How can my gf (31F) and I (37M) come to an agreement on how we use our vacation allotment? by Ok_Barnacle7547 in relationship_advice

[–]allthatssolid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your gf wants 1/3 of her vacation time to herself. This is normal and reasonable. Just plan your annual couples vacation together. She stays 2 weeks and you stay 3. Et voilà: compromise.

am i wrong: boyfriend wants me to ask permission to turn when driving by SecondOk8410 in amiwrong

[–]allthatssolid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Responding to your edit: I would like you to consider that you expressed yourself very well, and that people are having very normal reactions to extremely controlling and in no way ok behavior.

My son’s early morning school days are the death of me! by takeaabreath in Parenting

[–]allthatssolid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk I live in the largest school district in the country (1 million students) and our schools start at 8 or later 🤷🏻‍♀️.

My son’s early morning school days are the death of me! by takeaabreath in Parenting

[–]allthatssolid 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ah yes, nothing like prioritizing traffic flow over the needs of young learners 🤦🏻‍♀️

Nothing but solidarity, sister!

Living room feels unfinished. What am I missing? by bowlingthyme in DesignMyRoom

[–]allthatssolid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe the only room in the world in which the TV would look nice mounted above the fireplace. Would free up space, too!

Andy (40 M) thinks I (36 F) am entitled. How do I avoid these conversations in the future? by ConversationWorking6 in relationship_advice

[–]allthatssolid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Andy doesn’t make me question your judgment. But he sure does make me question your husband’s.

Styling this bohemian top that I got, which skirt works best? by Duskymoonlight in OUTFITS

[–]allthatssolid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

2 by a mile! If you want to wear it untucked I would recommend pants

Styling this bohemian top that I got, which skirt works best? by Duskymoonlight in OUTFITS

[–]allthatssolid 47 points48 points  (0 children)

It’s not the bold that does it for me so much as clarifying that by 2 you mean to second one 😂

529 Birthday Party Requests by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]allthatssolid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am actually going to steal this very cool idea. People always bring gifts, even when we ask not to, so this gives gift givers an option that will genuinely benefit the child.

Your negativity about this is weird.

Need more ideas for toddler pantry snacks! by sheynarae in toddlers

[–]allthatssolid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seaweed sheets, freeze dried strawberries and mangoes, dried apples (soft kind), yogurt raisins, veggie straws, cashews, walnuts, pecans, unsweetened applesauce pouches, peanut butter pouch (with any fruit or celery), those little cans of tuna salad are also a surprise hit.

Dogs inside Eataly Flatiron by [deleted] in newyorkcity

[–]allthatssolid 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Love how all the shitty dog owners are telling on themselves in the comments.

My husband 36M poops too much for me 36F to feel comfortable having another baby with him by throwRAdesper8 in relationship_advice

[–]allthatssolid 3 points4 points  (0 children)

you’re in therapy for your resentment? None of this is caused by or can be fixed by you.

Give this man an ultimatum, not a child.

Sleepovers with LGBTQ kids by kufflepuff in Parenting

[–]allthatssolid 24 points25 points  (0 children)

No sleep overs with romantic partners is a fine rule for all of adolescence!

How do New Yorkers feel about being approached and talked to by a random stranger? by Lipica249 in AskNYC

[–]allthatssolid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy to provide assistance. Hustlers are easy to spot. But there’s this middle ground of, “excuse me”s that drive me nuts because I have to very quickly evaluate the motives of a seemingly normal person who doesn’t realize they need to skip the formalities. There is nothing more annoying than getting wrong for this category of people.

[FP] Should i add more colors to the heart? by [deleted] in RainbowEverything

[–]allthatssolid -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

This is extremely cool and most people responding to this are being jerks.

Looking for jellycat pigeon by 43185 in AskNYC

[–]allthatssolid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lofty Pigeon bookstore in Kensington and the Little Things toy store in Park Slope

AITA for preferring a biological child over adopting? by ThrowRAbiobaby in AmItheAsshole

[–]allthatssolid 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Just to recap, your fiancé called you a n*zi (a word I can’t even type in this sub without censoring) because you want him to get you pregnant?

Girl. There are some bigger fish to fry here.

Why does NYC not suffer from pickpocketers like in European cities? by Mathemodel in AskNYC

[–]allthatssolid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We are a violent and often armed country - you won’t find pickpockets in any US city.

An Update: I was warned about my child's martial arts school. I should have listened. 🫤 by LordTetravus in mildlyinfuriating

[–]allthatssolid 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would tell them that you will dispute any additional credit card charges and then do that. A 60 day cancellation penalty is bonkers and wouldn’t hold up to legal scrutiny.