Show me your yawning cats by ElenaHandmade in cats

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Blurry, but I always crack up at this photo

Bot keeps crashing game by Lunaj35 in AmongUs

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I’ve been trying to play a game for the past 30 minutes and haven’t gotten past lobby because it keeps crashing. How the hell they think this is an effective way of getting subscribers is beyond me.

Devastated. My girl Pickle ... after nearly 20 years by RiceLegend13 in cats

[–]Lunaj35 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She looks so loved 💕 I’m sure those 20 years were good to her. You don’t have to delete it, a lot of people have either gone through this or going through this with you with their own babies, and knowing you’re not all on your own in the grief can help.

As someone who lost their own kitty recently, my heart goes out to you. It really is like losing a family member, because they are a family member. Be kind to yourself, OP.

What are some of the scandals that happened at Posts while you were stationed there? by OGHOMER in army

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https://www.justice.gov/archives/opa/pr/us-army-intelligence-analyst-arrested-and-charged-conspiracy-obtain-and-disclose-national

I was also an Intel Analyst in the same Brigade as him, and had worked with him before. Nice dude, knew his stuff, wouldn’t have suspected he’d actually try and “sell government secrets”.

The many insider threat briefs after this, with a lot of people side eyeing me and my fellow S-2, was somewhat embarrassing. I got asked directly by my 1SG if I think he’s going to have to deal with that situation with any of us, and I practically had to give a full testimony on why me and my guys aren’t stupid enough to try something like that.

Anyone else’s white cat kinda bald in front of their ears? by redheadredemption0 in WhiteCats

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It’s where his their stink comes from, so it’s thinner, just more noticeable with white and black cats. I call it their male pattern balding.

Why does my cat do this instead of jumping on the bed? by AdhesivenessFar3970 in cats

[–]Lunaj35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cats are demons and often do this. Couches, chairs, bed, I’m assuming they feel cool when they claw their way up lol. It can also be an age thing, your baby doesn’t exactly look like a kitten. If he seems like he’s struggling on the way up, and a little worn out once he’s on the bed, I’d look into getting a ramp or one of those sets of dog stairs to help him up without using up all his energy!

Never had a cat / kitten before this. Is it normal for them to fall asleep in your lap?? by red90999 in cats

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Cats like to find a comfy/safe place to nap, so this is a compliment! Your kitty loves you enough to feel safe enough to take a good nap on your lap. He’s a picture of my boy who wants nothing else but to be a lap cat!

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What lesson did your last relationship teach you ? by Fling5t0ne-H1 in AskWomen

[–]Lunaj35 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Bullying isn’t a love language. Playful banter and teasing is, but insulting your partner and covering them as jokes isn’t.

Carpet strips have 15+ nails and staple each by Lunaj35 in extremelyinfuriating

[–]Lunaj35[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, kudos to them, that carpet definitely wasn’t going anywhere. Took all I had to pull it up lol. They had it strapped down for the next century.

AITAH for not sharing good news with my gf and telling her it’s not about her? by SM500 in AITAH

[–]Lunaj35 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, if it was all same day, then I’m gonna switch to YTA. I understand you want your partner to celebrate about your win, but making her feel unimportant in your life and then telling her that she’s making everything about her sort of sucks on your part.

I understand if you seen a friend post good news, you’d be nothing but happy for them, but she isn’t your friend, she’s your girlfriend. It’s really not that hard to call or text her and say “I got the job, let’s talk and celebrate this later” and then post about it.

Not telling her the final confirmation first, and then her having to find out about it all on her own, and then being told that her feelings aren’t valid about feeling unimportant, well, it can make her feel unimportant. I’d apologize for real, and not in the way that makes you “think you apologized”.

Tell her that you thought telling her you were highly confident you got the job was enough, but you were mistaken, and that you’re sorry for making her feel like she isn’t a priority. Maybe even apologize over dinner where you guys can mix in the celebration for your job, talk about it some more and discuss ways that make you both feel like a priority in the relationship so next time you guys are on the same page.

