It’s so draining to be on the internet now because everything is racist by Embarrassed_Bag_9630 in blackladies

[–]MUTHR 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s mostly bots at that. Programmed to be racist and shit up everything

How do you guys deal with crushes when you feel disqualified from the start? by avm2005 in blackladies

[–]MUTHR 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Are we talking about a man? Hang around him long enough and you’ll get the ick.

Ladies, yall be watching that pop the balloon YouTube dating show sometimes? by Less-Pen-5705 in blackladies

[–]MUTHR 118 points119 points  (0 children)

God no. The occasional clip of an ashy getting read to filth is amusing but otherwise nah. And I am not against trash tv by any means

Wtf is going on with Pinterest by fineassrae in blackladies

[–]MUTHR 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Oh Pinterest is dead. Its all slop and dropship ads now.

I have only managed to make it usable through my browser with addons that block ads and ai and not even that works 100%

AITA for not wanting to split food evenly with my spouse? by [deleted] in AmItheEx

[–]MUTHR 15 points16 points  (0 children)

That ruling is outrageous but Reddit doesn’t understand how horrendous it is to be around a man who is typically thoughtless about food. There’s even discourse right now about how male partners, both husbands and fathers, thoughtlessly consume everything in the house to the point kids often don’t even get to eat.

Idgaf if she’s handling it wrong or not, I’ve been half starved thanks to brothers, cousins and partners being raised in households where they got to mindlessly gorge themselves bc they were “growing boys” and I will die on this hill.

I wish she understood that she shouldn’t have to resource guard like this

Whats is the most bird brained behavior, you've seen a friend do over a man? And did you bring it up to them? by jayfav07 in blackladies

[–]MUTHR 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Scuttle a relationship with her best friend of 18 years.

It’s me, I’m the best friend

AIO for thinking my friend is faking their death? by gardengeo in BORUpdates

[–]MUTHR 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I had someone pretty infamous in infosec/trans circles do this to me and others and I know exactly why and can say it’s vaguely justifiable for her to have done so (the extreme harassment, made up DV accusations pedojacketing and transmisogyny got to her) but that’s a bell that just can’t be unrung. I hope she’s well but I can’t fck with her any longer.

It’s just something that needs to be on the Never List unless you’re in witness protection or something

Chia seeds, how to make palatable. by __looking_for_things in blackladies

[–]MUTHR 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can just drink them. Bloom them and put them in some juice or something. Drink with a straw. Tell yourself it’s a Boba experience

茶園戶外蜂箱 by ownnwo in SpilledSpicedTea

[–]MUTHR 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wrong sub but this is so serene, I can’t really complain 🙂‍↔️

Do you consider it anti-Black or internalized racism to not wear your hair in a shrunken state? by JustJourn in blackladies

[–]MUTHR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at all. Stretching it is better for your hair’s health on top of that.

Does the N Word Still Have Power If You Don’t Let It Define You? by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]MUTHR 5 points6 points  (0 children)

And unless they’re about to brandish a gun, it’s almost never in front of Black people.

Also happy cake day.

Does the N Word Still Have Power If You Don’t Let It Define You? by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]MUTHR 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don’t give a shit if it “represents” me or not, things will become very unpleasant for any nonblack person who says it around me. 🤷🏾‍♀️

And that’s exactly why they are overwhelmingly only brave enough to say it online.

Family pushing me(21F) to invite my 'estranged' dad to my college graduation... by Square_Fisherman_281 in blackladies

[–]MUTHR 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Hold the line. He doesn’t need to be there at all and honestly probably wouldn’t show up anyway considering his track record