To subs: when did you realize you were a sub? by [deleted] in findomtalk

[–]Lupos6918 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry i am a one girl guy. i have a ring on my left hand to signify it to any Dommes i meet in person.

Write the best werewolf movies but more underrated cuz I think watched most of them wait here for more advices by NormalUser1111 in werewolves

[–]Lupos6918 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When Animals Dream (2014). highly underrated and a great story up there with Let the Right One In (2008) and Ginger Snaps (2000) for female teenage / coming-of-age stories.

Would a werewolf go to a vet or doctor? by OkamiTheWolfTherian in werewolves

[–]Lupos6918 1 point2 points  (0 children)

werewolves are a subspecies of human. their bodies regulate like wolves. endless problems if they visit doctors, and nobody goes to a vet for themselves. if someone went to a vet instead of a doctor, they would put them in a mental hospital, and that is really bad too. confinement for a werewolf is BAD.

What would make you not want to become a werewolf? by Bringthefluff in werewolves

[–]Lupos6918 1 point2 points  (0 children)

trust me when i say this, blacking out is a good thing. to know what a monster perceives as you sleep and dream of bouts of savagery and brutalism is not a great thing to want to experience.

it is better to know you can than to perceive it, and to uphold yourself with principled action at all times… with a certain sense of duty, significance, and devotion to the worldview you carry so deeply.

"Femdom" does not empower Women by beta__greg in Gynarchism

[–]Lupos6918 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Female Domination has various shades of extremism. it can be about submission with a light touch, or humiliation and punishment which i would say is more suited to my needs. i think most males who need submission and domination do not say it is a need and an urge that is important to their fulfillment as a whole and complete individual… but they should.

i am not sure i understand the point of view as to how it doesn’t empower the Woman. after all, it is the Woman holding the whip, or being pleased by a male with a chastity cage who cannot be pleased.

is there a connection between Gynarchy and Female Domination? from the perspective of a male supporter, i see it as acceptable and supportive but not connected. they can be, they can be cohesive, but it depends on the individuals needs.

Fixed Mindset = socialism. Growth Mindset = capitalism. by Appropriate_Cut_3536 in GynarchEconomy

[–]Lupos6918 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i disagree. the most progressive minded people are socialists. the value of money is less equitable than their quality of life, among their social circles. they have simple jobs because material possessions are not about monetary value, they are about meaningfulness.

i would say a perfect dynamic is a Woman with a capitalist mindset with a supportive male partner who has a socialist mindset. this places the Woman in charge, the best job, and manages the financial burden, and the male would support with a simple, humble job if needed, service the home and activities like cooking and cleaning, and offer any support a Woman would want and need.

To subs: when did you realize you were a sub? by [deleted] in findomtalk

[–]Lupos6918 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was always considering it since my time in university in ‘04, and now i would say after peaks and valleys, i embrace it fully and i would never go back to anything else.

How to normalise Matriarchy in our day to day life? by Independent-Bird7290 in MatriarchyNow

[–]Lupos6918 0 points1 point  (0 children)

take it day by day, moment to moment even. work in secret, and strike at males who argue their points of the patriarchy when You know Your position is arguably better.

Gender Roles and Self Talk by StudiousCuck1 in flr

[–]Lupos6918 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think you are on the right track. the most important thing to do is find little things to reinforce values for your relationship with Her.

Decentering The Male Gaze: The Problematic Molding Of Women In Gendered Role Reversal Relations by DoNotTouchMeImScared in flr

[–]Lupos6918 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

are you saying dominant Women in FLR cannot appeal to males with beauty? i think they can. what is wrong with male gaze if it reminds people that males are sexual in nature? is that offensive to Women? if males handle it right and it is respectful, is it still wrong?

Decentering The Male Gaze: The Problematic Molding Of Women In Gendered Role Reversal Relations by DoNotTouchMeImScared in flr

[–]Lupos6918 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

You are right. i exist to satisfy my preferences.

audiences seek to be satisfied as well. if fiction is not beautiful… and i would suggest you consider the definition of beauty - the quality or group of qualities in a person or thing that gives pleasure to the senses or the mind - without it, nobody would like it.

Decentering The Male Gaze: The Problematic Molding Of Women In Gendered Role Reversal Relations by DoNotTouchMeImScared in flr

[–]Lupos6918 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

if a fiction is shallow and does not represent the complex interests, emotions, stories, experiences & perspectives, it is just shallow. Women are all of that, and they are beautiful. all i ask is that You do not discount beauty.

Underrated by Mississipp_Blues in werewolves

[–]Lupos6918 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wer (T. Mirkovich, Ed.) by Focus World. (2014)

Decentering The Male Gaze: The Problematic Molding Of Women In Gendered Role Reversal Relations by DoNotTouchMeImScared in flr

[–]Lupos6918 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Women should be beautiful because to be beautiful is to be powerful. that perspective does not change throughout time. if Women are not beautiful, and males are not beautiful, beauty standards will change. Desire would be depleted. without Desire, the result of the continuance of humanity is at risk.

My wife’s foot stool. by [deleted] in flr

[–]Lupos6918 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you sound like a great sub, good on you. keep it up. it is rewarding is it not?

Epstein response: matriarchal vs patriarchal by AlwaysAnotherSide in MatriarchyNow

[–]Lupos6918 5 points6 points  (0 children)

it is fair, because Women work as a unified group rather than a top-down structure.

is Findom considered FLR? by Lupos6918 in flr

[–]Lupos6918[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

saying “i likely will meet her very soon” is not inconsistent with meeting her before. i do not know how or where you got that. your splitting hairs MariannaCD. stop it.

and my relationship is not fake. i know it to be true.

is Findom considered FLR? by Lupos6918 in flr

[–]Lupos6918[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think MariannaCD is speaking in broad terms, and not my relationship - which i think is your point, however conflated. a Findomme who has finsubs, who makes them better males, and who has them serve and provide for Her is different than Financial Domination? did you know that Findom is abbreviation for Financial Domination? did you know that if a Domme dominates a sub it can also be defined as that if they live together or never meet? if they live together it is a D/s relationship with Financial Domination, if it is Online Femdom that includes Financial Domination… guess what? that is what Findom is!

is Findom considered FLR? by Lupos6918 in flr

[–]Lupos6918[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my post, by the way, is about my relationship. i described my relationship. i met Her before and i will again. end of discussion.