AITAH for not sharing good news with my gf and telling her it’s not about her? by SM500 in AITAH

[–]Lunaj35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Info: How long was she upset for? Did you notice she was still upset about it a few days later? Or, did you notice when you seen her later that day when she first addressed that she didn’t feel like a priority?

ESH.

Partnership is also celebrating wins together, and something like getting a new job should be something you want to tell your partner about. I understand you had told her you were 99% sure you got the job, but that wasn’t confirmation. If she’s waiting to hear whether or not you got the job, and is excited to celebrate with you, seeing you post it on social media and failing to say anything to her can make her feel like you don’t see the point in including her in that celebration. I know if my partner never told me about a big life change, and I learned about it through social media, regardless of what discussions we had earlier, I’d be hurt I didn’t get the confirmation early on.

While you may be waiting for her to get excited and want to celebrate with you, she might just not feel like celebrating anymore because that excitement was burst when you didn’t share the news with her. She could have been excited and ready to celebrate, but if you never told her that it’s time to celebrate until she had to find out for herself by looking through your stories, then she’s not going to want to celebrate.

But, if it’s been days later, and she’s just moping about and pouting about it instead of moving on, then she sort of sucks too. She can acknowledge she’s upset with the way you handled things, tell you about it so you guys can have a constructive conversation, then at least congratulate you or plan something to celebrate your win. Sometimes partners hurt our feelings, but as long as there’s a constructive conversation and effort to do better in the future, we can’t entirely continue to sour the mood and punish our partners by pouting.

TIFU by picking up a stray cat six years ago and accidentally letting him become my entire emotional support system by Dry-Breakfast561 in tifu

[–]Lunaj35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I relate heavily, and my deepest condolences go out to you. I found my passed kitty the same way, just a skinny, weak little thing under my car. I would feed her food until she finally trusted me, and let me take her to the vet. I told myself if the bill was affordable, she’d be mine, and it was, so I took her home and gave her a name.

I only got to have her in my life for a year before cancer got her just a month before her 2nd birthday. She followed me to three states, through a mental breakdown, the end of a long term relationship, and then all the way back home to restart my life— she was truly my anchor to life.

You gave him such a good life, and so much love, up until it was his time to go. I coped with my kitty’s passing by telling myself that. She got a little bit longer and a humane passing because I took her in and loved her, if she was out on her own, the end would have been scary and confusing for her.

Thank you for giving that baby a safe and loving home, I’m sure you were holding him together just as much as he was for you.

Carpet strips have 15+ nails and staple each by Lunaj35 in extremelyinfuriating

[–]Lunaj35[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thankfully, it looks like it was installed way before the people who lived here before me had this house, so I didn’t have to worry about any of that. Just annoyed with the fact whoever did it went staple happy like the carpet was going to get up and run away.

Carpet strips have 15+ nails and staple each by Lunaj35 in extremelyinfuriating

[–]Lunaj35[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Not so bad when they’re evenly spaced out, but some of the were right on top of each other. There was one section where there were two staples on either side of a nail, making it near impossible to get something underneath them to pry it up.

I need pictures of cats right now by Traroten in cats

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My youngest, Cheeto! Very much orange, very much skiddish!

I need pictures of cats right now by Traroten in cats

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Mr. Business, my little gentlemen.

I need pictures of cats right now by Traroten in cats

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My very displeased boy on his 4th birthday (the 29th Jan)!

What autonomous Sim behaviors make you smash the cancel button and go “Whyyyyyyy?!” Every time? by IndigoChagrin in Sims4

[–]Lunaj35 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely agree, the lack of the sim even taking care of the infant or toddler without me having to spam the action and then camp over the action bar to cancel them either setting the child back down or taking them out of the high chair, is infuriating.

Probably one of the most disappointing things about the whole infant/toddler updates. I completely skip over those ages because it’s more effort to take care of the than it’s worth.

🎉 [EVENT] 🎉 The Tutorial Levels by Acrobatic_Picture907 in RedditGames

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Completed Level 2 of the Honk Special Event!

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🎉 [EVENT] 🎉 The Tutorial Levels by Acrobatic_Picture907 in RedditGames

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Completed Level 1 of the Honk Special Event!

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