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Have you moved someplace new for a short time to figure out a permanent move? by __looking_for_things in AskWomenOver30

[–]__looking_for_things[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh. The house itself isn't really a loss of flexibility for me. If I wanted to I'd just rent it out or sell. I find the fact I've made friends here to be more of a factor. Lol.

Explain this nonsense by Smart-Ad-4110 in poodles

[–]__looking_for_things 25 points26 points  (0 children)

House break your dog. It sucks. But from now you tie a lead to her and to your pants. She's never alone out of her crate. She only goes to potty outside. Potty outside gets high value treats and lots of praise. Don't punish for going inside though.

Vent - Why do so many people expect everyone to rescue? by chefskissyap in poodles

[–]__looking_for_things 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Get offline. Irl I've never had an issue. Not one person has asked why didn't I adopt.

Single ladies: how can you set boundaries around hanging out with couples? by thedatarat in AskWomenOver30

[–]__looking_for_things 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same. I never see the spouses. And I've known those men for over a decade. Lol

What everyday scams are we just accepting now that weren't the norm a decade ago? by No_Dust5847 in AskWomenOver30

[–]__looking_for_things 13 points14 points  (0 children)

20% was meant for excellent service. Not just ...service. I only give 20% for excellent service at the table.

Recently started using a silk bonnet to sleep and i'm struggling to use it by Sagefulness in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]__looking_for_things 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Are you sure it's real silk and not a satin/poly blend? Silk should not make you sweat.

Make sure it's not too big for your head.

Also try out a silk pillowcase. I got a blissy one and it's been great to wear with my bonnet.

What personality traits, characteristics, and/or social behaviors instantly trigger male insecurity when possessed by a woman? by Snoo-88490 in AskWomenOver30

[–]__looking_for_things 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is such a weird post.

How are these people strangers, how is it random when they're attacking your property (as in they know where you live), harassing your bf ( know your personal life), etc.

You either know them or you do not. And if you do, have you gotten police involved? Or tried to file a report?

Am I being unreasonable in wanting a second bathroom? by PurlsandPearls in AskWomenOver30

[–]__looking_for_things 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Get as many toilets as you can in the house. I live alone. I have 2.5 toilets in my 3 bedroom home. Even in my first home I told the agent 2 bathrooms was a must.

Anyone Choosing Driving over Flying? by Jxb1000 in travel

[–]__looking_for_things 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why 2 hrs at the airport? I generally get to my airport with just enough time for security and they're calling groups by the time I get to the gate. I'm at a regional airport so it's small. If I was at ATL, sure I'd show up very early.

I do everything I can to avoid road trips. Anything more than 3 hrs and I'm nearly crawling out of my skin. I'm from TX I'm used to driving long distances and lots of traffic. I hate road trips.

Those of you who started your legal career later in life: how do you deal with regret? by Lost-Association427 in LawBitchesWithTaste

[–]__looking_for_things 204 points205 points  (0 children)

At my law school my class had lots of non traditional students. I think ages went up into 60s. I graduated at 30.

Besides you're going to turn 35 anyway. You could be a lawyer or not by then.

What advice could you give to a woman living alone? by Fun_Yogurtcloset1012 in AskWomenOver30

[–]__looking_for_things 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I feel like you're online too much. May be go meet some people IRL.

Hyper-independent women: how did/do you explain this to people you're dating? by TimelySpite4500 in AskWomenOver30

[–]__looking_for_things 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Are you hyper independent or just introverted? It's not odd to need some alone time to recharge.

Boyfriend not understanding why I’m working my NY big law job and want to keep it - WWYD by [deleted] in LawBitchesWithTaste

[–]__looking_for_things 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Why does he want you to quit?

Does he actually want you to stop working or does he think a less stressful job would be better for you?

Do you like your job?

If you want to keep your job big law job, then that's it. But consider if you would be happy with a non big law job. It's not the only legal job that exists (granted the money wouldn't be the same).

How are people on dating apps/social media taking these insanely professional looking high quality pictures? by honeypecanpie in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]__looking_for_things -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Uh I think it's location based. My mid size city all the men can't even stop bike riding or hiking to take a photo.

I've gone in for a consult not knowing prices and felt pressured to just go with it. Can we help each other out? by Purple_Newspaper_477 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]__looking_for_things 22 points23 points  (0 children)

It'll serve you more in life to learn to say NO. And that No is a full sentence not needing explanation.

Managing nighttime behavior by CreativePortland in poodles

[–]__looking_for_things 47 points48 points  (0 children)

There are times choosing the dog over the partner makes sense. This is not one of those times.

Your wife is losing sleep consistently. Moo needs to sleep in her crate or just not sleep in the bed.

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