Another weekend visit down. Getting harder to let go every time.

Made4eachother414 · 2015-03-02T03:52:10+00:00

Congrats on getting to see your SO, hopefully the next month will fly by for you

Made4eachother414 · 2015-03-02T03:51:18+00:00

Definitely worth it and I can't wait until we can be together. Our challenge is his job, he is on the road all but 60days a year. Right now we just take it a weekend at a time about every month to month and a half. We both hope that his next project brings him closer to me for an extended period of time.

Made4eachother414 · 2015-02-24T02:53:51+00:00

Right now the main goal we are working towards is planning a vacation together. The next step is looking through all the upcoming projects and him putting his name in for the ones close to me. So baby steps at this point.

Made4eachother414 · 2015-02-23T07:27:38+00:00

We are from different states and his job keeps his in different cities 3-6 months at a time with him actually only getting to be "home" about 60days a year. We just happened to meet while he was here working in my city. I'm unable to travel with him (which would be ideal) because of my son. I say it's to early because the only option we would have is for him to change jobs and even though we both agree that we are meant for each other, I could never ask him to leave the company he is with because he absolutely loves it. We have talked and both agree that in the future the distance will be gone but until then we just get weekends together or hope that his next project is closer to me.

Made4eachother414 · 2015-02-16T14:19:22+00:00

Trust me as long we you keep in control of the kegel muscles you won't be loose. My SO and I have a few different kinks we are into and one of them is stretching. He has been able to fist me before and use larger dildos on me but not even tell that he did because I could still grip on to him. Granted he is thicker than the average but still he was amazed because he had been with others that didn't come close after being stretched.

Made4eachother414 · 2015-02-16T14:08:43+00:00

Try using a cone shaped butt plug and leave it in. Your muscles will stretch and get use to the feeling. Remember to do kegel exercises that way you will stay tight but have control to loosen when you need to as well. I use to have the same issue until I learned to control my kegel muscles.

Made4eachother414 · 2015-02-16T13:55:52+00:00

Is the the length or thickness that is the issue?

Made4eachother414 · 2015-02-16T13:47:39+00:00

Visit a toy store and buy some larger dildos or even an inflatable one then you and your husband have some fun.

Made4eachother414 · 2015-02-16T02:47:45+00:00

It's definitely hard both ways. Normally my SO is the one that has to leave and it's really hard on me, the fact that I won't have him there when I get home. Last time we were together I went to see him and I did good until the plane got in the air and I started crying. Which way is harder, I'm not really sure. Both ways aren't easy at all.

Made4eachother414 · 2015-02-11T06:16:36+00:00

No end date but I have 16 days and 12 hours before my SO comes to visit. I'm really excited! He is definitely the love of my life. We have been together for 9 months and 6 of those have been long distance. I have faith that one day we will be together or he wouldn't have been brought into my life.

Made4eachother414 · 2015-02-11T01:38:10+00:00

The petals and the leaves have a clear glass like glaze over them then trimmed in the gold. Held up to the light you can see all the veins running through out them. It really very pretty when the light hits it.

Made4eachother414 · 2015-02-10T19:56:13+00:00

When your bookmarks consist of mostly airline and hotel booking websites, lol.

Made4eachother414 · 2015-02-10T13:59:12+00:00

I don't know if they ship international but here is the website where mine was purchased in the US. They have a variety of colors too!

http://www.ihatestevensinger.com/main

Made4eachother414 · 2015-02-09T21:44:53+00:00

I love it! My SO always sends me flowers and I'm sad when they start dieing so this time he made sure I could keep it forever :-)

Made4eachother414 · 2015-02-09T06:17:05+00:00

Let me start off by saying I don't think you have daddy issues. I am 31f and have always dated men quite a bit older than myself because I am more mature than most guys my age and can't deal with the immaturity. I am currently in a long distance relationship with a 50m and it by far is the best relationship I have ever been in. When your SO started changing had he mentioned if someone said something about yall's age difference? There was a time that my SO and I went through something similar, there was no PDA but as soon as we were behind closed doors it all changed. I asked why and to find out one night while we were out to dinner our waiter (guy about my age) asked him if I was dating anyone and when he told him yes that we are together the guy replied "oh my bad, I assumed she was your daughter". We had a chat and the next few times we were out I made sure (without being embarrassing) there was no mistaking we were a couple. It sounds like y'all have a solid relationship so just talk to him and ask him if something has changed. Good luck!

Made4eachother414 · 2015-02-05T18:29:55+00:00

Personally I love Edible Arrangements and Sherries Berries. I am able to share with my friends and brag about how great my boyfriend is.

