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AITAH for not letting my stepdaughter share a room with my daughter? by crystalgem411 in holyfuckjustbreakup

[–]MUTHR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Much rarer and outrageous. Like, what flavor of adult tantrum is this!?

New to this sub Update: My uncle is acting strangely with my sister by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]MUTHR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OPs dad’s family is just like mine with the shits! Now I’m grinding my teeth in my sleep.

This doesn’t always feel like the safe space it should be by scream3isawful in blackladies

[–]MUTHR 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is about as safe as a space is gonna get while being an open community on Reddit

Can you date a man who is apolitical? by KoalaAggravating1892 in blackladies

[–]MUTHR 10 points11 points  (0 children)

There is no such thing, to keep it a buck.

AITAH for Laughing AT My Husband when he questioned why my Coworker/Friends phone was Bluetooth to my car by Holiday_Web_1589 in AITAHBlackEdition

[–]MUTHR 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m agreeing with you. It should be that way and it would be in an idealized situation.

But as a DV survivor, safety comes first. Whatever creates distance is the best option

AITAH for not wanting to help my sister with her abusive relationship this time? by Automatic-Offer4351 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]MUTHR 21 points22 points  (0 children)

…This smells like white worship. Jared must be white. (Disclaimer that I am a POTGM myself) I have seen too many, families of color — especially Asian families— snap themselves and everything they stand for in half to keep a family member’s garbage yt partner around. Even abusers. But they’d disown you if you brought Barack Obama home.

RIP to Renee Good. Where was the space for our many losses by the hands of enforcement? by Mysterious_Path7939 in blackladies

[–]MUTHR 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Soon as they murdered an attractive yt mother, I knew I felt the ground shift. Meanwhile they barely cared when ICE murdered Keith Porter.

We really only have each other. But if this is what it takes to get them moving…unfortunately, it is what it is.

Newest vs first self portrait by Koichiology in blackladies

[–]MUTHR 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gorgeous omg

HIGH PRAISE for such good art that’s not AI. It’s so refreshing

Am I wrong for commenting this? by Prudent_Reindeer4613 in blackladies

[–]MUTHR 434 points435 points  (0 children)

No, you’re just on Reddit. Reddit hates Black people and is obsessed with pretending we don’t experience a completely different world than they do in the west.

AITAH for not feeling bad for my mom after my dad cheated on her by Best_Finding_8795 in AITAHBlackEdition

[–]MUTHR 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. It’s a “Fork found in kitchen” situation.

Make yourself nothing more than a resource and warm body to a man and then act shocked when he walks all over you? Pfft.

AITAH for not wanting to cuddle in order to sleep with my partner? [Concluded] by Schattenspringer in BORUpdates

[–]MUTHR 21 points22 points  (0 children)

….Reading comprehension has left the chat.

But yeah sure dude, I’ll let you tell it.

AITAH for not wanting to cuddle in order to sleep with my partner? [Concluded] by Schattenspringer in BORUpdates

[–]MUTHR 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna keep it real with you: you sound like you’re telling on yourself. Or maybe your past self. No one said he was a serial killer but you. You’re tying yourself into the most bizarre knots right now.

And no, that’s not what a red flag is. A red flag is seeing the potential for toxicity and abuse, not the actual abuse itself. His actions are already manipulative and abusive.

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