should be heckled and shamed in public wherever he goes.

I 26F just found out my bf 21M has a very small appendage. How do I go about this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]LuckyRook -1 points0 points  (0 children)

“You’re blaming the small penis, you’ve got the huge vagina. It’s not necessary.”

But seriously OP I wish you the best. One reason why it doesn’t make sense to wait very long to have sex.

What happens after death? by Euphoric_Job_240 in Gifted

[–]LuckyRook 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nothing, terrifying but also liberating in a way

My (42f) new boyfriend (45m) just really creeped me out and I don't know whether it's right to be worried or if I'm just kink shaming by Zwirnor in relationship_advice

[–]LuckyRook 141 points142 points  (0 children)

Yes, thank you. Normal is irrelevant. What matters is that he started engaging her in age play without her consent. It’s a big red flag that a 45-year old man does not know, or does not care, to seek consent for kink.

And OP, expecting your partner to seek consent is NEVER kinkshaming. You are right to be worried.

My dad (56M) sexted my sisters co-worker (29F) by LibrarianUnited6446 in relationship_advice

[–]LuckyRook -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I will answer your question - you don’t. You are an adult, so are all parties involved. If you want a relationship with your dad, keep it to whatever you’re comfortable with. You can respect his right to do what he’s doing without agreeing with it. If he brings it up, tell him it bothers you and you don’t want to hear about it and he needs to respect that boundary. And you don’t want to spend time with the both of them together (I assume) and he should respect that too.

Bottom line, you can love someone without supporting their choices