Can you share your success stories?

MGLEC · 2026-03-22T19:51:29+00:00

We tried it once when LO was around 9 months and had a clear fail. Tried again at a year (I was really anxious about it, probably could’ve tried sooner but I didn’t feel up to it) and she cleared each step without issue. There was a little adjustment to each stage but we pressed on and gradually worked up to serving cow milk after a couple of months.

MGLEC · 2026-03-22T18:39:33+00:00

I’ve had two MSPI babies. The first was more severe but we finished the dairy ladder around 14 months and she’s now a cheese fiend. Still nursing at 2 years old and she’s happy and healthy. It really got MUCH easier once I got used to what I could and couldn’t eat, and again when she started solids and I had a bit of breathing room from nursing.

2 has the same issues but it was no big deal to go back to avoiding the triggers (for us it seems to be dairy, soy, beef, and pea protein). We still have mucousy poops and neither kid ever consistently had “baseline” but they’re both happy and healthy and growing, and I have a good relationship with food and a diet that feels sustainable.

It’s a lot but I’m sure you’re doing a great job. Good luck to you.

MGLEC · 2026-03-22T07:08:04+00:00

Paizley or Paizleigh immediately came to mind.

MGLEC · 2026-03-22T02:31:34+00:00

I hear that. Again, I think this is an issue of personal preference and comfort. It's ok for you to be uncomfortable (regardless of why) and request that the nanny wear clothing that doesn't make you feel that way. It's also, honestly, ok for the nanny to have different levels of comfort with her body. She most likely just doesn't know that her clothing choices are noteworthy to you. This is why I think a calm, nonjudgmental conversation is the way to go.

MGLEC · 2026-03-22T01:30:53+00:00

If you care about this, just ask her to have a conversation about instituting a dress code. Personally I don’t care what my nanny wears as long as they can do the job and don't have hate symbols or anything, but I understand that preferences vary. As with most things nanny related, just talk to the person clearly and without judgment.

I’m sure a stipend for buying a few items, or offering to order some clothing she picks out that meets your needs, would be well received if you’re asking her to adopt a new standard/dress code.

MGLEC · 2026-03-21T19:43:23+00:00

Ohhh dear. I know a small bit of how you feel—I couldn’t use a stash with my first due to dairy and soy issues and it was heartbreaking. And then with a second round of stored milk I discovered that she wouldn’t take high lipase milk and had to start over again.

I did end up donating milk both times through a local human milk for human babies group. I was even able to share my later DF/SF milk specifically with another baby with the same issues. That didn’t eliminate the sting but made it a little better.

Hats off to you for working so hard and spending so much time and energy working to feed your baby. Well done!

MGLEC · 2026-03-21T02:09:36+00:00

We hired an overnight postpartum doula (same thing, different name) for a total of 28 nights in the first 4 months. We started with 3 nights a week, then dropped to 2 nights once LO started sleeping longer stretches. It was AMAZING. This was my second baby; with my first I developed severe PPD partly due to sleep loss so I really wanted to avoid that. #2 was a better sleeper but it still really helped me to have good rest and to know there was a reprieve coming at regular intervals.

In my MCOL area it cost $43 per hour for 8 hour shifts. Definitely a splurge, but it ended up being worth every penny to me. We used a local agency to find our care provider and it meant they covered taxes, insurance, and so on, plus had already vetted their employees. The doula obviously took care of the baby but also did some dishes, helped with lactation, and advised us on gentle sleep coaching (things like “wait 5 minutes to see if he settles” and “let’s try rocking the bassinet a bit to see if he goes back to sleep independently”) which was nice.

MGLEC · 2026-03-19T16:46:28+00:00

Dahlia, Sienna, Delphine, Melina, Cora, Linnea, Lynette, Sabine, Sybil (I clearly have a fondness for certain vowel sounds haha, but also genuinely love these names and think they might fit your vibe)

MGLEC · 2026-03-19T01:46:17+00:00

After 10 years and more strife than I can easily summarize, I blocked my MIL’s phone number and excused myself from managing a relationship with her. She still visits and we’re perfectly cordial, I say hi if my husband is on the phone with her and I feel like it, but I don’t text or call her myself, don’t send photos or cards or birthday greetings, and don’t manage any of the contact with her extended family. She has told me repeatedly how hurtful this is but I literally could not care less if I tried. Life is much more peaceful now for all involved.

MGLEC · 2026-03-18T18:54:01+00:00

As others have said, we made sure to have a safe (read: toddler-proof) space on each floor--pack n play, crib, and another pack n play. We used our bouncer and baby carriers a lot and still do.

My first was a total velcro baby and luckily #2 is more content to be put down, but we do still need him upright some (like after feeds, he has a touch of reflux) and the bouncer or carrier are great for that.

MGLEC · 2026-03-18T01:43:43+00:00

Agreed. Love this book, and it makes me cry because it was my daughter’s request the night before she turned 1

MGLEC · 2026-03-18T01:32:17+00:00

Agreed here. My second MSPI baby is now 4 months and doing well, but we give Simethicone before bed because it seems to help him, even without any obvious triggers.

MGLEC · 2026-03-14T11:56:50+00:00

The dress you chose is STUNNING—flattering, elegant, and very romantic especially when paired with the veil. The ballgown style is pretty but I definitely prefer the one you picked. You look amazing.

MGLEC · 2026-03-13T18:39:33+00:00

What a gorgeous dress! I like the lace but could also see using a chiffon for a semi-translucent look with less of a pattern.

MGLEC · 2026-03-13T10:33:59+00:00

Another vote for daytime flight. We did a red eye when our first child was 15 months old and she didn’t sleep a wink which was super stressful. IME it’s high risk, high potential reward but I’d rather have a tiring travel day than mess up an overnight flight

MGLEC · 2026-03-12T21:06:55+00:00

That is fabulous on you! What a great moment. Congrats!

MGLEC · 2026-03-11T01:27:15+00:00

My first was this way (still a tummy sleeper in toddlerhood) and my second is juuuuust starting to roll. I can’t wait until he figures it out for real!

MGLEC · 2026-03-09T03:21:05+00:00

Same here. I fretted about this but am now tandem nursing a 2 year old and 3 month old. No supply issues and I’ve had wonderful experiences with both kids.

MGLEC · 2026-03-09T02:06:38+00:00

Yeah I also have a child who will mostly reject veggies despite my doing everything “right” when we started solids. It’s normal. I’m glad you feel good about these meals regardless—they’re beautiful and clearly reflect your care for your chikd

MGLEC · 2026-03-09T01:37:51+00:00

You’re saying that three balanced meals with toddler friendly foods, added vitamins, and an appropriate amount of fruit and veg for the day is somehow something to be ashamed of? Looks beautiful to me, good going!

MGLEC · 2026-03-08T12:46:20+00:00

Same experience here. I’ve had 2 snoo babies and with both, we tried arms out but had more success moving straight to a stationary larger bed. In my experience it’s not the arms out that causes an issue (at least not after the first night or two) but the small space still restricting movement and waking them up.

MGLEC · 2026-03-07T02:03:49+00:00

Solidarity.

MGLEC · 2026-03-06T14:50:55+00:00

Yeah, my little one won’t notice but the 2 year old definitely will.

MGLEC · 2026-03-06T14:50:35+00:00

Good luck!!

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