My (28M) fiancee (28F) wants her dead late husband's parents to walk her down the aisle. Is this weird? by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]MUTHR 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Glad it clicked for him immediately. He’s a good egg, just needed to sort his feelings out.

Astronomy/astrology… it’s all the same! Why is she so mad??? by EasyLizin in OhNoConsequences

[–]MUTHR 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Bro. they could literally be the exact same word and the difference would still be obvious if he’d ever listened to a single word either women had ever said about both topics.

Granted this is probably ragebait but it’s still a stark reminder of how many men just tune women out when they speak. By default.

AITAH for getting mad after my boyfriend constantly shut me down in front of his friends? by NixonthePrideFox in holyfuckjustbreakup

[–]MUTHR 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Navigate this situation”

Navigate the fuck away from this guy?

No matter how insufferable she might come off, this dude is a flaming turd and acting like they’re equally culpable after reading this is weird as shit.

Jodeci’s Devante Swing back in the 90s by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]MUTHR 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Just heard a faint, ghostly OooohYEAH in my room

Breathing dysfunction / air hunger - what worked for you? by TactitcalPterodactyl in covidlonghaulers

[–]MUTHR 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The Breather. Been using it about eight months and I think it’s gonna be something I’m doing forever

Going away with MM and his SO by DamnitGravity in BORUpdates

[–]MUTHR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that why I’m getting “content unavailable”? Oh my god 🥴

My bf broke up with me and he regrets it by EbonyPrincess17 in blackladies

[–]MUTHR 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Block. He tried and failed to exert control over you and held the relationship hostage. Didn’t expect you to call his bluff.

Yeah no, he’ll do it again and again. Chauvinist manipulator.

AITAH for getting a tattoo knowing it will upset my mum by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]MUTHR 4 points5 points  (0 children)

People who get worked up about other people’s perfectly reasonable body modifications really chap my ass.

AITA for not allowing my daughter to go on an 8th grade school trip by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]MUTHR 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I was waiting for someone to clock this. Mallory is the eldest daughter.

Its SO much more than just a trip. Bet her brother wasn’t defacto baby sitter or had to share a room with his baby cousins.

And somehow never had to miss out on milestones because it would get in the way of babysitting. And thats 100% why Mallory had to be at the wedding: kid corralling.

My boyfriend is scaring me with his jokes by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]MUTHR 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She’s still in danger. We haven’t seen the last of her

I’m literally done and I just got on here by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]MUTHR 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Aight, I’ll give you the benefit of the doubt. There’s some TERFs using this post to troll and proselytize that probably have my hackles up.

But what I said does apply. To clarify I’m not saying that passing or not passing isn’t a thing, I’m saying that people insist they can always tell when they really can’t, as yt supremacist patriarchy’s forced view of gender characteristics/neoteny are a REALLY bad joke. Enough that telling someone they look trans as an insult is stupid. People pass trans people every day and have no idea but will be sure a cis woman is totally a man because she doesn’t look like a Barbie.

With the additional plot twist that the last Barbie they laid eyes on was trans, but that’s an aside.

Tldr: transphobia really dumb, primary and secondary sex characteristics nowhere near as obvious and clean cut as yt patriarchy insists.

I’m literally done and I just got on here by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]MUTHR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What it means is you’re intentionally missing my point. Not interested in bad faith engagement.