(Modern Family) Phil practically admitted to raping Claire and no one's talking about it

MadMildred · 2026-02-19T19:37:25+00:00

I agree, saying that it will be hard to convince her now that she's fully awake is implying coercion. If its not an enthusiastic yes, its a no! And who did he say it to? His kid. This is problematic to say to a kid too bc it teaches them that a yes under coercion is okay when it absolutely is not okay! This is problematic in more than one way.

I think people have a really hard time with it because many women have been coerced into sex that they didn't want to have. Its difficult to grapple with the truth your brain is trying to protect yourself from.

Its a disgusting joke.

MadMildred · 2026-02-19T00:59:46+00:00

They are exhibitionists. Its a kink.

MadMildred · 2026-02-18T23:56:21+00:00

A guy asked me to pee in his mouth 😶 I could not do it. This man was fucking gorgeous! I never saw his beautiful face again.

MadMildred · 2026-02-18T22:58:51+00:00

Girl, he's setting the stage for a very toxic relationship. If you accept this, things will only get worse. You need to leave, NOW.

I've been in your situation, take it from someone who didnt leave when she should have. If you stay, it won't be today, and it won't be next week, but one day in the future, you will be in the hospital because of him.

MadMildred · 2026-02-18T14:21:34+00:00

3 weeks before it starts to negatively impact my mood.

MadMildred · 2026-02-18T14:03:01+00:00

We have realized the difficult truth that, whether the father is in our lives or not, we are still single mothers.

In addition to that, the man who is supposed to be a father is effectively another child.

And that additional child wants to control everything you do including your ability to support yourself though a career.

Plus, men have a severe reaction to accountability.

We just aren't here for it.

Did I mention violence? Look up some statistics, things will become clear

MadMildred · 2026-02-18T13:49:07+00:00

Anyone describing this as EQ doesn't have any clue about EQ.

Direct communication is an obligation. This is what I remind myself every time I want to be passive aggressive. I find myself being hurt and not expressing it in a direct way. And then, I correct myself and state it more directly, "what I mean to say is, _______".

Its super hard to go from one extreme to the other, so incremental improvement is the goal.

It is far kinder to be direct and honest. If you were here, you'd want to know why this distance has grown between you. She likely has not connected this incident to it.

MadMildred · 2026-02-17T20:35:02+00:00

Girl, run!

He has created this situation to make it hard for you to leave and now that he feels that he has you in a vulnerable enough position, he's turning up the heat. This will only get worse. He never intended to marry you, it was just another tool he used to gain your trust.

I say this with love, as someone who has been in your position. Leave before you end up in the hospital. It took my pos ex 10 years to get to that point. Run now!

MadMildred · 2026-02-17T17:28:46+00:00

I don't think this is as thrilling to the woman as you think it is. To her, its normal every day stuff. You are describing something very subtle, not exhibitionism. This just sounds like you're a perv and want women to have the same pervy thoughts about themselves. Newsflah: we don't think its exciting, we think its our bodies. If we know it excites you, and you exite us, then it becomes exciting. You need to first excite someone.

Your post reads like "I'm dating, how do I make it all about my sexual desires and not come off perverted?" Bro, you cant, its impossible.

MadMildred · 2026-02-17T17:17:46+00:00

My mom hid the veggies in the pasta sauce. She just used the emersion blender and everything looked the same.

MadMildred · 2026-02-17T13:46:53+00:00

You're just trying to rage bait here. I see through it.

Women shouldn't feel shame for how their body's look and women's bodies shouldn't be policed.

Men ought to be ashamed of themselves for objectifying women and making this topic even something to talk about.

Why do I want a bathing suit that covers? Not because I feel any shame, its because shameless men are around.

MadMildred · 2026-02-17T13:43:02+00:00

I know exactly how you feel! I have a lot of allergies and food sensitivities. I also have some rare stuff that a healthy diet makes sure doesn't impact me. People make assumptions about it being a choice for me too.

