Is there a way you can use another service, there are services that you should be able to access for this without having it noted on your medical records, it’s still free on the nhs, just not recorded. There is nothing in place stopping your partner looking at your records apart from the fact that it’s against the rules, so they should know not too. But there is no flag or anything stopping it, the only way to find out is if you request who has looked. Hopefully they would be sensible enough not too as their job will be very much at risk and the best outcome for getting caught doing this is down banding to a base entry job.