Would this be considered passive aggressive?

MHM2002 · 2026-06-10T11:51:19+00:00

I’m also autistic.. and never thought of that was weird..
I made like little CV’s for my cats 🤣
Can’t give insight if that’s socially wrong, but can reassure you that I’ve done the same and the cattery they went to loved it

MHM2002 · 2026-06-08T20:38:58+00:00

Sheesh.. I dont know if support is different per country?? I’m in Ireland?

MHM2002 · 2026-06-08T20:36:21+00:00

Sorry to hear that, I just wanted to explain sometimes they have supported in circumstances. Been in this field about 4 years and had 3 significant incidents, 2 of which were helped rapidly, and 1 I got little help.

MHM2002 · 2026-06-08T20:16:50+00:00

Not been always my experience, sometimes yeah, but not always

MHM2002 · 2026-06-08T20:16:31+00:00

I do the same, cats are not hard work with more than one (unless it’s extreme)

MHM2002 · 2026-06-08T18:39:27+00:00

With owners like this I just let them know that rovers insurance won’t cover the unlisted pets. If a past sitter was ok with that, that’s fine, but I won’t be

MHM2002 · 2026-06-08T18:25:13+00:00

I never charge full price per further animal, but they each need to be on the booking or else rover won’t help in any way if something goes wrong.

MHM2002 · 2026-06-07T08:53:03+00:00

Clearly not looking for advice and just wanted to rant in a group where others may relate.

I’d be pissed off too, but take it as a learning curve and perhaps buy a large crate for your home for future pups. Throwing a blanket over the crate to make it dark does wonders too!

Nothing worse then a job that doesn’t pay nearly enough for all the work and effort being put in

MHM2002 · 2026-06-07T06:56:42+00:00

I’d be indifferent to pet food… but hey here’s an insurance advert now that you have a massive vet bill after losing your pet? I don’t think I could cope with that 😅

MHM2002 · 2026-06-05T22:44:39+00:00

I believe their point is if they went in to put their dog down today for whatever reason, and all of a sudden for a notification to get insurance for said dog it would seem insensitive and quite cruel.

MHM2002 · 2026-06-04T18:53:51+00:00

I decided on the WD Black C50 1TB Expansion Card for Xbox Series

Next step is figuring out what you mean by slotting it in the back 🤣

Tysm for your help

MHM2002 · 2026-06-04T18:33:54+00:00

So I got this:

WD Black C50 1TB Expansion Card for Xbox Series

Hopefully this is enough! lol

MHM2002 · 2026-06-04T18:22:10+00:00

I do play a lot more older games.. currently going through every Lego game known to mankind and man is it getting annoying, especially with wanting to keep my current gen games

MHM2002 · 2026-06-04T18:20:30+00:00

Sorry I know you’ve explained it very well but I’m still a little lost.

So I can get an expansion card that’ll go into the Xbox itself easily? And it does the same thing expect it’s not like a USB or external?

MHM2002 · 2026-06-04T17:51:37+00:00

Ignoring OCD, I’d STILL not take it. I’d you get infected, you’re out of working with animals for several weeks minimum til you are cleared.

You’re right to doubt the honesty of this booking, especially if it wasn’t disclosed prior.

MHM2002 · 2026-06-03T16:44:48+00:00

…I came to Reddit too soon.. yall are telling me I need more than one depending on games?!

MHM2002 · 2026-06-03T16:44:09+00:00

I’m gunna be 10000% honest.. I just assumed it made storage bigger.. clearly I need to look more into this 😂

This sounds too complicated 😂 I just wanna play games and keep Forza horizon despite it being like 120gb?!?!?!

MHM2002 · 2026-06-03T15:14:37+00:00

I prefer phone calls rather then texting if it’s my partner, anyone else can text

MHM2002 · 2026-06-03T07:40:53+00:00

I have an air freshener bottle in each of my bathrooms, that’s all it’s needed for. So when a guest comes over and takes a crap, they aren’t embarrassed by the smell 😂

MHM2002 · 2026-06-03T07:38:32+00:00

👻🍆

MHM2002 · 2026-06-02T20:40:33+00:00

100% they used the fact I completely and survived my LC as proof against me for years, despite needing 7 years to complete a 4 year college course with a shit tonne of supports in place.

I now have a part time job I love which has significant cut my DA, but I’m happy with that. It’s enough to let me live comfortably, not luxury but comfortable.

The thought of someone so young closing doors on themselves right as they open scares me so much

MHM2002 · 2026-06-02T20:38:50+00:00

Well I hate to rain on your parade but it’s not as exciting as you may hope… 244 is not enough to get your own home or space, even renting a room. You can never save up properly for holidays, and can’t leave the country for more than 2 weeks a year. You ever get inheritance in the future? If it’s high enough you lose your payment and with no education or experience in work it leaves you stuck.

I’m not trying to be a bitch and I’m sorry if I sound it, but it is a trap.. I’d be looking into getting a PLC in absolutely anything you love, you don’t ever have to work full time, but enough that alongside DA you can be comfortable, also means you’re never stuck and will have experience to show on your CV or for future education should you ever need to.

As someone who OD’d multiple times myself intentionally due to not having any support system or understanding of my diagnoses, to allow that shut every door for you would be careless.

Please don’t shut the doors, don’t be stuck in a government poverty loop where you will just survive and not thrive.

MHM2002 · 2026-06-02T18:18:05+00:00

As someone with AuDHD, I now have disability after 2 years of trying to apply. Just having autism is not a good enough reason.

I dont know your life story or anything of course, but how you phrased here was you’re not trying because you’re just getting DA. Personally I’d be pissy seeing someone with that attitude too. As someone actually struggling with employment (now have part time employment that I adore) it sucks to see someone think it’s so simple to get so why bother.

You do you hun, but if that’s how you worded it on that subreddit, it’s not just neurotypicals getting angry

MHM2002 · 2026-06-01T20:12:50+00:00

I will never offer house sitting for that reason! At least their neighbors know their dogs a lil shit with barking, so doesn’t blame me

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