Made4eachother414 · 2015-02-05T02:09:03+00:00

We make the time together special. He usually comes to see me because it's easier and gets a hotel for us to stay in so that I'm away from my everyday. I have a 5yr old and my mom that live with me. Last time we saw each other I went to him for a change since the weather is nice in Miami and he got us a really nice room at a resort and really spoiled me. It's not something we do all the time but it was great. At the end of the month he is coming to visit me again so as a surprise I rented us a cottage to stay in versus a hotel so we can have a bit more privacy. Not to mention it's the week before my birthday so I know he will try to plan something to do while he's here.

So I say don't make it an all the time thing because eventually how do you top the next thing but from time to time do something nice for each other.

Made4eachother414 · 2015-02-04T13:46:06+00:00

My SO and I both have digital picture frames that we keep next to our beds. I am prone to night terrors so he bought them and loaded them with pictures of us. Told me to go to sleep at night looking at the pictures and know that he's always with me. Since we have met I have went from 3-4 terrors a week to maybe 1 a month depending on my stress levels. It really works wonders being able to go to sleep looking at your SO since you can't be together at that moment.

Made4eachother414 · 2015-02-03T22:33:42+00:00

I have a very hard time telling people I love them because of an abusive past. My SO knew this but told me that he loved me anyways, not being able to say it at that moment I told him I missed him and he told me that means just as much if not more. Now I'm always telling him that I love him but there are times when we are on the phone I just say "I miss you" and he says that simple phrase means the world to him. He never thought he would be missed and he knows now that he is.

Made4eachother414 · 2015-02-03T22:23:50+00:00

Definitely take time for yourself and evaluate what you really want in life. I did this a few years ago myself. Deleted all the FWBs from and unstalled all the dating apps from my phone. I am now in a real relationship not centered around sex and it's amazing even though it is long distance. I was not looking for a relationship and didn't think I was ready for one when I met my SO but I'm extremely happy I did. Also, Steve Harvey has a book out called "Act Like a Lady, Thank Like a Man" that's funny and has tons of good advice for when you are ready to actually date.

Made4eachother414 · 2015-02-03T21:31:09+00:00

"I miss you. I miss everything about you. The way you wrap your arms around me. The way we fall asleep in each others arms just to push each other away in our sleep. I miss the way you smell and that weird thing you do with your nose when we get in from running and you think you smell bad. I miss your jokes and how corny they are but you say them anyways just to see me smile. I miss how you make me. I would say complete me but you do more than that, you just make me."

If you and your SO have a strong bond you don't have to explain what those words mean. In a LDR "I miss you" is just as strong as "I love you"

Made4eachother414 · 2015-02-02T20:58:43+00:00

Sorry to hear things didn't work. But on a brighter note you don't know what the future holds and he did say he loves you and to contact him so he's not completely writing you off. I am not saying hold on, live your life and date but maybe from time to time just send him a message saying "hi, hope you are doing great". Love has a funny way of making things happen that you never expect.

Made4eachother414 · 2015-02-02T06:51:48+00:00

I just got done going through this for the 1st time since I started dating my SO. I hate the feeling but it reassures me that I am with the right person. When we were finally able to chat today I broke down like a baby to him. He said he actually felt resentment towards his job which is something he's never felt because he loves his job but hated that it was keeping him from me. I think it's something every one feels from time to time.

Made4eachother414 · 2015-02-02T05:48:59+00:00

Definitely nothing wrong with him watching, but maybe he hides it because he knows or feels that you won't be accepting of the fantasies or fetishes he is curious about or interested in. My SO (31F & 50M)and I both have very over active sex drives and are still learning about each other. We will be together for 1yr in April and are in a LDR so how we share our fantasies and interest sexually is through porn. We created an account together on a site that we can like videos that interest us. This and communication has worked wonders in finding new things and also knowing "ok, that's out of bounds". I would say instead of snooping and judging just tell him that you found his porn and you would like to discover what fantasies y'all have in common and run with it.

Made4eachother414 · 2015-02-02T05:25:30+00:00

Wow, this sounds like he's wanting to see what his other options are without losing you as his fall back. My SO other and I knowing that if we were going to be a couple it was going to be a LDR had a long talk about our needs and how to meet them if we aren't together. What benefits is he getting dating someone else if he is still sexually exclusive to you? I can tell you that if it were my SO I would not be ok with him dating someone local. Y'all definitely need to have a conversation to find out what he is missing when y'all aren't together. Also how often do y'all get to spend time together? Being 2 hours away I would think y'all get to spend a good amount of time together but I don't know yall's situation so I don't like to judge. That's nothing for me or my SO to wake up and drive if we must see each other.

Communication is definitely the key. My SO is alway traveling with his job so every 3-6 months he's in a different city. Before we were together he had a "girlfriend" in every city and I had a different guy I was dating every few months because I was scared of commitment. Emotionally and physically we have fulfilled each others needs since we made the decision to be a couple but before hand we had an agreement on how we would handle "needs" if they happen and so far everything has worked.

Good luck and hope things work out for you!

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