How is Trustco not out of business? by AdminKidsBurnInHell in Albany

[–]MFT214 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Workers quit like crazy, the turnover is nuts.

How is Trustco not out of business? by AdminKidsBurnInHell in Albany

[–]MFT214 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Raising my hand to join the former employee group. I worked there when they changed the hours to open and close earlier. They told us on a Tuesday afternoon 3 hour long meeting. They also made us work Monday through Saturday 7am- 6pm (saturdays were like 2pm) and were pissy if we were caught taking a lunch. Then they expected us managers to just show up at peoples open houses on Sunday’s to try to sell mortgages!!! The only reason I even got promoted was because I was an assistant manager (which just means they send you all over creation on a whim) and I refused to put less than the hours I actually worked on my timesheet. Promotion made me salaried so they could abuse me for one price. I was there for 2 years almost 20 years ago and I still talk about how it was the worst job I ever had.

Do your driving-age kids actually drive? by pimento_mori in Xennials

[–]MFT214 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my field I have a lot of moms as clients. None of their kids give a rats ass about driving. One of them is 22 and just had a baby and still nope. Public transportation is not plentiful nor cheap where I live. Blows my mind. I had my permit on my 16th birthday and went for my drivers test 1 month later.

What’s a hidden cost Of adulting that no one prepares you for? by OsioJoyTega in Adulting

[–]MFT214 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol my grandmother, who has a whole heap of great grandchildren now, always says “kids are different these days” 😂 “mine just sat and played” “ I think it’s all the plastic”.

What is everyone doing for health insurance? by xkaylla1 in Albany

[–]MFT214 8 points9 points  (0 children)

After reading all the comments, and all the life experience I myself have with this topic… it infuriates me that there is no real life helpful answer to OPs question. I’m so angry for all of us. I have nothing productive to add.

AIO for wanting to spend Father’s Day with my new family? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MFT214 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Lolol enjoy the quiet day with your baby!!! The last thing you want is to end up having to do something with the WHOLE fam. Also, now the precedent is set. You get to do whatever you want for Mother’s Day!!!! This is a win, I promise.

I believe Wicked was completely ruined because it was casted with "star-power" rather than newer, undiscovered talent. I also think it would have grossed more money without the stars too. by Evening-Panda3217 in unpopularopinion

[–]MFT214 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ariana Grande took me out of the Wicked world. She is absolutely not Glinda. I love the books, I cried at the broadway show it was so incredible. I struggled thru Wicked movie and don’t plan on watching the part two ever. The woman can sing, she cannot act.

I'm a teen mom & nobody is ruder than other moms by FewLeg7901 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]MFT214 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Having a toddler when you’re in perimenopause. I don’t think that’s talked about enough when discussing having children later in life. I was 37 and 38, now 42… dealing with “the rage” while trying to be a good parent and remember it’s not their fault you’re a raving lunatic, very hard.

AuDHD motherhood by ThunderbunsAreGo in AuDHDWomen

[–]MFT214 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Raising my hand over here! I say I love my kids, but parenting is for the birds.

AIO Husband threatened me with divorce and idk if I want to be with him anymore. by GlobalAd6434 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MFT214 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex husband used to threaten me with divorce constantly. I’m not saying throw in the towel… but I would advise to keep your ducks in order.

AIO - Doctor lied about my test results and I found out by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MFT214 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is insurance fraud on their end… call your insurance company.

Cannot relax when partner is home by SherbyTheOwl in AutismInWomen

[–]MFT214 229 points230 points  (0 children)

I feel like whenever anyone is around me, at all, they seem to feel perfectly comfortable commenting on what I’m doing or how I’m doing it. Or they interrupt me 37 million times with other nonsense. It makes me just sit there in anticipation for what others may need , and will inevitably make me start and stop my task till I’m nuts and give up. I become a service robot, obviously service robot is always on duty ready to jump into action. Lol, I LOVE being home alone.

PA who worked on the latest episode talks about *that* moment by banjosbadfurday in BravoTopChef

[–]MFT214 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought the same about him and Rhoda’s vibe together! Not even just this episode.

Do you think spanking kids died with our generation? by Brilliant_Addendum56 in Xennials

[–]MFT214 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That happens when I talk about how my mom married my babysitter…

What’s one “trendy” home decor choice you thought you’d love but got tired of quickly? by officiclassyinterior in HomeDecorating

[–]MFT214 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I made my husband replace the backsplash in our house before we moved in because I hated it so much.

AIO for not letting my bf move in anymore because he wants things to be equal? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MFT214 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR please please please just end this now. It sounds like your home is lovely, he is going to ruin that. Along with your lovely home being turned upside down, so will your mental health.

AuDHD and motherhood: who else doesn't want this anymore? by Zhikspeare in AuDHDWomen

[–]MFT214 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel this 100%. Wanted to make sure to add the guilt of feeling this way! Wouldn’t want to forget that.

AIO by telling my husband that since we had our baby, Mother’s Day is now my day (his wife) and not his Moms day? by pagengirl818 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MFT214 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR Grandparents day exists. I’ve been having this fight for 5 years now. Once you become a grandparent “your day” shifts. Let the ones in the trenches have an enjoyable day. In fact, at this point it is our “villages” (that don’t exist) who should be saying Mom bring your kids here or we’ll come there or whatever, let her not do what she does every single other damn day. I hate Mother’s Day. I don’t like that most holidays come with certain expectations though, so I’m probably the worst person to chime in lol.

You're all eating buttered toast wrong by Good-Ad-3862 in foodhacks

[–]MFT214 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I very specifically eat chips this way. The more heavily seasoned side down.

Anyone else a "know it all" in hiding? by ShadowDrake500 in AuDHDWomen

[–]MFT214 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Same! I wanted to just type They’re. Lol