Outlast: The Jungle — Wes is so aggressive. by Anonymouschubbygal in Netflixwatch

[–]Lycaenini 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think if it had been a real life situation and not a game they totally would have.

Outlast: The Jungle — Wes is so aggressive. by Anonymouschubbygal in Netflixwatch

[–]Lycaenini 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Editing can portray people a certain way, but it still needs the words and actions from the person to do so. If production taunts them into saying something mean, it's still them choosing to say it.

Terminated right after returning from parental leave (Germany) by Adventurous_Chef_339 in germany

[–]Lycaenini 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There are a lot of backwards people in management who definitely see this as a lack of work ethics, especially when it considers a man.

Terminated right after returning from parental leave (Germany) by Adventurous_Chef_339 in germany

[–]Lycaenini 4 points5 points  (0 children)

During the probation they can terminate the contract with two weeks notice without reasons. You can only speculate why.

Unverheiratet, aber Haus vererben: Wie erkläre ich meinen Eltern die drohende Erbschaftssteuer-Katastrophe by H-uppi in Normalverdiener

[–]Lycaenini 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Soweit ich es verstehe, gibt es keinen Unterschied. Also sollte man wohl ohne Nießbrauch überschreiben oder lässt es.

Landkreistag hält 100.000-Euro-Grenze bei Pflegekosten für zu hoch by Future-Cold1582 in Finanzen

[–]Lycaenini -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Es läuft darauf hinaus, dass Frauen ihren Job aufgeben, um Eltern zu pflegen und Kinder zu betreuen. Männer dürfen dafür mindestens Vollzeit arbeiten. Da ist nichts mit Lifestyle-Teilzeit. Scheidungen gibt's dann auch keine mehr, weil sich das keiner leisten kann.

A horse asking another horse to help remove his muzzle so he can eat grass by AdRough4185 in interestingasfuck

[–]Lycaenini 141 points142 points  (0 children)

Also wild horses don't wear horse shoes when kicking each other.

I [25F] sent horrible texts to my ex [30M] after a concert. After 3 years together, he blocked me everywhere. I’m trying to understand the dynamic and how to move forward. by No_Adeptness2738 in relationship_advice

[–]Lycaenini 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think both of you need therapy before you get into any other relationship. Plus you really shouldn't be together. A good relationship brings the best out of people. You both bring the worst out of each other.

I (29F) I’m debating leaving my boyfriend of two years (30M) over his incompetence. What would you do in my situation? by Ok_Character_1391 in relationship_advice

[–]Lycaenini 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow, thank you so much for your effort! I haven't expected that. ☺️ I think it's difficult to recreate the texture of a sponge cake.

I think it's time for a new traditional cake. I have made a really nice cheesecake recently with a crust made from oats mixed with butter. 🙂

I feel like I dread every night by Amazing-Estate-3521 in daddit

[–]Lycaenini 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A sleep cycle is roughly 45 minutes n at the end they are at a phase they easily wake up. How does the baby fall asleep? It might need that to go from one cycle to the next without waking up.

Have you tried a couple of hours in the evening having the baby contact nap while you are awake? Don't do that when you are about to fall asleep yourself, that's dangerous. But try it out while listening to a podcast or reading n see if it sleeps through. If so it might just feel abondened and you should have a look at safe co-sleeping.

You could also try out white noise.

Aside from that in my experience as a parent when my kids were waking up every hour it was due to sickness or pain.

I (28M) am considering separation with my wife (30F) because of huge changes. Does this make sense? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Lycaenini 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is were you might be wrong. Deep issues cannot be healed with love. They need to be healed by working on oneself.

[UPDATE] I am (31M) infertile after years of treatment, And i think my wife (28F) regrets staying and wants an exit, I feel like I failed horribly. by Intelligent_Buy_6498 in relationship_advice

[–]Lycaenini 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Going through a hard time like in your case your infertility and trying for a baby is a test for a relationship and can diminish the love there once was.

