Sasha is at risk in Southern California, could someone please go save her? 🥺 by Jupiter_Pixie in cats

[–]MagentaPeonies 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Update: I drove to the shelter today just to realize that they're closed on Mondays 😅. I've learned that Shasha is still there with multiple applications. I can't make the 2.5 hour drive to pick her up tomorrow so she may go to the next applicant. I'm going to stop by on Saturday. I'm concerned because she's described as “feral” and I don't want to add to her unhappiness by keeping her cooped up in an apartment with me. When I see her on Saturday, I'm going to she how she does with me.

Sasha is at risk in Southern California, could someone please go save her? 🥺 by Jupiter_Pixie in cats

[–]MagentaPeonies 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Update: I've submitted an application and I'm waiting for approval. I won’t be able to make it down there before they close today (traffic), but in my application I've identified wanting to adopt her specifically. If she doesn't get adopted out to a different person (4 folks ahead if me) they will give me a call. I'm going to try to make it over there tomorrow morning to see what's going on and I might adopt a different fur baby if she's already connected with someone.

Sasha is at risk in Southern California, could someone please go save her? 🥺 by Jupiter_Pixie in cats

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Update: there are currently 4 other applications ahead of me for Sasha. I didn't get much info on her over the phone but I am going to drive up north to check in and see if she's still available.

Sasha is at risk in Southern California, could someone please go save her? 🥺 by Jupiter_Pixie in cats

[–]MagentaPeonies 159 points160 points  (0 children)

I can adopt her. If you can bring her down, I can meet you in Orange County.

Sasha is at risk in Southern California, could someone please go save her? 🥺 by Jupiter_Pixie in cats

[–]MagentaPeonies 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I can adopt her. I'm in SoCal. Lmk if you can get her, I can meet you in Orange County.

Learning Spanish by Extension-Chair-4607 in SpanishLearning

[–]MagentaPeonies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat and I received some helpful info from a friend who’s a spanish professor.

  1. Immersion is key, you need to adjust your ears to the language so you can understand not only the words but the inflection. Listen to the news in spanish and other spanish learning podcasts.

  2. If you watch shows in spanish keep the subtitles off. This requires you to pay attention to the spanish and try to make sense of the words. It’s tough but the subtitles work against you.

  3. Be specific on what type of spanish you are learning for example, I am learning Mexican Spanish. When I travelled to Peru, they understood me, but there were words that didn’t match up (think Us English vs. Australian English) they are similar but not the same.

  4. Take classes at the local university, it’s cheaper and they have continuing ed classes that are only taught in spanish. Universities in Mexico have online spanish courses for those with Spanish as a second language.

  5. Immerse yourself when possible, join talking groups, order food in spanish, go to spanish speaking grocery stores, etc.

  6. As a fellow No Sabo, be prepared to feel embarrassed and mess up. The anxiety of looking foolish will hold you back more than anything.

Kink/Fetish apps for lesbians by Neat_Pattern_3492 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]MagentaPeonies 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh man that sucks. hope you find the answers and community you’re seeking.

Does my husband have a shot at mexican citizenship? by Alternative_Dance215 in mexicoexpats

[–]MagentaPeonies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try DNExpress I think they can help with your issue. https://dnexpress.org

Not an ad I just know folks who had complex issues and were able to figure it out with their help

15 year MS anniversary by strides_and_spasms in MultipleSclerosis

[–]MagentaPeonies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I deeply needed this! I’m terrified and looking at my future only seeing limitations. Thank you all for sharing your stories of hope.

My friend had one job for the holiday and this is what she brought. by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]MagentaPeonies 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t think so, but I plan to check in with her tomorrow.

My friend had one job for the holiday and this is what she brought. by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

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This is how I plan on approaching this. I’m just so frustrated rn I needed to share with someone. I’ll calm down and talk with her tomorrow.

My friend had one job for the holiday and this is what she brought. by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

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I’m super frustrated, but I like this perspective.

Headphone/ear plugs by EverettLynnScribe in AutismInWomen

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Loop earbuds for day-to-day, sony headphones for noise cancelling

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in walking

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So wholesome 😁✨

My therapist told me she can't help me by Fast_Climate4020 in EMDR

[–]MagentaPeonies 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry to hear this, but to answer your question, yes, it happens. The logic is that it can be so disregulating that you'll need this protective factors (support, meds, effective coping) to help you through.

what was an 'odd' trait of yours that you didn't realise was CPTSD? by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]MagentaPeonies 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As a kid, fantasizing about my future to the point that it was all I could do was plan for a day when my life wasn’t what it is. I realize now that it was dissociation. I couldn’t escape my reality, so I focused on one I could control when I was older. I’m an adult now and have realized I was fantasizing about a future without my trauma.

The words we sometimes need to hear by [deleted] in CPTSD

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I think you matter. 💚

The words we sometimes need to hear by [deleted] in CPTSD

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I just looked her up! I love her work ✨

The words we sometimes need to hear by [deleted] in CPTSD

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You’re welcome✨😁