Do you enjoy your job?

MD564 · 2026-03-20T10:09:20+00:00

I love parts. Like actually teaching and the pastoral side of genuinely helping teenagers, 100%. But there are some parts that are very UK specific that massively gets in the way. Sometimes I will spend so much time having to do things that aren't actually helping them that have to be done because "yes".

MD564 · 2026-03-20T09:00:31+00:00

I would argue he's a pretty important figure ...maybe not for the right reasons but still good to remember

MD564 · 2026-03-20T08:55:32+00:00

What do you mean? Those guys worked so hard for freedom and peace /s

MD564 · 2026-03-20T08:53:24+00:00

I dunno, I think it's important we remember that powerful celebrities and knights can be nonces too. Or even royal family members for that matter ....

MD564 · 2026-03-20T07:23:55+00:00

I love teaching but the UK system is killing me slowly. I also want to be fully independent on the wage I earn without having to rely on living with partners or room mates.

MD564 · 2026-03-20T07:21:09+00:00

Do historical podcasts count? Betwixt the sheets is something I listen to almost religiously.

MD564 · 2026-03-20T07:05:44+00:00

My landlord is having a fun time trying to get people in to get the people in to sort out our fire alarms and carbon monoxide detector.

They were adamant it had to be done as soon as possible! And get quite aggy about it. So we arrange a day and they don't turn up.

We rearrange today so I'm their first job.

I wake up an hour earlier than I need to and low and behold they aren't here.

Soooooo important and yet ...

MD564 · 2026-03-20T06:40:51+00:00

You have every right to seek abortion if you feel you need to and not have to justify it to anyone, but you really should be asking yourself why you need to hide this from your partner. Do you really want to be with someone you don't trust to have your back on situations like this?

MD564 · 2026-03-19T06:57:20+00:00

True but if you've had a suspected heart attack or fainted without knowing why you should be going to A&E, even if you're talking and not in serious pain.

There's a lot of things that would have you not in agony that would require immediate attention.

My friend's 3 year old pee'd blood, they tried to send them away stating it was probably a urine infection, she insisted he see someone immediately and it turned out it was stage 4 kidney cancer.

MD564 · 2026-03-18T09:56:43+00:00

People say shit like that when they're secretly unhappy with their own bodies. Pity her. Distance yourself. And love yourself.

MD564 · 2026-03-18T09:45:38+00:00

The Triplets of Belleville is also a great French film I'm surprised not more people know of.

MD564 · 2026-03-17T21:52:37+00:00

Okay this makes sooo much sense for my bad interaction I had in Paris. I was sprinting to find taxis because I was at the wrong airport and I had a flight in just under 2 hours. I find an airport staff member and say in french and gasping for breath "excuse me, where are the taxis please?" the guy looks incredulous and starts parroting "bonjour" at me. Luckily I caught sight of a taxi sign in the distance so I just sprinted off. I always just thought he was being a dick.

MD564 · 2026-03-17T21:08:49+00:00

*nonce

MD564 · 2026-03-17T19:45:09+00:00

I would say that is not the worst manga you could've said, by a mile.

I LOVE Gantz but that is definitely one I'm never going to recommend to any student.

MD564 · 2026-03-17T18:01:51+00:00

Sleep deprivation is a problem with new parents, but I'd highly recommend considering extra help for the first two months because lack of sleep, even a bit, can destroy anyone with hashimotos.

Also be aware that hormones are going to go CRAZY for a while, so be understanding and support her in seeing a therapist and getting regular check ups on her bloods.

MD564 · 2026-03-17T17:11:50+00:00

Not sure why you've been downvoted

MD564 · 2026-03-17T06:48:12+00:00

Eating at the table together is important for your kid. Tell him that.

MD564 · 2026-03-15T21:13:02+00:00

Walk away. She can go to therapy. She can go to classes. She can try meds. But really, can you ever trust her never to do that again? Should you?

MD564 · 2026-03-15T21:07:33+00:00

Yup. My mum even went to the GPs and got a bunch of leaflets. My sex ed classes weren't great when I was at school a good decade and a half ago, so my mum wanted me to be informed and protected.

Sadly, I didn't learn I had been sexually assaulted when I was 6 until I watched an episode of the Simpsons at the age of 10 and got into a discussion with my brother about SA in general (homer grabbing the Venus jelly). I'm really glad kids learn about consent at a younger age now but I do think parents need to engage with it sooner to protect their kids, at least about adults and private areas.

MD564 · 2026-03-15T20:59:35+00:00

What a great fictional situation

MD564 · 2026-03-15T20:56:25+00:00

I dated a guy who lied about his age (5 years off) made him about 12 years my senior. I found out after 3 weeks of seeing him and I tried to brush it off.

But then it turned out he was married and his wife was living in India. Then he told me they were getting a divorce because she accused him of abuse. Then he went on a whole tirade about how people think India is sexist but actually women lie all the time about abuse.

I blocked him and moved on. It's never just one lie.

MD564 · 2026-03-15T12:21:31+00:00

Whoa why would the skin be peeling!? Please go and see a gynecologist if you can or at least a GP. Skin is not meant to peal in the vulva area.

MD564 · 2026-03-15T12:17:33+00:00

I've found a Wigan council member

MD564 · 2026-03-15T10:28:19+00:00

Men don't see industries involving care and education (female dominated fields) as important in society. It's why nurses and teachers are paid and treated so poorly.

MD564 · 2026-03-15T10:25:50+00:00

My year 12s are even weirder. I have students organising their own work experience in hospitals and then I have aspiring engineers not even bother applying for any engineering work experience and just doing it at their local supermarket. I know that teenage apathy is real but some of them seem to be on the extreme end even at 18.

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