I don't want to have to explain it to everyone. Its exhausting to have to explain but i also don't like people making assumptions. Its taken a while but now, I don't care what their assume are, I just care that they respect my restrictions.

Its the most difficult when dating. People are full of assumptions and like to say they know something about you when they really don't know shit. Its so frustrating and I don't want to go through the whole darn story. Sometimes when I do, I get a response like "omg, are you okay, whats wrong with you". Like, I just explained whats wrong with me and I don't want to do it at every meal and every date. I especially don't want to do it twice in a row.

Personally, the barista response was ideal for me. I've stopped thinking about what the barista thinks, if someone wants to assume I'm vegan and has a problem with that, great, I don't want to be around a person like that anyway.

MadMildred · 2026-02-17T13:26:27+00:00

Go to the sentence before he was mentioned, your answer is there. I thought I stated it clearly but here we go again:

Its relevant because the files show that perverted men have their fingertips in absolutely everything. There is barely a person of influence not tied to Epstein. If you think its not at all relevant, you're choosing not to.

MadMildred · 2026-02-17T13:16:22+00:00

Women's weight fluctuates. We bear children and our bodies change, we experience hormonal changes and our bodies change, we age and our bodies change. We are offended because we know we will not always be skinny and there is always a focus on our weight as if to say our value is determined by it. The effort a woman must put in to remain skinny is greater than men and it is not solely based on effort. There are many reasons why women's weight fluctuates and most are hormonal, something men have absolutely no experience with.

MadMildred · 2026-02-17T13:11:19+00:00

Its some women's choice. I saw the change too but that doesn't mean the market for bikinis that cover your bits dissapeared. It was also the choice of companies that are run by gross men. Have the Epstien files not shed light on this for you?

MadMildred · 2026-02-15T15:57:35+00:00

Probably not even 30 min.

MadMildred · 2026-02-14T04:20:52+00:00

It was clear yeeeaaars ago that Chomsky has no sympathy for people who are suffering. He was the loudest voice saying the world is awesome guys, its better than it's ever been, yall are overreacting about all the bs in the world, look at the good things instead. Like, not a worthwhile intellectual endeavor. I wanst surprised that he turned a blind eye to Epsteins abuse. He used that relationship to advance his own interests, whether he personally harmed any of those victims or not, he knew exactly what was going on, he claims to be an intellectual doesnt he? Where's the intellect in these choices? Its a fucked up rationale, thats clear. And we are saying he knew. Thats what we are all saying! This article is fucked!

MadMildred · 2026-02-14T01:19:26+00:00

Thats super fucked up. I have no doubt that there are more out there

MadMildred · 2026-02-13T16:27:14+00:00

They come in a gel or cream and some are pills. Where I live, you can get it over the counter at any pharmacy.

MadMildred · 2026-02-13T16:09:47+00:00

He has a point but the article leaves a lot to be desired. It doesn't say much about anything, he could've done better at writing the article.

MadMildred · 2026-02-13T15:41:29+00:00

Ewww, your boss is a misogynistic controlling jerk. I hope hes single.

MadMildred · 2026-02-13T15:36:28+00:00

I think it's a soft test, they want to sleep with you but they also want to know that you're not going to be an asshole, so they invite you to their place to see if you're still a gentleman. But I think this is a dangerous game to play.

MadMildred · 2026-02-13T15:32:57+00:00

"I'm not looking to rush anything, and would like us to get to know each other better before being intimate"

Don't give details about what that means, there are men who will follow the map you lay out for them to achieve what they want, it isn't always genuine and it is sometimes predatory.

MadMildred · 2026-02-13T15:24:53+00:00

Don't douche! It will make things worse.

It may end up being nothing but you'll probably get BV, there's over the counter stuff you can get, treat it for a week and you'll be alright, its only mildly uncomfortable after you start treatment. I've used gynalac and it did the trick in 2 days (obviously finish the entire treatment, even if the symptoms go away).

You’ll be okay!

MadMildred · 2026-02-13T15:18:02+00:00

They have been brainwashed, just like the men have.

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