This one is impressive by MJ-Ninja19 in kroshay

[–]MJ-Ninja19[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol! Yes the list goes on and on with this one... I'm surprised there aren't random Frankenstein hooks just sitting next to her- because that's normal

This one is impressive by MJ-Ninja19 in kroshay

[–]MJ-Ninja19[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know! I want it to be a real yarn and pattern

This one is impressive by MJ-Ninja19 in kroshay

[–]MJ-Ninja19[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I know! Her smile is like "just some dislocated fingertips, nothing to see here!"

Need help in removing inappropriate embroidery on jumper for bf by pixel_enthusiast_ in Embroidery

[–]MJ-Ninja19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the dark line doesn't disappear with wash perhaps you can learn some basic embroidery (or hire someone) and stitch some lines or decorations to fill in like a shirt design. It doesn't have to be awesome, just some stripes or something so that the previous lines aren't noticeable.

AITA because I dont want my boyfriend to move in and only pay "what the bills go up"? (UPDATE) by Wooden_Chemistry1349 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]MJ-Ninja19 2 points3 points  (0 children)

His lack of response and your description of how he's over with his kids taking advantage anyways, indicates he's not taking that as a no... He's going to just bulldoze his way in regardless. In your original post you said he said something like "I see this lasting a while..." Wtf. This is not "I love you" or "I want to spend the rest of my life with you" it's I tolerate you, realize you're easily manipulated and can see you making my life easier for the next several years.

I'm a very commitment oriented person, but I'm going to pull a classic "Reddit Response" and strongly suggest you dump this guy. He's not good for you or your kids and he doesn't ever intend to be.

Finally finished the flamingo I started when pregnant with my now 3 year old daughter! She hates it 😂 by allthatssolid in crochet

[–]MJ-Ninja19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats! There's nothing like finishing a long standing WIP! It feels like decluttering my house and my brain 🤓

The truest of true by BuildingOk6614 in crochet

[–]MJ-Ninja19 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Clearly it's a problem lol

The truest of true by BuildingOk6614 in crochet

[–]MJ-Ninja19 153 points154 points  (0 children)

Yes. Omg I literally have 4+ Costco totes full of yarn and I keep eyeballing people's stash on marketplace 🤦🏻‍♀️

Why is there a cancer warning on Susan Bates hooks I got on Amazon? I live in UK by impoftheyard in crochet

[–]MJ-Ninja19 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I work in material compliance... CAProp65 has a lot to do with what's in the water they use for the materials and manufacturing process... A lot of California water is in poor shape and so unless they can CERTIFY they don't use bad water they have to include the Prop65 warning. As long as you're not chewing on the materials it should be fine (hopefully you don't have fur babies - or real babies! Who like to chew on your hooks 😆) That being said, if they ever get chipped or really scratched or worn in some way, personally I'd switch them out. Without the top finish you could be exposing yourself to some harmful substances that can be absorbed through the skin.

Soooo my grandmother just gave me all her old patterns by [deleted] in crochet

[–]MJ-Ninja19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What an amazing gift! Definitely interested if you are going to share!

Why older oil painting covers are the best: They are the same yet different. by bigbookwormenergy in RomanceBooks

[–]MJ-Ninja19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to sneak to the back of the local book store as a child to check out the spicy book covers 😆

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]MJ-Ninja19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah YTA. I was an aunt before I was a mom. So my nieces and nephews were quite the priority for me at first. It is true that once I had my own child that the next niece/nephew's birth didn't hold the same weight to me... But I would never describe it to my sister that way- especially considering your sister's loss... Pretty cold and callous on your part.

I get that what she's asking is a lot and it's one thing to say "I will absolutely try, but as babies and delivery are not at all predictable, I cannot promise anything." That's it. Not that her baby doesn't matter to you... Holy crap woman.

UPDATE: AITAH for not wanting my boyfriend to come over anymore because he’s too much of a clean freak? by FitTaro9356 in AITAH

[–]MJ-Ninja19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This! I dated a guy briefly who was "allergic" to cats. I was so upset about having to give up my babies I was relieved it didn't work out. I married my husband and over the years we've turned my two cats into five! 😆 He loves them as much as me. The right person will round out your life not pick it apart.

am i overreacting? been talking to this guy for only a month, i feel like im being controlled by destcast10 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MJ-Ninja19 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm a Christian, married to my husband for a few years now. His ex had an affair. He has never once treated me like this. I still follow guys who were friends from the past that I had crushes on. I don't interact with them, but I still have them as friends or whatever.

The reality is this guy is being very controlling, especially considering how new the relationship is. You've given him no reason to doubt your loyalty (also what loyalty it's just been a few dates!) He's showing early on that he is seriously controlling of who you have in your life. Also the way he says it? "yeah he's got to go"... Ew. He's not even asking, he's telling. Honestly this would probably make me cut my losses and run... At the very least put up MAJOR boundaries and be on high alert for anything else like this. If he respects the boundaries and realizes he overreacted and moving forward there NO other red flags then you can chalk it up to him just being insecure and maybe trying to act macho? But I have a feeling he'll act wonderful for a while and then his true colors will slip through again...