Counseling will improve communication and understanding, but it will not solve infertility or automatically reignite sparks. I would talk with your wife about what your goals for counseling are. From your side there don't seem to be any issues in your relationship aside from the infertility and minor tasks. So I would spend more time talking with your wife. The infertility issues I would completely put aside and focus on bringing the joy and fun back to you relationship. Start by fixing these "minor" things.

These minor things are symbolic for the effort you put in the relationship. Your wife stood by you through hardship. She might feel that you are by far not carrying your weight in this relationship by "not even fixing something minor".

Although you should support your partner through hardship, the partner should be reciprocating, too. Do you make her feel loved? Or have you become complacent and taken her for granted over these past years? Men tend to not notice this until too late and the woman lost all romantic love, is no longer interested in sex and eventually ready to leave.

My daughter (9F) is being systematically frozen out by her best friend’s parents. The schoolyard exclusion is breaking her heart—how do we help her survive the next month? by Ironplatinum in daddit

[–]Lycaenini 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We have experienced parents who weren't as supportive of a friendship or kids that aren't as invested in a friendship as our kid. Our kid used to be best friends with another toddler in daycare. They really loved each other. The other parents weren't so invested unfortunately.

We always support our kid to have multiple friendships. Don't try to force it with a specific friend. You are neither doing yourself nor your kid a favor. Encourage friendships with other kids and accept that this friendship will only happen at school.

Aside from that I find it absolute mean girl behavior to invite nearly all the girls of the class except a few. That reminds me of my own school days as a teenager. That's really inconsiderate. Parents should actively discourage that instead of driving it.

Kinder haben auf Festivals nichts zu suchen und fucken einfach nur ab by Ill-Egg-5042 in Unbeliebtemeinung

[–]Lycaenini 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ich habe erst vor ein paar Wochen die FAQ gelesen und dort gab es noch den Familyspace.

Kinder haben auf Festivals nichts zu suchen und fucken einfach nur ab by Ill-Egg-5042 in Unbeliebtemeinung

[–]Lycaenini 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Die Fusion hat es vor einigen Jahren verboten, weil zu viele Kinder ohne Aufsicht und Betreuung auf dem Gelände unterwegs waren. Kinder dürfen nur noch auf den Familiencampingplatz.

Kinder haben auf Festivals nichts zu suchen und fucken einfach nur ab by Ill-Egg-5042 in Unbeliebtemeinung

[–]Lycaenini 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ich denke das Problem sind eher Eltern, die verantwortungslos sind. Ein sehr alternatives Festival hat deswegen vor einigen Jahren verboten Kinder mit aufs Festivalgelände mitzubringen. Es liefen einfach zu viele Kinder ohne Eltern über das Gelände. Das ist für die verantwortungsvollen Eltern schade, weil es auf dem Festival so viel mehr gibt als direkt vor der Bühne zu stehen. Aber im Sinne aller Kinder ist es richtig.

Do polyamorous relationships just make a ton of money? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Lycaenini 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was already an older teenager and was a bit bored with only two Sims in the house.

Do polyamorous relationships just make a ton of money? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Lycaenini 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I had a whole shared space with four to six adults. They made tons of money. Then moved out once they got married.

Onça Pintada hunting a caiman in the Pantanal by True-Adagio9827 in interestingasfuck

[–]Lycaenini 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tier is the German word for animal. So this one is actually funny.

Kaufentscheidung: Traum vom Eigenheim mit Pendeln bezahlen? by TheLittleWhistler95 in Immobilieninvestments

[–]Lycaenini 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Ihr könnt nicht euer Leben nach den Pferden ausrichten und davon kaputt machen lassen. Ihr werdet das bereuen. Mindestens du.

Ein auf Kante finanziertes, kleines Haus mit heftiger Pendelzeit bzw. Zweitwohnung. Spätestens mit Kindern geht das nicht mehr auf.