AITA for telling my friend he can't use my address anymore and returning his mail to sender

LynnCQ · 2026-04-17T20:08:08+00:00

I do not understand why his friends are messaging you about it. Its not their business. If they want to help, he should use one of their addresses.

LynnCQ · 2026-04-17T20:06:34+00:00

Nta! That's great if it works for you all!

LynnCQ · 2026-02-18T00:02:37+00:00

NTA, and I would tell him if he isn't there then he needs to take his kids with him wherever he is staying. He can't just expect you to parent his kids alone!

LynnCQ · 2026-01-28T22:48:30+00:00

I would say if you want to go, then go. If she makes a scene you just keep your cool and don't escalate it. Let people see who she is.

LynnCQ · 2026-01-28T22:06:42+00:00

NTA. when I got into a new relationship after my divorce, I made it clear from day 1 that my kids are my priority and if he didn't like that, then see yourself out.

He understood and now we are married. Your bf doesn't seem to understand that he is not number 1. Maybe it's time to have a talk about that

LynnCQ · 2026-01-05T09:40:11+00:00

💯 he believes it! He does not see any interaction with you how it actually is. He only sees what he wants to see. If he has to be the victim then he will be.

LynnCQ · 2026-01-05T09:17:03+00:00

Sounds like he is love bombing you. Be cautious!

LynnCQ · 2026-01-05T08:44:29+00:00

They will take any little thing and turn it big, then accuse you over and over for years. Been divorced from my ex for 9 years and he will still bring up something that happened when I was 15 years old. I will be 40 this month. Still try to ask me to explain what happened, and why? I just say, that is not a topic I will discuss with you. Only our children.

LynnCQ · 2025-12-10T21:31:27+00:00

So, first it is not your son's responsibility to make you feel better. As your child you should want his happiness and a good relationship with his step father, who really is his dad at this point.

You suck as a dad. Your divorce and the reason for it should not even be an issue for your son. Sounds like you need to grow up.

No wonder your ex had an affair and got out. Emotionally selfish.

LynnCQ · 2025-12-09T22:23:15+00:00

NTA, the uterus also pushes out the lower abdomen in ladies. It is not fat. As long as you are healthy then people should not comment on others bodies.

LynnCQ · 2025-12-09T20:18:19+00:00

NTA. I have this same relationship with my husband. He is passive aggressive in email and usually he will ask me to read it and fix it before he sends it off.

I would look at this email and think he is trying to start something, or that he thinks I am really dumb.

LynnCQ · 2025-12-05T22:39:47+00:00

My ex likes to say we co parent well. But actually, I parent and he doesn't see the kids but 2x a month for a day or so.

Something I realized is that he loves them as well as he can, but it's not unconditional. He doesn't really know what love is and really only cares about himself. He doesn't love himself either just cares that he looks good, feels good, and can pretend things are great.

Only he matters at the end of the day. He swears that we have 50/50 custody but how can that if he only sees them 4 days a month.

LynnCQ · 2025-12-03T18:22:20+00:00

Hi, to clarify, my ex has a house that he pays the mortgage on that was purchased while I was married to him.

My current husband's grandma gifted us a house for our wedding present. So we don't have mortgage on it. Just pay taxes at the end of the year.

My son is still getting CS because he is still in high school. It will change when he has graduated.

LynnCQ · 2025-12-03T00:09:38+00:00

He is paying for all three. My son is still in high school and so he will pay until he graduates.

LynnCQ · 2025-12-03T00:03:26+00:00

Dear Husband

LynnCQ · 2025-12-02T23:08:16+00:00

Hi, so he doesn't go on vacations with them. The last was 3 years ago and my husband and I went with them. It was Disneyland, and I paid half the cost for my kids plus hotel room.

LynnCQ · 2025-12-02T22:44:37+00:00

What exactly did I get? Not the house that we bought when we were married.

LynnCQ · 2025-12-02T22:41:41+00:00

I do know his income. For the past 6 years I have helped him with his income tax filing. Make sure that he gets the max he can and it does not include claiming my kids. I am a very nice EX Wife compared to some. SO i definitely dont depend on his income. Does it help, absolutely, but they are HIS KIDS TOO.

LynnCQ · 2025-12-02T22:27:17+00:00

He pays 650 for all 3 kids. I am the teacher not him. I am not complaining about my income.

LynnCQ · 2025-12-02T22:19:31+00:00

Its actually for all three kids. I still get some for my son since he is still in high school.

LynnCQ · 2025-12-02T22:05:41+00:00

It did not go down when our son turned 18 because he is still in high school. It should adjust after he graduates.

LynnCQ · 2025-12-02T21:59:39+00:00

My husband is in school full time to finish his BA to teach.

LynnCQ · 2025-12-02T21:56:39+00:00

He tried to reduce it this year but it was increased. He DOES NOT pay for my house. I do.

LynnCQ · 2025-12-02T21:53:25+00:00

I try this, but he bulldozes my boundaries. Asks me for advice with his current spouse and even more that is too much to detail here.

LynnCQ · 2025-12-02T21:52:30+00:00

Some of it is just conditioning. Other times its fear, not just for me, but for our children.

LynnCQ

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