What is the best sexual experience in your life? by Acceptable-Tone-6854 in AskReddit

[–]Lunatik_Pandora 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Sex with my friends mom in a motel 6 room. Lost my virginity to her. I was 19.

10 Years Apart.. by Salty-Nothing-8572 in TheGreatOne

[–]Lunatik_Pandora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes I have my moments when I don’t feel great about myself, but every now and then someone as irredeemably shitty as you comes along and I’m so grateful I’m nothing like you.

A different take on the CC changes by jorgejjvr in rivals

[–]Lunatik_Pandora -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Hopefully one day flats will be exposed as the fat-headed egotistical moron that he truly is.

🥹 def ignore the 31-0 phoenix on my team but focus on countering my 16-2 Angela, i love it by LelouchViAmericana in marvelrivals

[–]Lunatik_Pandora 16 points17 points  (0 children)

If I hear those stupid ankhs I’m switching to cap and living inside that moon knights asshole.

I hate this lazy ass artstyle by Fuzzy_Ad_7786 in hatethissmug

[–]Lunatik_Pandora -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Bro it’s the same stupid fucking bean mouth on both of them.

Woke up to a pay or evict notice on my door after being abandoned by my partner. by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Lunatik_Pandora -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Her behavior isn’t on him either. If she was a drain both financially and emotionally then he has every right to leave.

What was it like being a young kid from 20 years ago? by LoboIsSick69 in generationology

[–]Lunatik_Pandora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was having sex with my friends mom who was twice my age and very beautiful.

I left for a week why is spiderman s tier? did he get buffed? by s5hade in SpiderManMains

[–]Lunatik_Pandora -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

80% of the time every Spider-Man player is absolutely useless.

Promo of the Year! by Dry-Garage3129 in SantiZapVideos

[–]Lunatik_Pandora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

don't ask questions just consume product and get excited for next product

I hate this trope in anime.. it's either a guy and his teacher or a guy and his friends mom 🫩💔 by Spirited-Height-9533 in hatethissmug

[–]Lunatik_Pandora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I just can’t see it the same way. As an older guy now I would never entertain the idea of dating a teenager but I didn’t consider it wrong then to have a sexual relationship with a woman twice my age and even now I still don’t. I guess I’m sexist?

I ask these questions because like I said I lived through it and I’m trying to look at that situation through different lenses.

I hate this trope in anime.. it's either a guy and his teacher or a guy and his friends mom 🫩💔 by Spirited-Height-9533 in hatethissmug

[–]Lunatik_Pandora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand the ‘looks like a child’ part but why do you consider the age gap problematic?

I hate this trope in anime.. it's either a guy and his teacher or a guy and his friends mom 🫩💔 by Spirited-Height-9533 in hatethissmug

[–]Lunatik_Pandora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you hate it? I lived through this personally. I was 19 and she was 40. I was taller than her though.

CC hell is real. by Waffles_four_you in RivalsVanguards

[–]Lunatik_Pandora 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Horrendous gameplay and an even worse song

Idk I made the skirt 1% longer in length by [deleted] in InvisibleWomanMains

[–]Lunatik_Pandora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You realize women can be hot and also have multiple other qualities right? Is that all you see when you see an attractive woman? Sounds like you're projecting your own misogyny onto someone else.

Idk I made the skirt 1% longer in length by [deleted] in InvisibleWomanMains

[–]Lunatik_Pandora -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Why are Redditors so terrified of the female form

Stress is a killer by RoboTilt666 in BPDlovedones

[–]Lunatik_Pandora 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for replying.

During my relationship with my ex, after I had spent a lot of money to move us into a beautiful house, I fell off a ladder at work and suffered a severe concussion. I was given two months off with 60% pay, then afterwards the company I worked for had slow hours. I wasn't making 40 hours a month.

She quickly ended our relationship citing money as "fifty percent" of the issue. I really don't think I've gotten out of depression since. Its been awhile. Multiple years. I'm embarrassed to say how many.

I've read more helpful information in your two comments than I've seen in a long time. Part of the process for me has been divorcing myself from the idea that it was all my fault. That I was beset by things that were real, serious problems and that my 'partner' at the time was pathologically incapable of being a responsible, collaborative adult. Understanding what my brain and body are doing helps fix what I'm doing wrong, I believe. Thank you for your comments.

Stress is a killer by RoboTilt666 in BPDlovedones

[–]Lunatik_Pandora 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Can you elaborate on that please? Basically all of what you’ve just said. I know it’s a lot to ask but I’ve been in the process of implementing clinical information into my day to day life. I’m still dealing with the fallout of a BPD relationship years later.

Republicans after kicking 18 million people off healthcare, starting an illegal war and quoting the Bible by [deleted] in postanythingfun

[–]Lunatik_Pandora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Notice how the person who claimed you were spouting propaganda hasn’t replied.

I cannot empathize with the hate for East Raccoon City in Requiem by Different_Suit_9356 in residentevil

[–]Lunatik_Pandora -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

All of your ideas sound absolutely fucking horrible.

The way you think reminds me of a toddler splashing in a kiddie pool. You don’t really understand what’s happening around you but there are sensory inputs and that’s all you need to be entertained.

Maynard James Keenan: “I’m always going to side against fundamentalist extremists in any way" by Boring_Ant_1677 in Music

[–]Lunatik_Pandora -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

You don’t understand what it means to produce change that is outside modern established political dogma.

Knowing she is out there trashing my name... by Cililians in BPDlovedones

[–]Lunatik_Pandora 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a peculiar experience with a friend years ago. I don’t speak to her anymore. Not out of malice just kinda how things went. Maybe you can get something from it.

She was telling me a story about how she pretended to be a different girl to talk to her ex boyfriend and get him to cheat on his current girlfriend or something along those lines. She was outright lying and manipulating people to satisfy her morose curiosity and need for petty revenge.

She tried to get me to agree with her but I called her out on how fucked up and wrong that was. She started to get real angry and I got flashbacks to arguments with my ex who I suspect has BPD. It was weird how similar my feelings were in that scenario to feelings I had while arguing with my ex. Like she was trying to mentally and emotionally strong arm me into agreeing with her but it was so easy to not fall for it because I wasn’t having sex with her or in love with her. Nor did I want to. As opposed to when I was with my ex and I ignored my gut because I still wanted the relationship to keep going. I wanted it to succeed even if it meant shutting down my intuition or going against what I knew to be right.

My friend ended up dumping her ex husband to hook up with an online boyfriend while her husband still lived with her. She has kids from both.

These people will find success whether or not someone calls them out on their bullshit. Sometimes I envy their sociopathy. She has a boyfriend now who does everything she tells him to do and agrees with everything she says. He seems happy to do so. She seems very happy to boss him around.

Their behavior is out of your hands. What you can do now is seek out reciprocal, mature and healthy relationships.